Staying at home all day with a small child can make you hate the sight of your own four walls. If the floor is also littered with dirty clothes, toys and food detritus then chances are you crave a cleaner, tidier house. But not all partners see eye to eye when it comes to the level of cleanliness required for sanity. Ginny Lindsay, a psychotherapist at From 2 to 3 counselling explains how we can find domestic bliss through a bit of communication and compromise.