The Unmasked Project

We’ve Been Lying to Ourselves—Time for a Real Talk


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🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!

This week, Layla and Brian throw off the last of their filters for the realest episode yet. No guests. No script. Just two co-hosts at a crossroads, confronting their creative and personal tensions head-on.

They break down the behind-the-scenes struggles of running a sex-positive show in a platform-hostile algorithm, the burnout from doing it all themselves, and the existential question: is The Masked Swingers still serving their lives—or stalling them?

From Layla’s passion for addiction recovery to Brian’s drive for purpose over clout, they explore what it means to evolve publicly, vulnerably, and messily. They don’t have all the answers, but they’ve got the courage to ask the hard questions.

Whether you've been here from the first masked mic check or just stumbled into this unfiltered spiral, you're getting the truth.

💥 In this episode:

  • Why the podcast’s original mission no longer fits

  • Sex content vs. searchability: fighting the algorithm

  • Brian's pivot toward coaching & high-impact work

  • Layla’s secret side hustle helping addicts—for free

  • The real reason they're burned out (spoiler: it’s not each other)

  • Why viral clips don’t convert to real listeners

  • Can this show still evolve, or is it time to part ways?

  • What happens when your creative partner wants out

⏰ Timestamps:

  • 0:00 – Intro: couches, mics, and chaos

  • 0:35 – Reflecting on 18 months of podcasting

  • 1:20 – How the show started: masks, apps, and pivots

  • 2:15 – What’s changed—and why they’re confused

  • 4:00 – Podcasting as a business vs. a passion project

  • 6:30 – Layla’s tension: wanting to expand, fearing audience backlash

  • 9:10 – Brian’s struggle: impact vs. irrelevance

  • 12:45 – Burnout, the algorithm, and sex content suppression

  • 15:00 – Going viral isn’t enough: lessons from failed traction

  • 17:15 – The dark side of self-funded media

  • 19:50 – Layla’s addiction recovery work: the unpaid calling

  • 23:00 – What value looks like beyond the sex

  • 25:40 – Can you be an addict and still help addicts?

  • 28:20 – Ethics, imposter syndrome, and monetizing purpose

  • 32:10 – Brian on boundaries, value, and not editing sh*t

  • 35:40 – Layla on why she won’t do this alone

  • 37:30 – Can they still create together—without compromise?

  • 40:00 – The end of an era… or just a new chapter?

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