Have you ever felt like a wifey fluffer for troubled men? This week's toxic submitter shares her frustrations with men's privileges of being jerks until they decide to rebrand as stand-up men. She's heartbroken as her ruthless ex who continuously did her dirty has now turned to Christ, married another woman within 6 months and is seemingly treating his new babe better than he did her in their relationship. Fola and Rukiya discuss whether men can really change their ways and how to move on from an expired relationship. Join the conversation using the #waitamitoxic!

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We can all relate to life lifeing in a way that completely burns us out and makes it difficult to keep on top of daily responsibilities and relationships. Well this week's toxic submitter has the "perfect" solution- just neglect people in your life on rotation! Fola and Rukiya chat about how hard it is to keep up with everything adulting demands from us every blessed day (with zero breaks!!) If you can relate, join the convo using #WaitAmIToxic!

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In a saturated world of influencers, there's only one woman we trust to influence us and that's none other than the celebrity fashion stylist, Melissa's Wardrobe. From veggie wash sprays, to Christmas advent calendars and Mugler blazer's, we can all rely on the lifestyle queen to put us on! However, this week's toxic submitter believes Black influencers who flaunt their lavish lifestyles online play a part in the Black community engaging in materialism and not financially thriving. Join Fola and Rukiya as they discuss the importance of Black women embracing luxury and why we should all aim to make it #alifestylehun!

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Ever fancied someone who you just know belongs to the streets? This week our toxic submitter takes us down memory lane to the days of Uni romance and shenanigans. Do you think think we gave our submitter the right advice on how to work out just how serious a new love interest is!? Join the conversation using #WaitAmIToxic!

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Just like all good things in life, penises come in all shapes and sizes, so why are men constantly shamed for having small penises?

This week's toxic submitter admits to struggling to respect her boyfriend because of the size of his penis. As a pair, Fola and Rukiya attempt to get to the bottom of this taboo and offer men some comforting advice being that it doesn't matter whatever the size! Sex doesn't start and end with penetration and there's plenty of other ways to enjoy sex regardless of your size.

Has porn ruined our perspective of what a "normal" sized penis should be? Join the conversation using the hashtag #waitamitoxic?

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We wanted to end our Black History Month series with a bang about Black joy and what better way to do that than to chat absolute nonsense about absolutely nothing. Join us for an especially toxic game of "Would You Rather?" and a whole lot of laughter. We're happy, we're thankful and we hope you had a great BHM!

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This week we're joined by the beautiful Azryah for another Black History Month special!

We all remember the days where Africans and West Indians in the UK were at odds about absolutely everything where culture is concerned, and while we've made leaps in the right direction, this week's toxic submitter is convinced the war is very much still alive, but just silent. Join us to chat about the evolution of Caribbean vs African tensions in the UK and for some tips on how to lower your chances of being a xenophobic p***k :)

For Black History Month we'll be turning down the toxicity (just a notch!) Each week, we'll be discussing topics specific to the Black community and dispelling some of the myths that often hold us back, as well as how to overcome some of the realities that stunt our growth too! Laughs and upliftment still included.

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Today we are wishing our favourite co-host Fola, a very happy birthday. Please shower and bombard her with birthday wishes over on Instagram and Twitter because ya girl is now 30! Fola, thank you for all the wisdom, laughs and good vibes every single week- we love you so much!

Lots of love,

Rukiya x

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Does being Black really prevent you from fulfilling your true potential in the UK? Our toxic submitter is fed up of the Black community constantly "pulling the race card" and overidentifying with the struggle. Our special guest, @Corporatesteve who took to TikTok to share his unpopular opinion of race being irrelevant, didn't shy away in expressing his frustrations, yet aspirations for his community! Join the conversation using #waitamitoxic and let us know, do you think Black people are blocking their own blessings by making everything about race?

For Black History Month we'll be turning down the toxicity (just a notch!) Each week, we'll be discussing topics specific to the Black community and dispelling some of the myths that often hold us back, as well as how to overcome some of the realities that stunt our growth too! Laughs and upliftment still included.

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You often hear Black people in the UK say they don't feel British at all. Disconnected from Britishness and in some cases their own heritage, Black Brits have been left to define their own culture…. and you know what, we ain't mad at it! This weeks toxic submitter fears that one day her Blackness will be erased by interracial dating and will eventually have to raise White grandchildren, but in true Fola and Rukiya style we're here to help you see the brighter side of things! Join us as we discuss Black Britishness, how to keep in touch with your roots whilst living in Britain and why you should love being a Black Brit!

For Black History Month we'll be turning down the toxicity (just a notch!) Each week, we'll be discussing topics specific to the Black community and dispelling some of the myths that often hold us back, as well as how to overcome some of the realities that stunt our growth too! Laughs and upliftment still included.

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