Vulnerability is Cool

One year after his first raw, honest conversation on the pod, Hunter Clark returns, this time solo. We go deeper into the shame, the shadows, and the soul work that healing from porn addiction really takes.

Hunter shares how plant medicine cracked him open, why intimacy means into-me-you-see, and what happens when you stop treating symptoms and start tending to the root. From a fear of being “too much” to the quiet ache of trying to escape yourself through screens, we talk about the dragon of desire, sexual transmutation, and learning to dance with life instead of running from it.

This episode is a permission slip for the men who are trying to heal, and the women who love them.

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I’ve been sitting with this phrase a lot lately: suppression equals depression. And the more I think about it… the more it just makes sense.

Not just in a mental health way, but in the quiet ways we abandon ourselves. This episode isn’t about fixing anything. It’s just about being honest with yourself. About noticing where you’re pressing yourself down and what might open up if you stopped. We’re talking people pleasing, nervous system shutdowns, that stuck feeling that sneaks in when we say yes too many times instead of no. And the little moments that could be your release valve: a walk, a cry, a dance alone in your room.

If you’ve felt off lately but can’t explain why, I hope this episode helps you come back to you.

We’re sitting down together me (Jenna) + one of my oldest friends, Josh Crowder and diving into what it actually means to date yourself. Like, not just the cute insta brunches, but the hard conversations, the self‑honesty, the body love, the sacredness of your own energy.We talk celibacy, sexual transmutation (that idea of redirecting your sexual energy into your life, your art, your healing) and how the relationship you have with you sets the foundation for every other relationship in your life.If you’ve ever felt unseen by yourself, or like you’re giving away parts of you that you don’t even know how to reclaim, this one is for you.The Good Intentions ClubJosh

Vulnerability is Cool

In this episode, I’m sharing where I’m at post-ayahuasca and post-burning man, two back-to-back experiences that cracked me open in ways I didn’t expect. It’s not a full recap. More like a soft landing. I talk through the love blocks I’ve been trying to heal, the visions that shook me, the chaos in my head, and what it’s been teaching me about surrender, safety, and being seen as more than just a body.

I talk about:

— what ayahuasca showed me about love, worthiness, and protection

— the cage of people pleasing I didn’t know I was still living in

— the masculine energy that came out of me during ceremony

— visions of the love I’ve always dreamed of and why I still couldn’t fully open the door to it

— becoming my own dream partner (for real this time)

— celibacy, sexual transmutation, and reclaiming my energy— burning man being the most magical thing I’ve ever experienced

— learning how to actually surrender, not just say I’m going to

— why I’m not dating right now

— how my love wounds and money blocks are weirdly the same

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This one’s raw, reflective, and exactly where I’m at right now. Two days out from sitting with ayahuasca again, I share how this round of prep feels completely different than last time, softer, more grounded, more me.

I talk about:Why last time felt like I was training for the spiritual Olympics 🥇How this time I’m leaning into trust instead of controlThe intentions I’m setting around money, boundaries, and loving my now selfMy healing journey with OCD + plant medicineUpdates on the Vulnerability is Cool community, Healed Girl Summer, and my upcoming Feminine Embodiment courseMostly, this episode is about remembering who you are right now, before the next version, before the “after” photo, before everything you think you need to become.Because you are already magic.🌿 Affirmations from this episode:I am open to receiving clarity, healing, and abundance.I honor and love the version of me that exists right now.Every breath brings me closer to the highest, most authentic version of me.Take a deep breath with me. You’re allowed to start today. You are magic.💫 Join the Vulnerability is Cool CommunityIf you’ve been craving your own reset and a space to feel alive, connect with yourself, and practice daily rituals that actually stick, this is for you. Inside, you’ll find:Weekly live calls + New Moon ceremoniesThe Daily Practice challenge (breathwork, movement, meditation, gratitude)A meditation library that drops new audios every WednesdayA safe, sacred space to share vulnerably and be held by othersSelf Guided or bi monthly guided 21 Day Reset✨ 7-day free trial available → join here

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This one’s raw, powerful, and full of the kind of truths we usually try to avoid.
We talk about resistance, what it looks like, what it feels like, and why it always shows up right before your next level. I share stories from my life in Bali, the relationship that almost broke me, navigating grief, saying no with love, and finally learning how to trust the discomfort instead of run from it.

This isn’t about being fearless.
It’s about staying. With yourself. Through the chaos. Through the expansion.
It’s about leaning into the resistance, even when every part of you wants to bolt.

I get into nervous system rewiring, the actual neuroscience behind change, solo travel, standing up for yourself in friendships, and finding peace through deep acceptance. We go all the way in.

