Thom Deleuw's story reflects dedication and a father's love. After a 34-year career in law enforcement, Thom found his true purpose when his son, Jack, had a serious motorcycle accident that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Thom became Jack's full-time caregiver, viewing it as a "willing obligation" that highlights their strong bond.

Thom's journey has been marked by resilience and adaptability. He prepared for the “new role” by taking online courses and utilizing the VA caregiver support program, ensuring he was equipped to provide the specialized care Jack required. Despite the challenges, Thom maintains a positive outlook, emphasizing that the work doesn't "seem so bad" when you're caring for someone you love so deeply. His willingness to take on the role, rather than outsourcing it, speaks volumes about his unwavering commitment to his son's well-being.

Throughout their journey, Thom and Jack have faced setbacks, including a second motorcycle accident that left Jack paralyzed from the sternum down. Yet, their unbreakable spirit shines through, with Thom expressing pride in Jack's determination to regain his mobility and independence. The duo's shared sense of humor and camaraderie have been instrumental in navigating the ups and downs, demonstrating the power of a father-son relationship rooted in unconditional love and support.

About Thom:

Thom was born on December 8, 1954, in Norfolk, Virginia, and was raised in a middle-class family where hard work was valued. After spending his early years in Virginia, he moved to Florida for two years before returning to North Carolina, where he graduated from high school in Greensboro in 1973.

With aspirations of becoming a police officer, Thom joined the Army in November 1973 and attended military police school. His first duty station was in West Berlin, Germany, during the time the Berlin Wall was still up, which proved to be a significant adventure.

After three years, Thom returned home, briefly pursued a golf career, and worked as an assistant golf pro before becoming a police officer in Portsmouth, Virginia. In 1984, he moved back to North Carolina, where he began his long and rewarding career in law enforcement, eventually meeting his wife while on duty.

Thom's life took another turn when he became a dedicated father to his son, Jack. Their bond deepened over the years, especially after Thom gained full custody when Jack was 12. Jack followed in his father's footsteps and enlisted in the Army, embarking on his own journey that included both triumphs and challenges.

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