This one’s for the lovers out there.

You CAN have beautiful, flourishing, romantic relationships… if you do the work.

But what do you do when you’ve been working on yourself and your partner’s journey is only just beginning?

It can be really frustrating when you’ve unravelled your stories, healed your trauma and experienced real growth and expansion in your life and your partner isn’t quite there yet. 

We get impatient. 

“Why aren’t they making progress?”

“Why are they STILL struggling with the same issue?”

“They should read the book I read and get a life coach like I did”.

Sound familiar?

If that’s you, this episode is going to help you take the pressure down.

My husband, Hamish, and I talk about being Gandhi, living out of compassion and patience as your partner goes on their own journey.

Because it is THEIR journey. It won’t look like yours. 

Your job is to be who YOU have become.. The expanded, healed, kind, patient version that you have discovered as you’ve been doing the work. 

Hamish and I talk about the importance of being patient, communicating about the deep things and living out of compassion for yourself and the people around you.

When you are doing the work in your own life, you don’t NEED your partner to do the work in order to be okay with YOU.

Be Gandhi.

LINKS:

Resources mentioned:

• Power vs Force by David R. Hawkins
• Men, Women & Worthiness by Brene Brown
• The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
• Take the Love Language QUIZ
• Listen to “My journey with spirituality”

Where to find Hamish:

Website: https://manfulness.com.au/

Instagram:@manfulnessmen

Podcast:Manfulness on Apple Podcasts

Where To Find Erika:

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