Wake Up Call

Wake Up Call

By Alicia HopkinsEducationSelf-Improvement
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Wake Up Call episodes

  • 058: Stop Letting Urgency Culture Steal Your Peace

    Do you feel constantly bombarded by notifications of text messages, social media notifications, and emails? You are definitely not alone! The pressure to address things right when they happen keeps us in a constant state of urgency, which takes a huge toll on our nervous system. As high achievers, we are even more inclined to knock out that project well before the deadline, respond to emails right when they come in, or jump in to help others as soon as they ask for it. In this episode, I’m digging into steps I’ve taken to step away from urgency and prioritize peace and relaxation in my life.

    Do you need some support with prioritizing your peace? Send me a DM over on Instagram to learn more about my 12-week coaching program!

    Some key takeaways on ditching a constant state of urgency:

    • Our society is one of fast responses and instant gratification. When we stay in this state of urgency, we’re constantly putting our nervous system in flight or fight mode, which contributes to exhaustion and burnout.
    • When you’re having dedicated relaxation time, or time when you’re being present with yourself or loved ones, put your phone on silent or Do Not Disturb. Protect that time and prioritize which moments will be uninterrupted without constant distractions and notifications.
    • Be okay with challenging urgency culture. You don’t need to respond to texts right away, and you can mute group chats or notifications as needed to step away from this constant sense of urgency.
    • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

      Connect with Me!

      • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
      • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
      • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
      • 23 min
      • 057: How to Relax Even If Your To-Do List Isn’t Complete

        Have you ever sat down to finally enjoy your favorite beverage and a good book and suddenly… your mind floods with all the unfinished things on your to-do list? My high achievers know what I’m talking about! It can be so difficult to relax and rest when we’re so hyper aware of the looming tasks ahead. We often overwork ourselves so we can “actually enjoy” our break, which creates a vicious cycle of burnout and mandatory rest, AKA your body demands rest by getting sick. In this episode, I’m sharing some of the tactical steps and mindset tips I’ve used to settle down so I can be intentional about rest and relaxation.

        Resources mentioned:

        • Listen to Episode 56: You Can Still Experience Burnout Doing What You Love
        • Send me a DM over on Instagram to learn more about my 12-week coaching program!
        • Some key takeaways on the to-do list that’s holding you back from relaxation:

          • Try to distinguish between what you think needs to get done versus what actually needs to get done. We are so conditioned to produce, execute, and accomplish that we forget there should be time in our schedule to just be.
          • Perfectionism can make us think that something needs to be done by us to be done correctly. Take a look at your to-do list and honestly ask yourself if someone else can do some of the things on that list. As long as it gets done, does it matter if it’s the most perfect execution of the task?
          • If you’re struggling with “earning” your rest, take the time to acknowledge everything you have gotten done, all that you’ve accomplished, and remind yourself that whatever end goal you’re working towards doesn’t have to be achieved for you to take time to rest.
          • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

            Connect with Me!

            • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
            • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
            • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
            • 29 min
            • 056: You Can Still Experience Burnout Doing What You Love

              Today’s episode is part life update, part podcast update, and mainly real talk about burnout! During my anxiety journey, I learned a lot about the signs of burnout and I made it my mission to establish habits to keep me grounded and rested. In this new and exciting season of working on some really cool projects, I found myself recognizing signs of burnout. In this episode, I’m sharing what I recognized, how I’m taking steps to protect myself from burnout, and what’s next for the podcast as a result.

              Some key takeaways from today’s episode:

              • Be on the lookout for signs of burnout! Especially with everything going on in the world, pay attention to your media consumption, sleep quality, and overall energy levels. Your body will let you know if something is up so you can make adjustments accordingly.
              • You can still get burnt out doing things that you love and are passionate about! Everything you do requires energy, even the fun and exciting stuff, so make sure you’re still prioritizing self-care and rest.
              • The podcast will be moving to a bi-weekly schedule starting in March to give me some more space and time in my calendar for rest and intention! The next episode will be released on March 14th. Stay tuned for some super impactful episodes this Spring!
              • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                Connect with Me!

                • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
                • 14 min
                • 055: How Big & Small Traumas Can Create Patterns In Our Behavior with Sheila Anne

                  So many people have suffered from trauma in their lives. We often think of trauma as a huge, life-altering event, but it can be much more nuanced than that. No matter what you’ve been through - big or small - your experiences are valid. In this episode, Sheila Anne defines trauma and gives concrete examples of how it can manifest itself in our lives through behavioral patterns. If you’re an overachiever or a people pleaser, there might be some serious eye openers in this episode for you!