If this episode stirred something up in you, good. Sit with it. You’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

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For men & women – $18
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AFFIRMATIONS FROM THIS EPISODE:
→ I lean into the resistance and remember who I am.
→ Discomfort is not danger. It’s my invitation to rise.
→ I am safe to choose myself again and again.
→ I trust what’s unfolding, even when it feels unfamiliar.
→ If it scares me, it’s probably sacred.
→ I do not shrink for anyone. I expand for me.
→ I deserve love that feels like peace, not confusion.
→ My body is my home. I choose to stay.

Your power lives in the places you avoid.

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In today’s solo, we’re pulling the curtain back on the phrase “you teach people how to treat you” what it actually means, why it’s not your fault, and how to finally stop outsourcing your worth.

We’re talking dating dynamics, friendship shifts, nervous system sabotage, and the slow-boiling pain of people pleasing. I share some raw updates on my own health, the perfectionism spiral, and what happens when you start respecting yourself so deeply… the world mirrors it back.

This is about remembering your power. Not by being cold, but by being clear. Let this be your permission slip to stop apologizing, start honoring your truth, and walk away from anything that dims your light.

We’re practicing all of this inside the Vulnerability School Community, now live, including the 21-Day Realignment Reset starting June 2. Come join us if you’re ready to raise the bar on how you treat you.

Come home to yourself. The door is open.
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🌀 Your needs matter. You matter. And not everyone gets to walk through your light.

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This one was... a lot. I have so many thoughts about the whole situation. This is the raw and real story behind my episode of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. From a 4th of July river trip to reality TV, here’s what actually happened between Dakota and me.

I talk about what it felt like to be gaslit and gently love bombed. What it means to be the “other girl” without even knowing. The texts, the timelines, the moment my intuition whispered, “bb… no.”

And  I talk about Taylor, what it felt like to finally sit across from her, woman to woman, and realize we’d both been caught in something we didn’t sign up for. There’s a lot more to the story than what made it on TV.

If you’re here from the show, hi. Stay a while. You might’ve come for the drama, but I hope you leave with something that hits deeper.

And if you’re looking for a space to land, cry, reset, and remember who you are, my online community is open. 🌿🦋🌸✨
 You can join us here: https://shorturl.at/Egc9O

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This one’s soft, messy, honest, and exactly what I needed to say.  We talk about the art of letting go.  Not in the Pinterest quote kind of way,  but in the actual lived, raw, confusing, beautiful way.

I tell you what I’m currently letting go of, what’s breaking my heart open, and how I’m learning (still learning) to trust that there’s more waiting on the other side of surrender. I share the "Let Them" theory, how to cut energetic cords, and what it feels like to live in the goo phase, when you’re no longer who you were, but still not fully who you’re becoming.

I also share the reason I created the 21-Day Realignment Reset ! A soft, sacred, cozy container for women who are ready to stop fixing and start returning. It’s not a challenge. It’s a coming home.

This one’s for anyone who feels like they’re somewhere in the in-between, craving clarity, softness, and a deeper sense of trust in themselves and in what’s next.

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It’s $44. 21 days. One powerful little nervous system + soul reset.
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Sign-up opens May 12th. www.vulnerabilityiscool.com and @vulnerabilityiscool on insta!
We begin May 19th.
It’s not about becoming someone new, it’s about remembering who you already are.

Affirmations from today’s episode:
→ I release what no longer feels like home.
→ I soften. I realign.
→ I am not broken. I am becoming.

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Welcome back to the Vulnerability is Cool podcast. In today’s solo episode, I’m breaking down something that made everything finally make sense for me.

I had always heard the term “highly sensitive person” growing up, but I didn’t really get it until I was sitting in couples therapy with my ex and the therapist said, “You’re a highly sensitive person.” I was like… wait, what?

Since then, I’ve been obsessed with understanding what this means and how it affects our nervous system, our relationships, our mental health, and the way we show up in the world. If you’re someone who feels everything deeply, who notices the shift in someone’s tone, who gets overwhelmed in crowds, or who just wants to understand yourself better… this episode is for you.

This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about understanding your nervous system, protecting your energy, and realizing that your sensitivity is not the problem, it’s your power.

In this episode:

• What it really means to be a highly sensitive person (HSP)
• The brain science behind HSPs
• How this shows up in relationships, friendships, and daily life
• Why overstimulation and anxiety hit differently for HSPs
• How to protect your frequency and stop people pleasing
• What to do when you feel like you're "too much"
• How to actually thrive as a sensitive person
• The practices that help me stay grounded and come home to myself
• Manifesting love, safe relationships, and the future version of you
• And why it’s safe to just be you

Affirmations to say with me:

• I am safe to be me
• I accept all that is meant for me
• I show up in my frequency

This one’s a warm blanket for the soul. And if you’re a highly sensitive person… welcome home. :')

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