Listen to this with your partner! So much talk about partner communication

I am so excited to talk to Dr. Alexandra Stockwell. We officially met on a panel for sexperts in October 2020! Which are really the only panels I should sit on these days as they are so fun!

She is on a mission to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of

stagnation and companionship to the delectable joy a couple can feel when they build passion and excitement to nourish them both.

How do you define a “juicy” relationship?

Why people compromise in their relationships.

Great sex in a long-term relationship is no accident – talk about the myth of why people think it should be easy or not take work.

Tips for becoming a better lover.

Why did you write “uncompromising intimacy”?

There is a couple – late 60’s – early 70s….he watches porn, turns down her advances – she keeps asking for sex…she states she is torn between divorce and suicide……where would you start?

So many women fake orgasm – give me your thoughts on that.

You have said that “Humans learn by observation or modeling” – I totally fell in love with that statement. How does that apply to your work?

We were talking in January about a stat that 49% of women in their 50s stop having sex – then we had to nerd out and look that up. What do we tell women in their 40s/50s about the next decade of life with their spouse?

People are afraid to talk about sex – but it is the vulnerability and communication that actually builds intimacy – people feel entitled to intimacy without doing the hard work.

Underneath every complaint is a desire.

How to have sex like a woman!

Okay, tell us about your programs, how to find/follow you and get your book!

Uncompromising Intimacy: Turn your unfulfilling marriage into a deeply satisfying, passionate partnership.

https://amzn.to/2UCQZmA

The Marriage Podcast with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-marriage-podcast/id1548060690

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