                  Sheila's mission is to help ambitious women thrive in body, mind, and soul. She supports clients and groups in making whole-person change by holding space for their unique experiences, offering new perspectives, and intuitively integrating healing modalities. She is a Trauma-Informed Certified Coach, Whole Person Certified Coach, ICF Associate Certified Coach, and Yoga Instructor.

                  Connect with Sheila!

                  • https://www.sheilaanne.com/
                  • https://www.instagram.com/sheflowsandgrows/
                  • Some key takeaways on trauma are:

                    • You might think of major events or experiences when you think of “trauma,” but there are a lot more nuances to what can cause trauma. Intergenerational trauma, unmet needs when you were a child, and even life events that are usually branded as exciting changes like moving can bring trauma.
                    • Sometimes our behavioral patterns can give us clues to past traumas. For example, deriving your value from being busy and always accomplishing things might come from observing someone in your life exhibit “laziness” that made them unable to find belonging.
                    • It can be easy to attach your identity to these behavioral patterns over time. I called myself “The Queen of Indecision” for so long to mask my own pattern, and I’ve had to work to let go of that identity so I can get curious about my indecision and start to overcome it. Letting go of that identity allows you to work to overcome some of the impacts from trauma.
                    • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                      Connect with Me!

                      • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                      • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                      • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
                      • 40 min
                      • 054: Getting Curious About Your Relationship with Alcohol to Reach Your Full Potential with Molly Ruggere

                        In recent years, thanks to change makers like Molly Ruggere, there’s been a huge shift in how we talk about alcohol consumption. There is so much more nuance to sobriety than someone being an alcoholic or not, and in this episode we’re discussing getting “sober curious” about your relationship with alcohol and what to do if you feel like you’re leaning on it more than you’d like in order to relax or feel more comfortable in social settings. If you’re looking to feel more empowered about your decisions around alcohol, this episode is for you!

                        Molly Ruggere is a Certified Life Coach, Alcohol Freedom Coach and Founder of Counterculture Club, a global alcohol-free community based in Charlotte, NC that offers private and group coaching, monthly membership and virtual and in-person events for individuals who want to build authentic relationships, socialize without drinking and counter the mainstream idea that we need alcohol to have fun, fulfilling lives. As someone who once thought alcohol was a requirement for socializing and fun, Molly’s mission is to show others that removing alcohol from your life is the opposite of boring—it opens up doors and possibilities, allowing you to embrace opportunities with clarity.

                        Connect with Molly & Counter Culture Club!

                        • Molly’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/mollyruggere/
                        • Counter Culture Club IG - https://www.instagram.com/counterculture_club/
                        • https://countercultureclub.org/
                        • Some key takeaways on getting sober curious:

                          • If you look at alcohol as your way to unwind, or your reward for getting through the day, get curious about where those beliefs come from. It might be from observing another person (like a parent) treat alcohol as a reward. Unpacking this can help you unlearn that so you can work towards a healthier “reward” at the end of a long day.
                          • You don’t have to be an “alcoholic” to explore sobriety or live a sober lifestyle. More and more people are reducing or eliminating their alcohol consumption so they can feel better and engage in social interactions without using alcohol to feel more comfortable. Whatever your reason is for cutting back is completely valid!
                          • If you’re looking for some ideas to replace alcohol in your daily and weekly routines, try any form of exercise or movement for those natural feel-good chemicals and health benefits, journaling to relax and practice mindfulness, or just exploring fun and delicious non-alcoholic beverages.
                          • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                            Connect with Me!

                            • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                            • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                            • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
                            • 34 min
                            • 053: Reflecting on One Year of the Podcast + My Best Tips for Getting Unstuck and Taking the Next Step Forward

                              The Wake Up Call Podcast is officially ONE YEAR OLD!! This past year has been such a fun experience of exploration, connecting with people through the podcast, and getting really clear on how I want to show up for you guys in 2022! Stay tuned for more info on upcoming trainings, workshops, coaching, and more!

                              In today’s episode, I’m reflecting on the last year of the show and sharing how some things that really helped me slow down, confront my anxiety, and take the next right steps toward overcoming the intense feelings of overwhelm. If you are currently finding yourself trapped in comparison or feeling completely stuck, this is the episode for you.

