In this episode Kathy dives into a topic every golfer (and human) can relate to: the frustration of not seeing results as quickly as we’d like. Whether it’s on the course or in life, we’ve all been tempted to quit when the payoff doesn’t match the effort. Kathy breaks down why this happens, how our brains play tricks on us, and what we can do to shift our mindset for better outcomes.

Learn how to:

• Identify the mental roadblocks that hold you back.
• Detach your self-worth from your performance.
• Replace impatience and shame with curiosity and acceptance.
• Use powerful questions to reframe your journey.
• Stop arguing with reality and embrace the process.

By the end, you’ll understand why you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be and how to grow from here.

Key Moments:

• [00:01] Introduction: Why quitting feels easier than pushing through.
• [05:30] The two types of quitting: The big quit vs. the little quit.
• [10:15] Why effort doesn’t always equal results in golf.
• [15:40] The shame spiral: How we attach self-worth to results.
• [20:00] Reframing expectations: How fast should progress happen?
• [25:10] The ultimate question: How do you think you’ll feel when you “get there”?
• [30:00] The secret to faster results: Feeling fulfilled right now.

Resources Mentioned:

• Think Above Par Membership: Join weekly calls and live coaching sessions with Kathy. Learn more here!
• Kathy Hart Wood website

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n this milestone 200th episode of Think Above Par,  Kathy dives into "10 Ways Golf Impacts Your Life." She shares heartfelt insights on how mastering the mental game of golf doesn't just improve your performance on the course but transforms your daily life. From managing emotions and building self-confidence to creating stronger relationships and even reducing road rage, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and inspiration. Tune in to celebrate this special episode and discover why working on your mental game is the gift that keeps on giving—on and off the course.

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This episode dives into the transformative power of gratitude both on and off the course. Learn how practicing thankfulness can boost your resilience, calm your nerves, and improve your golf game—even when you're struggling to find the fairway. With research-backed insights, practical tips, and relatable humor, this episode will help you shift your mindset and elevate your performance. Tune in, and discover why gratitude is the ultimate game-changer for golfers and life.

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In this inspiring and insightful interview, Kathy sits down with trailblazer Suzy Whaley, the first woman to become the President of the PGA of America and one of only a few women to have played in a PGA Tour event. Suzy shares her journey of breaking barriers in the male-dominated golf world, from qualifying for the Greater Hartford Open to leading one of golf's most influential organizations. The conversation dives into the challenges women face in the sport, the importance of fitting equipment, overcoming imposter syndrome, and the joy of playing golf without perfection. Suzy emphasizes the significance of enjoying the game, staying present, and giving yourself grace, whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned competitor. With humor and honesty, Suzy and Kathy discuss the importance of mindset, how to embrace competition, and ways to empower more women to own their place on the golf course.

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In this episode of Think Above Par, Coach Kathy dives into the power of three simple words: "I get to." Shifting from "I have to" to "I get to" can completely change how we approach both life and the golf course. Kathy shares personal stories, including a moment when this shift helped her reframe a difficult situation, and breaks down how this mindset shift creates gratitude, hope, and fulfillment instead of pressure and resentment. Whether you’re teeing off early or practicing in challenging conditions, this episode will inspire you to embrace your opportunities rather than feeling burdened by them.

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In this episode, Kathy dives into the sneaky world of golf intimidation—whether it’s that monster par-3 staring you down, the big-hitting player in your group, or that nagging feeling that’s got you second-guessing your game.

Kathy shares why intimidation is more about our thoughts than the hole or the person on the tee box next to us. You’ll learn why intimidation is just a choice (no, really!) and how to switch from feeling intimidated to feeling calm, confident, and ready to play your best.

Expect some laughs, “aha!” moments, and practical tips you can bring to the course this weekend.

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In this episode of Think Above Par, we’re excited to share a powerful interview with Dr. Alison Curdt, a dual PGA and LPGA Master Professional, and a clinical sports psychologist. Kathy and Dr. Curdt dive into the mental side of golf, exploring topics that affect golfers at all levels.  Dr. Curdt shares her unique approach to balancing golf coaching, psychology, and competition while still being an active competitor herself.

Key takeaways include:

• How self-concept impacts a golfer’s mindset and performance
• Embracing competitiveness as a strength, not a character flaw
• The importance of setting boundaries on and off the course to protect your mental game
• Why no one is watching you as closely as you think—understanding the “spotlight effect”
• How to nurture your mental game for lasting success

If you're ready to strengthen your golf brain, Dr. Curdt's insights will provide practical tips to shift your perspective and elevate your performance, whether you’re just starting or competing at a high level.

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Can you sense other people’s emotions or energy on the golf course?  This episode is all about the empathetic golfer—you know, the one who feels every vibe on the course, whether it’s the joy of a great shot or the tension of a missed putt. We’ll chat about how empathy, that beautiful gift, can shape your golf experience, sometimes for better, sometimes for worse. You’ll learn how to set boundaries, keep your cool, and, of course, give back those pesky ‘dust bunnies’ of negative energy that don’t belong to you. Tune in, laugh a little, and discover how to make your empathy work for you, not against you, on and off the course.

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In this episode of Think Above Par, Kathy dives into the secret language we use on the golf course—commands! You know the ones: “Don’t hit it in the bunker!” or “Get it to the hole!” But are these commands helping or hurting your game? Spoiler: Your brain doesn't like being bossed around (even by you!).

Kathy breaks down the types of commands we give ourselves on the course: swing commands, result commands, and feel commands. She explains why some are useful, while others might be putting extra pressure on your swing. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain seems to ignore that “don’t hit it in the water” directive, this episode is for you.

Whether you're a seasoned golfer or just getting started, Kathy’s tips will help you recognize the mental traps of golf commands and learn how to replace them with ones that actually work.

Key Takeaways:

• The three types of golf commands you give yourself
• Why negative commands (like “don’t”) never work
• How to identify commands that create calm and confidence
• Practical strategies to rewire your internal golf talk

Schedule of a clarity call here

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Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain

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All it takes is one shift in a way of thinking on the golf course or about your game. In this episode, Kathy unpacks the magic of "Chick-fil-A moments"—those little paradigm shifts that can change your game and your life. She’ll explore how looking at things from a new angle can unlock hidden opportunities on the course, from rethinking your approach to that nightmare hole to understanding why empathy for others (and yourself) makes a world of difference. Whether you’re a high handicapper or a seasoned pro, you’ll discover how small shifts in perspective can lead to big results. Tune in, get curious, and find your own aha moments!

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Mastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-Coaching

Mastering Your Golf Brain - The Workbook

Mental Golf Journal - A Range for Your Brain

Are all available at KathyHartWood.com/book

Private coaching starts with a Free Discovery Call here:

Email Kathy at [email protected]

Website: KathyHartWood.com