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September 30 151: We Got an Email From a 21 Year Old Doing Money Better Than Most
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Should you start investing if your job doesn't offer a 401k, or wait until life feels more stable?

A 21 year old listener who graduated college at 19 wrote in with that exact question. On paper she's doing almost everything right, yet she's stuck on what comes next. Jessica and Brandon walk through her numbers, give their honest take, and then zoom out to what every young adult should be doing to get ahead.

In this episode:
• Roth IRA now, or wait for a 401k?
• Paying off student loans vs investing
• The overlooked risk that can erase years of saving
• Why your parents' money advice may not fit your life
• A free finance book offer for listeners under 30
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
27 min
September 23 REWIND: 5 Open Enrollment Mistakes That Lock You In for a Year
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You get a couple of weeks to make a decision you're stuck with for 12 months. So how do you know you're actually picking the right plan?

Rewind: This episode originally aired in fall 2025. Plan details and limits change every year, but the process still works.

After watching their own premiums jump 17%, Jessica and Brandon open up their family's open enrollment process. Brandon shares the first thing he checks before comparing any plan, why the most expensive option often isn't the smartest one, and what a surgeon's disability policy taught him about being underinsured. Plus, a real time discovery about their own coverage that caught Brandon completely off guard.

In this episode:
• Why last year's plan isn't a safe default
• The one number to know before you choose
• When a pricier plan is worth it
• Disability insurance and the 60% gap
• HSA, FSA, and dependent care FSA basics
• Perks most people never use
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
44 min
September 16 150: The Trad Wife Trap Nobody Warns You About
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The trad wife life looks lovely online. But what happens when the fantasy fizzles and you have no income, no credit, and no way out?

Jessica and Brandon dig into the trad wife trend and the protections every stay at home spouse needs before giving up a paycheck. They cover why the influencers selling this life are quietly millionaires, what divorce really costs the non-earning partner, and the money rules that keep you from being left with nothing.

In this episode:
• Prenups, postnups, and the response that is a red flag
• Building credit and holding assets in your own name
• The spousal IRA a non-working partner can still fund
• Life and disability insurance that go both ways
• Full financial visibility at home
• The 10 year Social Security rule most people miss

Choose the life you want, just build a floor underneath it first.

New episodes every Wednesday.
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
42 min
September 09149: Emergency Fund Before Investing: Your First Financial Step
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Everyone online talks about investing. Almost no one talks about the account that makes investing possible: the emergency fund.

In this "back to basics" episode, Jessica and Brandon explain why a funded emergency fund comes before investing, and the one exception. They cover how much you actually need, where to keep it so inflation does not erode it, and why both a checking account and a brokerage account are the wrong home for it. They also share their own numbers, including the figure Jessica wanted after years in a volatile tech industry.

In this episode:
Why the emergency fund comes before investing
How much to save for your situation
The 5 year rule for saving versus investing
Where to keep it, and where not to
The one exception for employer retirement matches
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22 min
September 02 148: 5 Money Rules That Save You After Divorce
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What happens to your money when a marriage ends? Divorce doesn't just end a marriage, it ends a financial plan, and most people have no idea what to do next.

Jessica and Brandon break down rebuilding after divorce for all three sides: the one paying, the one receiving, and the spouse who walks away with almost nothing. They get into the parts nobody warns you about: how retirement accounts get split, why alimony no longer works in your favor at tax time, the credit hit from closing joint accounts, and the Social Security benefit you may be owed from an ex.

Plus the 5 rules for getting back on solid ground. Whether divorce is on your radar, in progress, or years behind you, this is the playbook that protects what you built.

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Show Notes:
Interested in getting a prenup or postnup? Contact Aaron Thomas
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
41 min
August 26 147: Do You Actually Know What It Costs to Be You? Build a Budget That Finally Sticks
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Before you can invest, pay off debt, buy the house, or book the trip, you need to know one number: what it actually costs to be you every month. Most people have a vibe, not a number. This week Jessica and Brandon go back to basics on cash flow and budgeting so you can finally see where your money goes and give every dollar a job.

👉🏽 The one number that drives every other money decision you make
👉🏽 The perception gap: why you're spending more than you think, and where it hides
👉🏽 The 3 bucket method: fixed, variable, and the periodic expenses that wreck most budgets
👉🏽 How to read your cash flow at a glance with Monarch Money
👉🏽 Pay yourself first, then automate everything so you never have to think about it
👉🏽 High-yield savings buckets that make saving actually doable
👉🏽 Why budgeting is not restriction, it is permission to live the life you want

We also love Ally for high-yield savings buckets: https://www.ally.com/referral?code=4R3J2Q3N3K
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
30 min
August 19 146: How ADHD is Draining Your Bank Account
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What if you were never "bad with money" at all? What if your brain is simply wired in a way that makes budgeting feel like swimming upstream?