                              Some key takeaways on getting yourself unstuck:

                              • Follow what’s currently making you feel envious of someone else’s life. What is it about their life that you feel like you’re missing in yours? Is it their organization, their consistent workout routine, or their magazine-worthy meals? How can you start working towards creating these things for yourself?
                              • Trust yourself when your gut is telling you something in your life doesn’t feel right. Even if you have a “good on paper” life, it doesn’t mean you should ignore the feeling that you’re missing something. Get curious about that.
                              • Making a change starts with one baby step at a time. Don’t pressure yourself to have a beautifully planned out itinerary of how you’re going to achieve the life you want. Just take one small step towards it and figure it out as you go.
                              • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                                Connect with Me!

                                • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                                • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                                • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
                                • 17 min
                                • 052: How to Embrace Being in a Slump When You’re a High Achiever

                                  As high achievers, hitting a slump where you feel uninspired, unmotivated, and unproductive can feel like a shock to our system. We have this instinct to push through it as hard as we can, or to stay in busy mode to distract ourselves, or we judge and punish ourselves for not accomplishing enough.

                                  I am in the midst of a slump myself, and I’m learning to embrace these uncomfortable periods as a signal from my body to slow down, rest, and recharge. In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts on this current bout of feeling unmotivated and what has worked for me to begin to ease out of it.

                                  Some key takeaways on embracing being in a slump are:

                                  • Reframe being in a slump or feeling uncreative and unproductive as a sign from your body that you need rest. Embrace the slow down. Ask yourself “what’s the restoration I need right now?”
                                  • Not all feelings are “good” or “bad.” Try to avoid labeling the feelings you’re experiencing during this slump as “bad.” It’s not helpful to judge ourselves for what we’re feeling, and it keeps us from being still and present with those feelings.
                                  • Do your best to maintain good habits and routines while you’re in a slump. Don’t be afraid to modify them to meet your energy levels rather than pushing yourself too hard and not being able to sustain your habits at all.
                                  • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                                    Connect with Me!

                                    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                                    • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                                    • YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDMmJ6FMblDyWoC_Day1zlg
                                    • 19 min
                                    • 051: Discovering Your Worth and Loving Yourself Through Mental Illness Recovery with Lauren Dow

                                      While there is definitely still a stigma surrounding mental health, there are beautiful individuals who share their stories of struggling with mental illness and seeking treatment and healing to live a fulfilling and impactful life. Lauren Dow is one of those individuals.

                                      A lot of the episodes of Wake Up Call have covered anxiety and how to cope with it, but in this episode, Lauren shares her experiences with eating disorders, bipolar disorder, and more, and how she came to terms with seeking treatment and how she used her stories to become an author, speaker, and podcast host. If you or someone you love is grappling with mental illness, you are not alone and this episode is for you.

                                      As a suicide survivor who has struggled with bipolar disorder, major depression, eating disorders, and anxiety, Lauren Dow has found profound healing through authoring In Body I Trust and Your Wild Journal. She is here to remind you that you are not alone in this beautiful mess of a journey we call life.

                                      Connect with Lauren!

                                      • Website - https://laurendow.com/
                                      • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/laurendowwrites/
                                      • TikTok - @laurendowwrites
                                      • GIVEAWAY! I am hosting a giveaway of a copy of Lauren’s book, In Body I Trust! Here’s how to enter!

                                        1. Head to Apple Podcasts and leave a written review of the Wake Up Call Podcast.
                                        2. Screenshot your review and DM me the screenshot on Instagram @aliciadhopkins
                                        3. I’ll choose one winner and send them a copy of Lauren’s book!
                                        4. Here are some key takeaways from Lauren’s powerful story:

                                          • Mental illnesses can manifest in so many different ways in different people. If you’re feeling emotions or sensations to such an extreme that you’re struggling to enjoy life or be present in your body, it’s so important to seek help.
                                          • If you need medication, it does not mean you’re broken. It just means you need some assistance to have the quality of life you deserve.
                                          • Seek out other people whose stories resonate with you and make you feel seen. You are not alone, and finding a community helps solidify that.
                                          • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                                            Connect with Me!

                                            • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                                            • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                                            • 36 min
                                            • 050: Intuitive Eating and Ditching the Diet Mentality with Victoria Yates

                                              “Intuitive Eating” is a huge buzzword in the health and wellness space, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Victoria Yates is helping us dig deep into our internal beliefs about food and the messaging that keeps us stuck in restrictive diets, obsessive eating habits, and unhealthy relationships with food. Intuitive Eating is an approach to eating that encourages mindfulness, healing your relationship with food, and ending diet mentality once and for all! If you struggle to listen to your body’s cues on food, or if you have an inner dialogue criticizing you for your food choices, you are not alone and this episode is for you.

