The Synchrony Podcast

What if the way you're choosing potential dates is actually what's keeping you from finding someone? You could be prioritizing something that scripture warns us not to care too much about, and it could keep you from the spouse that you need. In this episode, Megan and Steven launch into a spirited, unfiltered conversation about the idol that most singles are secretly worshipping--even if they don't realize it themselves. 

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These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.  

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...  

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a  

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony  

Contact:  If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

This is the second in a two-part series about identifying values, and this time Megan and Steven are talking all about how you can ascertain what someone else's values are early on in a dating relationship. They'd like to make a special shoutout to Killer Whales for making this episode possible. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com  

Resources and Sales: 

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration  

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.  

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...  

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a  

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony  

Contact:  If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

What are your values, and why do they matter to your dating journey? The Synchrony Approach revolves around identifying and utilizing your values to match you with great dating partners. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down what your values are and why they matter to your relationships. There's more on this to come, so stay tuned for part 2!  

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com  

Resources and Sales: 

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration  

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.  

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...  

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a  

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony  

Contact:  If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

If the phrase "break up" makes you feel a bit squeamish, you probably need to listen to this episode. Healthy dating sometimes involves moving on when a relationship is no longer working, and very few of us are taught how to do it well. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss reasons why you may need to consider breaking off a relationship and how to do it in an Apostolic way. Spoiler: ghosting someone is never the answer!

Resources and Sales:

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

 

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

So, you met someone interesting--great! You're now in the "talking" phase, which is exciting, but also full of potential pitfalls and presents a real opportunity to slip unwittingly into a dreaded 'situationship.' In order to make this connection progress to a fulfilling relationship, you need to take some steps to make this period of time count, and move out of it quickly. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss how to make the "talking" phase short and sweet, and when you should consider ending it.

Resources and Sales:

#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

 

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

Humans look for signals, patterns, premonitions, and signs in everything, and sometimes we use those patterns to confirm what we want--not what God wants for us. In this episode Megan and Steven share their raw testimonies of how misreading 'signs' from the Lord led them down dark paths in their dating relationships, and how leaning on the Word led them back to Godly dating and ultimately, to each other.

Resources and Sales:

#Synchpin Registration:

https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration

These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a 

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at  [email protected]. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!

Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

If you're single in an Apostolic social space, it can be nearly impossible to know who around you is available for a dating relationship. We're making that easier! In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce Synchrony Pins (aka Synchpins), a wearable accessory that is EXCLUSIVELY for Apostolic Singles. Get yours for free at UPCI General Conference by visiting the Kaffe117 Booth, or register to have one shipped to you for just the average US-based shipping cost. 

Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.

Get Your Synchpin Here:

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Resources and Sales:

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a 

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at  [email protected]. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!

Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

"Follow your heart!" "Plenty of fish in the sea!" "When you meet him/her, you'll KNOW."
Apostolic singles hear these phrases all the time, but are any of them actually advice worth following? In this episode Megan and Steven look at the advice Synchrony Singles said they hear all the time and give you their (painfully) honest opinions about it. Buckle in!

Resources and Sales:

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a 

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at  [email protected]. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!

Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

Lots of research has shown that, on average, women trend toward partnerships with older men, and men trend toward partnerships with younger women. Do those trends hold up for our community of Apostolic Singles? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into the data on Synchrony respondents' age preferences, and discuss what that tells us about how we're seeking out dating partners. 

View a PDF of the charts from this episode: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ptnQ_img5YUXr-lurpNCujo_cnWO3vdS/view?usp=drive_link 

"Age Limits: Men and Women's Youngest and Oldest Considered and Actual Sex Partners," Antfolk, Jan. 2017. Evol Psychol. via the National Library of Medicine:  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10367477/

Resources and Sales:

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a 

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact:

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at  [email protected]. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!

Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com

We often talk about confidence as if it's an inborn quality--something that you either have or you don't. But confidence can be built, and in this episode Megan and Steven cover three key tips for cultivating the skill of confidence and bringing it into new dating interactions. Also, they tell some of their own very embarrassing stories along the way! 

Resources and Sales:

Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...

Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a 

Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony

Contact

If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at  [email protected]. 

Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!

Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit synchronyproject.substack.com