In this episode, Jessica and Brandon dig into the connection almost nobody in personal finance talks about: ADHD and money. They break down why executive function makes bills, budgets, and impulse control genuinely harder, and why the standard "just be more disciplined" advice sets neurodivergent brains up to fail.

Jessica and Brandon also get into how ADHD shows up differently in men and women, the money patterns that quietly do the most damage (bill blindness even when the money is there, impulse spirals, feast-or-famine spending, analysis paralysis), and six systems you can build to work with your brain instead of against it, from automating everything to designing an environment that removes temptation before it starts.

You are not broken. You are not alone. And there is a plan that fits how your brain actually works.

New episodes every Wednesday.
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
52 min
August 12 145: We Took the Kids to Europe Instead of Summer Camp. Part 5 of 5: Nürnberg, Germany
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What does it actually cost to take a family of four across four countries for a month in Europe? In the finale of their five part European series, Jessica and Brandon share the full breakdown and what a month abroad really added up to.

This last leg brings them to Nürnberg, Germany, the city where Jessica grew up, for the longest and most personal stretch of the trip. Brandon and the kids meet her aunt, uncle, godparents, and cousins for the first time, all in the middle of a record breaking heat wave.

Brandon and Jessica also dig into the money side of family life. They compare what everyday activities cost in Europe versus the US, from a 200 euro a year sports club that covers an entire family to $45 parking, $40 movie tickets, and $100 museum trips back home. They explain how points and miles flew the family over for only the taxes, why a bottle of water can cost more than a beer, and how one question kept surfacing: could they actually move abroad?

Topics include family travel in Europe, traveling with kids, points and miles, travel hacking, the cost of raising a family, cost of living in Europe versus the US, moving abroad, dual citizenship, and Nuremberg travel.

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
40 min
August 05 144: We Took the Kids to Europe Instead of Summer Camp. Part 4 of 5: Amsterdam
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What does three nights in Amsterdam cost a family of four, and could you actually see yourself living there?

In part four of their month in Europe, Jessica and Brandon skip the crowded city center for a storybook town twenty minutes out, and it might be their favorite stay of the whole trip. Financial advisor Brandon lays out what those three nights really cost, while the two of them get into the bike tour they would never do again, the coffee shop mix up every traveling parent needs to hear, and the museum visit that stopped their kids in their tracks.

If you have ever wondered how to do Europe with kids on points and miles without blowing the budget, press play.

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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
20 min
July 29 143: We Took the Kids to Europe Instead of Summer Camp. Part 3 of 5: Disney Land Paris
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Is Disneyland Paris worth it, or is it the one part of your Europe trip you can skip without regret?

In Part 3 of the Europe travel series, Jessica and Brandon surprise their kids with three nights on property and reach a very honest verdict. They are not a Disney family, which might make them exactly who you want to hear from before you book.

They get into the number most people dance around: what a family of four actually paid to stay on property with park tickets included, and how it stacks up against Florida. As a financial advisor, Brandon wanted to test whether the kids even enjoy the parks before committing to a pricier US trip. The ride that made them question every parenting decision is a story the two will be telling for years.

You also get the strategies that made it work: magic hour, a divide and conquer breakfast plan, why they skipped the meal plan, and the free Disney planner who steered them away from the wrong choices. Plus what a brutal heat wave does to a day in the park with tired kids.

By the end, Jessica and Brandon answer what you are actually asking. Two nights or three? Book Paris just for Disney, or only add it if you are already in Europe? Then it is onto the train to Amsterdam for the next stop.

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Show Notes:
Rachel Chapman
SENIOR TRAVEL ADVISOR
ADVENTURE | LUXURY | FAMILY TRAVEL
Phone: 678-463-6157
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @RachelChapman.Travel (https://www.instagram.com/rachelchapman.travel/)

Courtney Gibson
Gold Senior Planner with Pixie Travel (https://www.pixietravelco.com/)
Specializing in Disney and Universal Vacations
Phone: 803-920-5596
Schedule a Call (https://calendly.com/courtneyg-uds/60-minute-meeting)

Facebook: Pixie Travel by Courtney (https://www.facebook.com/pixietravelbycourtney)
Instagram: @pixietravelbycourtney (https://www.instagram.com/pixietravelbycourtney/)
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Money, relationships, and the mindset to master both. Hosted by financial advisor Brandon and his wife Jessica, The Sugar Daddy Podcast breaks down how to build wealth, unpack old money beliefs, and have real conversations...
17 min