                                              Victoria Yates is a Registered Nurse, Whole Health Coach, & Intuitive Eating Counselor passionate about helping high-achieving women feel calm around food and confident in themselves. She teaches through her social media and her podcast, the Redefining Health Podcast, in addition to her coaching program.

                                              Connect with Victoria!

                                              • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nondiet_rn/
                                              • Listen to The Redefining Health Podcast
                                              • Work with Victoria: https://www.victoria-yates.com/coaching
                                              • Some key takeaways on intuitive eating are:

                                                • One of the most important steps towards intuitive eating is unpacking the current core beliefs. We pick up a lot of thoughts and beliefs around food in our lives, and we can ditch a diet mentality by addressing these head-on.
                                                • Another big step to healing your relationship with food is understanding there are no “good” or “bad” foods. Food is just neutral, and removing the labels of “good” vs. “bad” helps you start to distinguish between foods you really enjoy vs. foods that you don’t enjoy eating.
                                                • A lot of food-related issues we might have aren’t food-related at all. You might be experiencing struggles with perfectionism, comparison, and self-worth and using food as a coping mechanism for those things.
                                                • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). I work in corporate sales by day and am a personal development guru and Life Coach by night. My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                                                  Connect with Me!

                                                  • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                                                  • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                                                  • 39 min
                                                  • 049: Slowing Down NOW Instead of Waiting for Your Next Big Milestone to Rest with Katie Welker

                                                    Have you ever thought “Things will slow down once this project at work is done,” or “I’ll clear up my calendar once I have a baby,” or at least heard the phrase “I’ll sleep when I’m dead?” All of these phrases imply that you’re waiting for a specific milestone to hit before you even think about taking steps to slow down and let go of some commitments you’re clinging to. We are so conditioned to be busy that we forget we don’t need a reason to slow down. In fact, slowing down now will allow us to actually enjoy those milestones when they come!

                                                    In this episode, Katie Welker is here to share how she’s been intentional about slowing down and leaving more white space on her calendar for peace. Katie is a 32-year-old newlywed, devoted dog mama and fraternal twin. After spending nearly a decade in Buffalo and Chicago, she’s currently living life out loud in her hometown of Rochester, N.Y. She has a career in corporate communications, a side business sharing her love for clean makeup and skincare, and spent nearly a decade as a high school cheerleading coach. An enthusiast for confidence, self-care and mental health, she creates a safe space for people to be their purest selves through her long standing blog, social media platforms and in person.

                                                    Connect with Katie:

                                                    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidently.katie/
                                                    • Website: https://itsconfidentlykatie.com/
                                                    • Blog: https://itsconfidentlykatie.com/blog/
                                                    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinecostello/
                                                    • Side business: https://www.beautycounter.com/katiecostellowelker
                                                    • Some key takeaways from this episode include:

                                                      • It is okay to have space on your plate and not immediately fill that with another commitment. Slowing down is not only allowed, it’s also so important for keeping stress levels in check. It’s okay to let go of current commitments to hold space for slowing down.
                                                      • So many of us wait for certain milestones - after a project at work wraps, when you have kids, when you retire - to slow down or to change our habits. Rather than waiting for a milestone, prioritize rest and change your habits now. It will actually allow you to enjoy the milestone when it comes.
                                                      • People might not understand how or why you’re taking time to slow down or let go of current commitments, but you don’t need to justify your choices to them at all. There doesn’t have to be a concrete reason why you’re slowing down - you deserve that space no matter what!
                                                      • Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). I work in corporate sales by day and am a personal development guru and Life Coach by night. My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits, and growth - so you can build a life that feels true to you. I will be interviewing people who have had a “wake up call” that their good-on-paper life wasn’t lighting them up, and what they did to change that. Join us every week for a new episode of the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins!

                                                        Connect with Me!

                                                        • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aliciadhopkins/
                                                        • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/adhcoaching
                                                        • 38 min

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                                                        Welcome to the Wake Up Call Podcast with Alicia Hopkins (that’s me!). My goal in this podcast is to share valuable and actionable tips on what I call the “Core Four” - mindfulness, movement, habits,…