Marla & Jess wrote a book, The Ultimate Guide to Foreplay & Seduction! They’re having a virtual launch party to celebrate: Wednesday, June 24th at 7pm EST. Register to attend for free! 

In this week’s episode, Jess and Marla chat about their book launch as well as:

Marla’s thoughts on BLM

Pleasure as resistance

Sex Down South

What makes us seductive

How we entice our lovers

How we manage rejection

They work their way through one of the Lovers’ Inquiries in the book and encourage you to consider these questions/discussions prompts too:

What is the most seductive thing about you?

What have other people told you about your sex appeal? What do they say turns them on when it comes to your personality, behaviour or appearance?

What makes you anti-seductive? Would you like to change anything about your behaviour or approach?

What do people find curious about you? How do you entice others to be curious about you?

Do you consider yourself open-minded? Is there anything you would like to work on when it comes to keeping an open mind?

How do you handle rejection? How did you respond the last time you faced rejection (not limited to sex)? Do you want to adjust the way you think or behave moving

forward?

Do you tend to take things personally? What might you do differently in the future?

Do you find that you are present and mindful when you spend time with your lover(s) or on your own? What helps you to stay in the moment? What detracts you from

being mindful and present?

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Rough Transcript:

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The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay: An Exercise for Singles and Couples

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You're listening to the sacs with Dr. Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice. You can use tonight. Hey Welcome to the sex with Dr Jazz podcast Jess Riley here without my regular co-pilot, brandon wear, but just as fabulous I won't say better because Brennan might listen to this this podcast, but just as fabulous I have with me today via distance Marla Renee Stewart of fabulous professional sexologists, intimacy, relationships, sex, coach, speaker, and author, and she is the CO founder of sex down South which we'll talk about, but also the CO author of our most recent book, the ultimate guide to seduction and four play. MARLA thanks so much for chatting with me. Yes thank you so much for having me here. It makes cited to be here again. Incited to talk to you and you and I have been on a ton of podcasts promoting our book, but we haven't really sat down together and talked about it. No No, we've sat down and talked about other things. Yes met many things as of late, so I mean I should ask how you're doing right now. I know there's a lot of stuff going on in the world, a lot of heavy emotions being processed and oftentimes I think people want a separate sex as this mechanical or light or purely pleasure base topic from the political, but sexuality is highly political. Yeah? It's so interesting because you know. This is my life's work and I always believed that the personal is political.