Tres Leches

Hold on to your gowns, folks—Johnny Sibilly is here, and he’s brought Emmy gold with him! This week on Tres Leches, we’re bursting with joy straight from the 76th Emmy Awards, celebrating ‘Hacks’ as it clinches the top comedy prize.

Join us as Johnny spills the tea on what it’s like to be part of TV’s favorite comedy this year. From Liza Colón-Zayas’ historic win to John Leguizamo’s powerful call for better Latino representation, this Emmy night was truly unforgettable. Plus, we’ll dive into Jean Smart’s hilarious acceptance, Anna Sawai’s impactful victory, and the delightful ‘Schitt’s Creek’ reunion that had us all cheering.

But the real magic happened with Johnny and the ‘Hacks’ team, who reminded us why laughter is the best medicine. Hear directly from Johnny about the thrill of being at the center of Hollywood’s biggest night.

So, put on your sparkliest attire and tune in for an episode filled with stars, stories, and unmatched style. We’re celebrating all things Emmys and all things ‘Hacks,’ proving once again that nobody does it quite like Tres Leches and Johnny Sibilly.

As three gay men who cut our teeth on the romantic revolution at the beginning of this new millennium, we’ve seen our share of love’s evolutions. This week on Tres Leches, we delve into the world of polyamory. We’re tuning into psychotherapist Esther Perel’s fascinating discussion, "The Arc of Love: The Poly Dinner Party," from her acclaimed podcast *Where Should We Begin?*

Esther invites poly couples to lay it all out on the table, and we’re here to dissect each moment—from the highs of abundant love to the challenges of jealousy and everything in between. Expect to hear snippets from the episode that sparked our curiosity and provoked plenty of debates among us. Can jealousy be a tool to grow a relationship? That’s one of the questions we explore.

We’re unpacking the good, the bad, and the complicated with our usual flair. This isn’t just about understanding polyamory; it’s about exploring what it can teach all of us about love, relationships, and ourselves. Get ready for a titillating conversation that dives into the heart of modern romance.

 It’s spicy, it’s insightful, and it’s unabashedly Tres Leches.

This week on Tres Leches, we’re celebrating the sensational Jools Lebron, a trans-Latina content creator who has captured our hearts and has the internet’s algorithm in a demure chokehold. An we’ve got something to to say those that tired of the trend! 👊🏾 just you wait, Henry Higgins! 

You might justifiably be tired of our chats about gay vacations and Fire Island, but bear with us—we’ve got a bit more to share today, all in the pursuit of discussing something truly important.

We dive deep into the productivity complex, exploring how we tie our worth to our output. From vacation guilt to daily to-dos, we unravel the pressure to earn our leisure and joy. Ian shares his personal battle with balancing work and downtime, offering insights that resonate on a universal level.

In our ‘Spilled Milk’ segment, we tackle a Brooklyn couple’s clash between living large and saving smart—a perfect showdown of ‘brat’ vs. ‘demure’ lifestyles. Roar!

We’re really trying to be demure - but we’re just three brazen broads. 

This week on Tres Leches, join Juan as he embarks on his first trip of the year to Fire Island, bringing you a special episode straight from this iconic homosexual hotspot. Amidst the sandy shores and summer vibes, Juan engages in a profound exploration of self-discovery, confronting his longstanding reliance on men’s attention as his primary, if not sole, source of self-worth. This isn’t just a vacation; it’s a transformative unpacking of deep-seated validation habits.

In a candid reflection reminiscent of Carrie Bradshaw’s introspective escapades, your Tres Leches explore what it means to truly romanticize your life, making your relationship with yourself the most cherished one. 

As we unwrap this heartfelt theme, we each share personal tips on how we add a touch of romance to our everyday lives. 

And, Johnny gives us a sneak peek into his new project shooting in Palm Springs, adding a dash of his own sun-soaked insights.

From self-love realizations to celebrating solo joys, this episode of Tres Leches is about embracing the beauty of being your own best company. Tune in as we bring you tales of personal growth and self-love from Fire Island to Palm Springs—because sometimes, the best love story is the one you write with yourself.

Today’s episode is completely rotted, a direct reflection of our brains. Our grey matter took a vacation and decided to never come back. 

…but we kick things off with a heartfelt discussion about grief and recovery from the traumatic events in our lives. How long is too long to dwell in our sorrows, and when is it time to embrace a stiff upper lip? It’s a delicate balance, and we’re unpacking it today.

As we wrap up our Olympic watch, we dive into some of the Games’ great moments and tackle the controversies, including the right’s attack on trans athletes that have marked this year’s events. Yay sports, indeed.

