Unscrew You Parenting

The year 2022 comes to an end and we want to celebrate by bringing back our listener's favorite guest episode of 2022!

This is a super special episode, we're trying out something we've never done before and we're doing a 2 part deep dive convo on parenting and entrepreneurship with Nicole Culver.

If you don't know Nicole, she's a CEO and mom of 3 who helps expert coaches create evergreen digital products even without the fancy funnels, ads or large audiences.

Nicole and I had part 1 of our discussion over on her podcast, and part 2 is here in this episode. We talked about parenting and entrepreneurship and how things like trauma, conditionings and healing show up in both areas of life.

Listen to this episode and then tag nicole and I on social and tell us what you think!!

LINKS:

https://www.instagram.com/nicoleculver/

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-shift-show/id108029680

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As we are looking back at 2022 I picked my favorite episode from this year and wanted to share it with you. Enjoy! Is there such a thing as healthy control over our kids? And why is it so damn hard? In this episode we take a look at control from a different perspective (as always) and we move away from either of these extremes:

X - authoritative control (do this because I'm your parent)

X - complete permissive lack of control (avoiding conflict)

Neither one of these models serves our kids, so how can we have control AND still be healthy, conscious and providing them with a sturdy emotional foundation?

Listen to the episode and share what you learned!

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Renaye Thornborrow is leading a worldwide movement to bring life coaching to kids. Since 2013, her company has certified hundreds of coaches in over 30 countries, helping them create a business they love as a life coach for kids while empowering children around the world. For Renaye, motherhood was the catalyst for turning her lifelong passion for personal development into a powerful story-based coaching curriculum to help children develop mindset skills for self-esteem, resilience, confidence, self-leadership, happiness, and so much more. Renaye is a personal development expert, member of the International Coaches Federation (ICF), and former 3-year board member for the Association of Coach Training Organizations (ACTO). She is a retired corporate marketing executive and the proud mother of 20-year-old twins – a son and a daughter. Adventures in Wisdom is an ICF CCE (Continuing Coach Education) provider. She's also an identical twin!

Here's how to learn more:

https://adventuresinwisdom.com/free-story

https://www.facebook.com/AdventuresInWisdomFanPage

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Why should you change anything in your family? Why are we aiming to raise Powerfully Grounded Kids? What are the 3 things we MUST have if we are to be successful? This is a short but effective episode to help you see if you are on the way to raising your own powerfully grounded family!

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Have you met Lucy Liu? No, silly, not from Charlie's Angel's. My guest Lucy Liu is a business and life coach helping women in life transitions unstuck, kiss overwhelm bye, cultivate rockstar confidence, see clarity, reach new goals, and live a joyful fulfilling life!

In our episode we talk about shattering limiting beliefs, cultivating rockstar confidence and turning hindrances in life into assets.

Lucy is an unshakable optimist, wife, mother, easy-going entrepreneur, women empowerment workshop facilitator, motivational speaker, author and inspirational host of her weekly podcast The Lucy Liu Show, She has been featured in Medium, VoyageLA, Elephant Journal, ThriveGlobal, FOX, CBS, NBC and dozens of podcasts.

Here's a fun fact about her: she took acting lessons before THE Lucy Liu became a household name in Charlie's Angles. So take that Hollywood.

Check her out here:

www.lucyliucoaching.com

www.instagram.com/mslucyliu

www.facebook.com/mslucyliu

www.twitter.com/mslucyliu

www.linkedin.com/in/mslucyliu

And check out her podcast here: www.lucyliucoaching.com/podcast

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If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you, I would love to hear your biggest takeaway! Take a screenshot of you listening and post it to your Instagram stories and tag me @rachelduffyhere

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Ever wonder when you'll be healed already? When will your child learn how to listen? When will they stop expressing themselves in dysfunctional ways? When will your spouse start doing some work on themselves? When, when when???

If that's you and you've been bit by the bug of impatience - this episode is for you. I talk about the work of healing, what it means, what it doesn't and how we know if we're there yet ….

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If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you, I would love to hear your biggest takeaway! Take a screenshot of you listening and post it to your Instagram stories and tag me @rachelduffyhere

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Thanks for joining me on the Unscrew You podcast, your favorite parenting non parenting podcast, at least I hope it's your favorite! If it isn't, then maybe today it will be because today's guest is so so cool and interesting. His name is Michael Huber and he's a

Certified Mental Performance Consultant® with a master's in sport psychology. He is also the host of The Freshman Foundation® Podcast, which prepares young athletes and families for every next step in their athletic journey, go check it out. His primary purpose is to help young athletes' minds to work for them rather than against them as they strive to reach their potential. His most important job is as sports parent to two children, Patrick 14 and Lucy 12.

In this episode we unpacked:

What is Sport Psychology and Mental Performance?

How do we create internal motivation in our kids?

How do we know when we should push them and when it's ok to let them quit?

Why is it so hard for us, as parents, to coach our kids through this?

What challenges do kids and their parents run into in the world of youth sports?

Check out Michael and his work here:

https://michaelvhuber.com

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Have you ever thought to yourself that you really wanted to make a change but something is "off" something is "missing", something is "blocking you"? On today's episode we address those blocks, how do we move through them, how do we remove them, how do we break through?

In this episode you'll learn the keys to working with your own blocks so you can be your own best coach and then apply this in every area of your life.

This can help you connect more with your kids, yell less, encourage cooperation naturally without needing to resort to bribes or consequences,

Want help raising kids without raising your voice? DM me "HELP" and my team will reach out to you to see how we can support you!

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If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you, I would love to hear your biggest takeaway! Take a screenshot of you listening and post it to your Instagram stories and tag me @rachelduffyhere

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I love me an East Coaster who learns how to slow down and stop the rat race! Today's guest is the lovely Megan Miller. She is a professional speaker, host of the Attention to Intention podcast, and self-proclaimed Intentional Living Expert.

Megan speaks to fellow high performing go-getting professional women and on the podcast she showed us some simple, daily micro-steps for putting attention to intention so we can stop sleepwalking through life and start living with inspiration and fulfillment.

Check Megan out on her socials and download her free resource!!

Download it today at: microstepjournal.com

Website: https://www.megan-miller.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megan.b.miller/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/meganmillerintention/

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Are Positive & Negative Reinforcement Actually Working to Correct Your Child's Behavior?

If you're honest with yourself, I'm willing to bet you've also noticed that while positive & negative reinforcement can work in the moment, they rarely - if ever - lead to meaningful, long lasting change in behavior. If anything, you're probably baffled at how 2 days, 2 hours or even just 2 mins later your child is behaving in the exact way you just tried to correct!

So If positive and negative reinforcement worked - why does it feel like you live in groundhog day??

It's because external reinforcement is a trap. If you're caught in the External Reinforcement Trap, you're likely …

• raising your voice at your kids at least 3 x a day
• can't get past breakfast without losing your patience at least twice
• worried you must be a bad parent

• counting the hours until naptime or bedtime so you can get a break.
• not knowing what to do to repair your relationship after a fight.
• telling your kid over and over that "It's ok to be angry but it's not ok to hit" and not knowing why they keep hitting when they're angry

In today's episode I'm sharing 2 quick and easy exercises to practice with your kids that will regulate both of you in just 60 seconds. Most people wait until the heat of the moment to whip out an exercise they learned somewhere, they heard from someone, they saw on Tiktok, but do any of those actually work for you in the moment if you haven't practiced together and you haven't figured out how to modify or even how to regulate at all with your kid when things are not heated? I'll bet not. Get ready because we are about to show you how to fix it.

Learn on the job at work, not at home when it comes to your family.

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