The Synchrony Podcast

Are you in a 'Situationship,' where there's an opportunity to deepen the dating relationship and it seems like nobody is taking it? In this episode, Steven and Megan define situationships and discuss the harmful impacts they have on the Church. They also provide you with some strategies to get out of these harmful dating patterns and move toward commitment. 

During the months June and July, any man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.

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In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about their ambitious (read: insane?) plan to get more men into the Synchrony Pipeline so more members of the community can be matched. For the months of June and July, anyone can refer single male friends and relatives to The Synchrony Project and will be entered into a drawing for $1,000! 

To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.

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In this episode, Steven and Megan celebrate the marriage of two Synchrony Community Members and get excited about what that means for the Project. They then do a deep dive into values-aligned marriage and how the marriage (by itself) isn't actually the goal of The Synchrony Project at all. 

P.S.--Don't forget to refer your single male friends and loved ones to Synchrony!

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If you struggle to make connections with new people, this one is for you. Dating barriers block connection and prevent others from seeing who you truly are and how closely you fit their values--they don't have anything to do with your personality or your identity. There are small, actionable changes you can make to improve your ability to make healthy connections, and we want to teach you how!

Synchrony Community Members: this course is FREE to you! Log in to join the challenge!

Non-members: you can purchase the Dating Barriers course here. Please let us know what you think!

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Telling Singles to "Wait on the Lord," is one of the oldest plays in our Apostolic Dating playbook, but it also might be encouraging Singles into a state of paralysis in their search for a partner. What if "waiting" didn't mean "stop looking?" In this episode, Megan interviews UPCI Minister Bro. Colin Taylor about his experience with Apostolic dating and with truly Apostolic "waiting" for his spouse. 

Happy Belated Mother's Day to our amazing Synchrony Moms!

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Hyphen--the young adult ministry of the UPCI--puts together amazing events to minister to the souls of young singles. But these aren't the right places to find dating partners, and we know because--we asked! In this episode you'll hear from 5 Hyphen members about their dating experience and the challenges they encounter. They also drop some GREAT advice on how potential partners could approach them and make their dating experience better. 

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What do women with advanced degrees and softspoken men have in common? In this episode, Steven and Megan discuss two types of Apostolic Singles who have a hard time finding their place in our dating culture, and unpack more about the difference between doctrine and culture and why it matters. 

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You may have a lot of questions about what actually goes on when you meet someone for the first time through The Synchrony Project, and in this episode Megan and Steven try to answer them all. They'll take you into the weeds of what happens before, during, and after a Synchrony Date so you know exactly what to expect. 

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You only need to know how to make two types of decisions in your dating journey: we call them  Type 1 and Type 2. In this episode Megan and Steven break down the details of what these decisions are and how you can move toward your relationship goals faster by leaning into high-velocity decision making.

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Men are supposed to be the "pursuers" in dating relationships, according to our culture. But what does that actually mean? What if our expectations for the pursuit are holding us back from real connection? In this episode, we talk about the expectation of pursuit, where it helps and hurts us, and some Biblical examples of women taking their own initiative in their relationships. 

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