In this episode, Gary explores a fundamental question: What can you control? Our perception of control is shaped by whether we operate from the old consciousness—rooted in external power, manipulation, and dominance—or from the emerging multisensory consciousness, which embraces spiritual growth and authentic power. He challenges the traditional notion of control and introduces a transformative approach that aligns with our evolving human experience.

Many people believe control comes from external circumstances—status, wealth, or authority—but Gary explains why this outdated perspective leads to suffering. True power does not come from changing the world around us but from changing ourselves. Through the lens of vertical and horizontal dimensions, he illustrates how our emotions and reactions shape our reality. The key to freedom and fulfillment lies in mastering our choices rather than trying to dominate external circumstances.

The solution is simple yet profound: while we cannot control our emotions, we can control how we respond to them. By developing emotional awareness and choosing to act from love instead of fear, we create positive, lasting consequences. This conscious choice-making is the foundation of creating authentic power and the path to true joy and fulfillment.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

(00:41) — The difference between external power and authentic power

(02:43) — Why the old model of control is no longer effective

(03:47) — The horizontal and vertical dimensions of control

(07:04) — Why you can’t control emotions but can control your responses to them

(09:23) — How emotional awareness creates space for conscious choices

(11:30) — The role of intention in shaping your experiences and reality

Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Take a moment to reflect on how control has played a role in your life. Have you been trying to change external circumstances in order to feel safe? secure? happy? Instead, consider how you can shift your focus inward. Observe your emotions without judgment and practice making conscious choices based on love rather than fear. What happens when you respond with awareness instead of reacting?

Are you practicing judgment or discernment? Learn more as Gary explains the difference in this illuminating video.

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