Most couples don’t break up because of infidelity — they break up over money.
And worse? They never saw it coming.

In this episode, we’re breaking down the 5 biggest money mistakes that silently sabotage relationships… and how to actually fix them.

We’re joined by Heather and Douglas Bonaparth, the real-life couple behind the new book Money Together: How to Find Fairness in Your Relationship and Become an Unstoppable Financial Team. From navigating breadwinner role shifts, to recovering from resentment, to building a shared financial practice — they’ve lived it and now teach it.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your childhood money stories matter more than you think
• The biggest mistake couples make with “fairness”
• What to do when one partner earns more (and tension builds)
• How to protect your relationship as life seasons change
• The money practice every couple needs — no spreadsheet required

Whether you’re dating, married, or running a business together, these insights will help you build a healthier relationship with both money and each other.

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

Are you walking blind when it comes to your finances?

In this episode, Jessica and Brandon are going back to basics because too many people are waking up to financial realities way too late. They're breaking down why it’s so dangerous not to know where your money is, how your bills are being paid, or even what accounts exist. Whether you're married, partnered, or handling things solo, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shift to take back control.

We cover:

• The hidden risks of not knowing how your household finances work
• Why women are disproportionately affected and how to change that
• What “financial visibility” actually means (and how to get it)
• The first steps to organize your bills, accounts, and debt
• Tools we personally use to track everything in one place
• What to do today to protect yourself and your family

This isn’t about shame. It’s about empowerment. Let’s help you build a financial system that works even if life doesn’t go according to plan.

Show Notes:

• Sign up for Monarch Money
• Get our "When I Die" Guide 
• Episode 45: When I Die- A Guide to Support Loved Ones After You’re Gone

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

Ever wonder how someone with a full-time job builds serious wealth on the side? In this episode, we meet Ray Tran, a Brooklyn-based middle school teacher who has built a real estate portfolio of 583 units—all while still teaching financial literacy.

We dive into:

• The mindset shift that led Ray from saving to investing
• How he started with just one property and scaled up
• The truth about passive income (and what most people get wrong)
• How he teaches financial literacy to middle schoolers and adults
• Strategies first-gen families can use to build wealth

Whether you're curious about real estate, feeling stuck in your 9-5, or looking for a financial glow-up, this episode will challenge your thinking and inspire your next move.

Follow Ray:
Website: rtinvests.com

Email: [email protected]

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rtinvests

IG: @rt.invests

Facebook: https://facebook.com/rt.invests

TikTok: @rt.invests

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

What would you do with a $1,200 stimulus check?

In 2020, Ellie was broke, newly divorced, and raising four kids out of her mom’s house, when she made one powerful decision — to invest her $1200 stimulus check into herself. Fast forward: she’s built a multi-million dollar business empire, helped 60,000+ women, and started a new life in Senegal, where she’s continuing her entrepreneurial journey as a cafe and co-working space owner and real estate investor. 

In this episode, we dive into:

• How she stretched $1,200 into an LLC, website, and first product
• The moment her $15 course made $10K, then $1M
• Business credit vs personal credit — and what most people get wrong
• The power of sweat equity over paid ads
• Building a café & coworking space in Africa with zero experience

Ellie Diop shares the blueprint, the mindset, and the mistakes to avoid if you’re building a business from the bottom.

Notes from the show:

Join Ellie Diop's Ellievated Academy

Follow Ellie Talks Money on Instagram

Follow Ellie Talks Money on TikTok

Subscribe to Ellie Talks Money on YouTube

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

Most people blow through inheritance money in just a few months.
In this episode, Jessica and Brandon break down the 5-step plan to make sure a $50K windfall actually improves your life, instead of disappearing into lifestyle creep, bad investments, or impulsive spending.

✅ What to do in the first 90 days
✅ How to protect and grow sudden money
✅ Why most people get windfalls wrong
✅ Common traps with taxes, family, and fake friends

Whether you inherited $50K, got a surprise bonus, or won big — this episode shows you exactly what to do next.

🎙️ Got a story about blowing or building from sudden money? DM us @TheSugarDaddyPodcast or email us at [email protected]

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

Health insurance costs are climbing, and this year’s open enrollment feels tougher than ever. Premiums are up, deductibles are higher, and plans seem designed to confuse you. 

In this episode, Jess and Brandon walk through how to actually compare your options by looking at total yearly cost, not just the monthly premium. You’ll learn how to plan for high-cost years with surgeries or pregnancies versus lower-cost preventive years, and how to understand how network changes, prescriptions, and hidden fees can impact your real out-of-pocket costs.