In our ‘Spilled Milk’ segment, one of our gay boy listeners writes in about his new bisexual identity. He’s saying “bye-bye-bye” to his old self because he’s now “bi-bi-bi.” Another listener asks for permission to cheat. This is her Meadowlark moment—will she risk it all for a new romance?

This episode might be all over the place, but our love for you is exactly where it should be—in our hearts.

Strap in for a golden episode of Tres Leches as we dive into the dazzling world of the Olympics, including the awe-inspiring opening ceremony and Celine Dion’s triumphant return to the stage. We’re not just talking about her performance but also the masterful media blitz that heralded her comeback. It’s all about the spectacle, the strategy, and the sparkle!

Then, we discuss the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleadrs and their Netflix documentary experience: ‘America’s Sweethearts.’ We’re still not over the behind-the-scenes drama and dazzle it unveiled. 

In our “Spilled Milk” segment, we turn to a different kind of partnership: Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor. Sarah shared that living apart is their relationship’s secret sauce. Could this be a magic formula for long-term love, or...? We’re breaking down the pros and cons.

And for our final splash, we tackle a listener’s thought-provoking question inspired by Oprah’s “Things I Know for Sure.” What’s one thing each of us knows for certain? Get ready for some surprising revelations, including why Pinesol makes the list.

We’re thrilled to be back with you after our quick summer sojourn! In today’s episode of Tres Leches, we’re diving headfirst into a monumental moment in American politics. With Kamala Harris stepping up as the presidential candidate after Joe Biden’s exit from the race, we’re unpacking the seismic shift and what it means for the future. We share our thoughts, hopes, and reflections on this pivotal and potentially wild chapter in American history.

And don’t miss out—Johnny breaks down how to properly pronounce ‘Kamala,’ ensuring we all get it right as she steps into the presidential spotlight.

But that’s just the first half! The second part of our episode gets personal as we navigate the scary world of first dates. Ian’s not holding back—after being left on read, he’s ready to read the bitch who did it. Meanwhile, Juan is branching out, trying to expand his dating horizons by mingling with new friend groups. And Johnny? Our wise Mama Odie, comfortably in a relationship, shares her sage realtionship advice like an old woman THAT lives in a tree.

No, really, we need saving! Because after recording this episode, it’s clear we need help.

We’re starting with a brief toast to Broadway’s best at the Tony Awards, then crossing the Atlantic to dive into Ian’s beginnings in the UK, and exploring why he never read “The Outsiders.”

Ian isn’t the only British thing we love—we are also head over heels for “Love Island UK” and its American sister show, which just kicked off a new season. Johnny and Juan are on a campaign to get Ian addicted to the island antics—why not join the madness and watch along with us?

But there’s more! Today’s ‘Spilled Milk’ segment is fermenting with juicy gossip—so tantalizing it’s almost rotten. Leave it out any longer, and we might just have sour cream on our hands! We're tackling a man grappling with a significant age gap in his new relationship, celebrating the wild adventures of a recent college grad, and debating bedroom laziness—because someone’s got to do the work, right?

Our witch’s brew is piping hot this week. Ian is practically levitating with excitement over the buzz that Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman might reunite for a “Practical Magic” reboot. Yes, you heard it right. This is Ian’s rapture. He has seen the face of God and it’s this potential cinematic revival.

But that’s not all we’ve got stirring in our cauldron. We talk gay etiquette, why you should just say ‘hi’—always.

Juan explains why you might want to think twice before claiming you’re ‘nauseous’—and Ian shares a musical ordeal that left him nauseated. 

And for our grand finale? We’re dissecting Johnny’s legendary “XXX” Spotify playlist, track by track. Dubbed the single greatest playlist for making whoopie, even Wendy Williams would nod and declare, “It’s good.” 

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Welcome back, mis amores! Today, we’re throwing out the agenda and just “comiendo mierda” (and yes, while that might translate to eating sh*…, around here, it means talking sh*…). You know when you talk to your best friend about the same thing you’ve talked about 5,676 times but you bring it up again because you’ve found another way to think about the same situation?—yep, that’s our vibe today. 

What’s on the docket? It’s Pride month, and we’re mixing celebration with a side-eye at all the gay couples hoarding the fun. Juan might’ve bailed on his 75 hard challenge, but trust, he’s picked up some wisdom along the way. Johnny? Oh, he’s got a boyfriend now, and we’re all about getting the deets. And let’s not forget Ian, reminding us why we’re blessed to live in a world where Fire Island is just a ferry ride away. We’re also talking Billie Eilish and her latest single, “Birds of a Feather.”

So, grab your café cubano, find your favorite spot, and let’s dive into another heart-to-heart, Tres Leches style—no filters, all sass, and a generous helping of best-friending.