Lauren & Shannon zoom out and talk about all things consent- from how it's hot to tackling what it means in general. The ladies discuss how Greek life and sports teams foster an environment that promotes rape culture and frequently miss the mark on respecting women. Plus, get the lowdown on a wild Yale frat story... it's quite the rollercoaster. Additionally, they dive into why schools need to up their sex education game and normalize conversations about consent at a young age to prevent sexual assault from happening later. It's like a coffee chat... but juicier. Cheers!

LA Times Article: https://www.latimes.com/opinion/story/2021-11-11/fraternities-sexual-assault-violence-usc

Get Educated: ⁠⁠⁠www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence⁠⁠⁠

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On this episode, Shannon takes the podcast reins by herself to talk about what rape kits are, her personal experience getting one, and the importance of them. She details out each portion of the exam and includes a some pictures from the exam. This episode is a heavy one, but it's an important one. Cheers!

Know your rights: https://risenow.us/

More on rape kits: https://www.endthebacklog.org/what-is-the-backlog/what-is-a-rape-kit-and-rape-kit-exam/

Get Educated: ⁠⁠www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence⁠⁠

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If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

Today the ladies embark on a data-driven exploration of sexual assault. They discuss a new law that has been passed in California, some very disconcerting statistics, and why they think these stats are the way they are. If you’re someone who thinks rape and sexual assault aren’t very common… think again. Grab yourself an ice cold glass water and wake your ass up. Cheers!

Resources mentioned in this episode:

RAINN:https://rainn.org/

Know your rights:https://risenow.us/

Book about rape & the justice system in a college town:https://a.co/d/2uZLBEG

Get Educated:⁠https://rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

On this episode, the gals chat about having booty bad days where you click the "void" button on all your plans, they read a comment from a listener, and discuss triggers and flashbacks. Buckle up and grab a drink, as Lauren & Shannon share their personal triggers, how to handle them, and what the heck they mean. Cheers!

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

In this episode, Lauren and Shannon dive into the world of music and how it can help you navigate the rollercoaster of emotions after trauma. They chat about how intense wubbzzz can mimic your inner turmoil. The girls get real about the daunting task of telling your parents. Shannon reveals her less-than-ideal discussion with her mom and the complexities of alcohol in her story that created an inaccurate sense of blame. They explore generational differences in understanding and offer advice to parents on providing the right support. Oh and Shannon tells her mom to fuck off. Cheers!

A few wubbzzz for your soul: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6p82uh1KyVXld8KdCzyAVN?si=04fcc8f63512416a

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

On this episode, Lauren & Shannon dive into their "trial files" aka the very beginning of the court process. They share details of their OSI (office of Special Investigation) interviews, the nuisances of military time, mean defense attorneys, and understanding you will constantly be lost in a sea of legal jargon. Bottom line is resiliency and bad bitch energy is key to survival. Cheers!

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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On this episode Lauren does a 180 on the narrative she's been telling herself about her situationship. She offers advice on being honest with yourself in relationships by being more self aware. Shannon shares being 'super glued' to one person post-sexual assault and how it's totally normal and okay... and can even have it's benefits. Together, they dish out tips for telling partners about past trauma and being vulnerable before a bad day hits.

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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Today the ladies discuss how hooking up with men on vacation is like going on an excursion, how situationships do not mean exclusivity, how only ugly men hit on Shannon at bars, and why no matter how you react after being sexually assaulted the defense will still make you look terrible in court and you will get screwed.

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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Lauren & Shannon kick off What They Don't Say by normalizing crying during sex, talking about how college girls have to survive not thrive, and how being emotionally vulnerable might make you want to poop your pants.

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)