They also break down the tools that help you fight rising healthcare costs:

• HSAs: triple tax advantages and long-term growth potential
• FSAs and Dependent Care FSAs: pre-tax savings for medical and childcare costs
• Short Term Disability: using it for maternity or recovery time
• Group Life and Disability Insurance: what’s covered and where the gaps are

If your health plan feels more expensive but offers less, this episode helps you make the smartest choice for your family and your wallet.

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

In this powerful episode, Jess and Brandon sit down with Ange Matthews, a first-generation investor and founder of The Happy Happy Method, who went from making $40K a year and battling six-figure debt to building seven-figure passive wealth. No trust fund, no finance degree, just side hustles, value investing, and mindset shifts that changed everything.

You’ll learn:

• How Ange invested while still in debt, and why she doesn’t believe in being debt-free before building wealth
• What the 2008 crash taught her about seeing downturns as opportunities
• The truth about accredited investing, and how it opens the door to angel deals, hotels, and private wealth
• Why she used her gains to fund maternity leave, caregiving, real estate and Broadway opportunities 

This is a no-jargon, story-driven guide for anyone curious about investing but unsure where to start. Whether you’re a busy parent, first-gen investor, or someone ready to move from consumer to owner, this episode breaks it down in a real and relatable way.

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Notes from the show:

The Happy Investor Method 

Free: The Happy Investor Method Guide 

The Happy Investor Method Instagram

Connect with Ange Matthews on LinkedIn

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

Confused about Roth vs Traditional IRAs? You're not alone.

In this episode, Jess and Brandon break down the pros, cons, and real-world impact of choosing a Roth IRA versus a Traditional IRA for your retirement game plan.

Learn how taxes, income levels, and long-term growth factor into the decision, and why the right choice could save you thousands down the road.

We cover:
– How Roth and Traditional IRAs actually work
– Which one fits different income brackets
– Tax implications now vs later
– Real-life scenarios to help you decide
– Common myths and costly mistakes

Whether you're just getting started or rethinking your retirement strategy, this episode gives you the clarity to move forward with confidence.

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

In this episode, Jessica and Brandon dive into a tricky but essential question: How soon should you bring up money when you're dating?

They unpack why money often feels taboo, share tips to start the conversation without tension, and explore real‐life stories about financial expectations, backgrounds, and values. Whether you're in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, you’ll get tools to help you be curious, open, and intentional in your relationships.

What You’ll Learn:

• How early is “too early” vs. “too late” to talk about things like debt, financial goals, and spending styles.
• Simple conversation starters that don’t feel intimidating.
• How upbringing & past financial habits influence what you expect (and need) in a partner.
• What to do if your partner resists having the money talk.

Questions we answer:

• Should you ask about money on date one, date two, or after you get more serious?
• What clues about a person’s financial mindset can you pick up in subtle ways?
• When is it okay to split bills 50/50 vs. proportionally?

If you’ve navigated this conversation well, or struggled badly, share your stories with us! We love hearing what works (and what doesn’t) in real life.        

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.

What If You Could Completely Transform Your Finances in Just 180 Days?

Forget overnight success stories and overwhelming budgets, this episode is about real, lasting change. Jess and Brandon are breaking down a six-month financial reset plan that shows you exactly how to take control of your money, no matter where you're starting. 

They’ll walk you through:

• The first step everyone skips (but shouldn't): Getting crystal clear on where your money is going
• The tools that simplify your entire money flow (yes, we’re talking Monarch Money)
• How to build an emergency fund without feeling broke
• Debt payoff strategies that actually match your personality (Snowball vs Avalanche)
• How automation becomes your secret weapon
• And why small, consistent wins are the key to long-term wealth

If your bank account isn’t reflecting the life you want, this episode gives you the roadmap to change that. In just six months, you can go from overwhelmed and disorganized to confident and in control.

Hit play and learn the exact steps to finally reset your finances, for good.

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Want to work together? Learn more about Brandon: https://www.oakcityfinancial.us/ 

Book a free 30-min call to see if it's a fit:  https://calendly.com/oakcityfinancial/introconvo

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Notes from the show:

Monarch Money

Ally Bank

Bankrate Credit Card Payoff Calculator

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations about love and finances. Our mission? To help couples and individuals grow rich in every sense of the word: emotionally, relationally and financially.