Episode 308: “Montoya!!!!”

In this episode, we’re diving into revenge, forgiveness, and knowing when to let things go—or double down.

We start with 50 Cent’s viral posts about Irv Gotti, Big Meech, and Lil Meech. Were his posts distasteful, or was he completely justified in his response? Is revenge ever warranted, or should we just let karma handle it? (12:33 - 18:10)

Then, we get into one of the most insane moments in reality TV history—Montoya from Temptation Island watching his girl have sex with another man. 😳 This shocking moment leads us into a deep dive on forgiveness—when it’s necessary, when it’s forced, and whether we ever truly let things go. (21:59 - 31:55)

We break down:

🔥 The four stages of forgiveness (33:48 - 1:16:42)

🔹 Are we truly forgiving, or just letting things slide?

🔹 Can we forgive people who aren’t directly connected to us?

🔹 What does real forgiveness look like, and is it always necessary?

This episode is raw, hilarious, and guaranteed to spark conversation. Let us know—do you forgive, or do you hold onto the grudge? 👀

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In Episode 306: I Statement, we explore the art of effective communication by breaking down how to properly express ourselves using “I Statements.” This method helps to take ownership of feelings, avoid blame, and foster healthier conversations in relationships. We also discuss: • How to avoid being manipulative when expressing your needs. • The importance of accountability in communication. • Real-life examples of how “I Statements” can improve understanding and reduce conflict. This episode is packed with practical advice for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills and build stronger connections with the people in their lives. Join us as we share personal stories, insights, and tips to help you say what you mean—without losing the message. #WhatsAGoodGuy #CommunicationSkills #IStatement #HealthyRelationships #podcastlife Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla

In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we tackle the layers of friendships, loyalty, and fatherhood. We begin with a recap of the feud between Jim Jones and Cam’ron, using it as a springboard to discuss the realities of friendship fallouts. What happens when close bonds break? Can they be repaired, or is it better to move on? The conversation shifts to maintaining and nurturing friendships, the challenges of finding new connections, and the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people. We also briefly touch on Method Man’s recent gym altercation and what it says about protecting your peace and energy. Finally, we dive deep into the joys and challenges of fatherhood—how we protect our children and weigh the pros and cons of being a parent in today’s world. This episode is full of raw honesty, humor, and reflections that will make you think about the relationships in your life. Like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes! #TheFallout #FriendshipTalk #FatherhoodJourney #ProtectYourPeace #WhatsAGoodGuy

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In this episode of What’s A Good Guy, we dive into the fascinating and sometimes controversial topic of having a “work wife.” Is it harmless? Is it cheating? Where do we draw the line? Lashawn opens up about his experiences navigating dating as a flight attendant, including the unique challenges of maintaining relationships while on the job and even facing breakups while working. We also reflect on life in New York City, touching on the frustrations of congestion pricing and the fast-paced lifestyle that comes with living in the city. From there, we explore heavier topics, like the recent tragedy of the LA fires and how it made us question our own mortality and legacy. Join us for this mix of laughs, thought-provoking conversations, and personal insights. 

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Welcome to Episode 300 of What’s A Good Guy! We’re kicking off the year in a brand-new space—Lashawn’s house—and bringing along a familiar face, our good friend Rowe. This milestone episode is filled with reflection, meaningful conversations, and a look ahead at what’s to come.

In this episode, we:

• Recap the highs and lows of last year.

• Discuss what we’re looking forward to in the new year.

• Share our thoughts on the recent tragic mass shooting in Queens.

• Debate the value of therapy and why it could be life-changing (especially for Rowe!).

• Talk about the art of purposing and repurposing gifts—have we done it before? Plus, we’re excited to officially introduce our Patreon account, giving you access to exclusive content and more! Join the conversation:

• What’s one thing you’re looking forward to this year?

• Have you ever re-gifted something? Hit play, and let’s celebrate 300 episodes of growth, laughs, and real conversations.

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Episode 297: The Limerence Cycle

In this episode, we dive deep into the Limerence Cycle, breaking down its emotional phases and how it impacts our relationships. From the intense highs of infatuation to the moments of crystallization, and eventually the challenges of dissonance and resolution, we ask: How do we navigate love and obsession while remaining grounded in reality?

We explore:

• What is the Limerence Cycle? Understanding the four key stages. 

• Infatuation vs. Love – Why does the beginning feel so euphoric? • Crystallization – How our feelings for someone intensify and idealize them.

• Dissonance – What happens when reality doesn’t meet our expectations?

• Dissonant Resolution – Finding clarity and moving forward after emotional highs and lows. This episode is all about self-awareness and reflecting on how these cycles play out in our lives.

 Are we chasing the thrill of infatuation, or are we ready to resolve and grow? Join the conversation, and let us know in the comments: What phase of the cycle resonates most with you? Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking discussions!

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Episode Description: “Thin Line Between”

In this thought-provoking episode of What’s A Good Guy, the crew dives into the complexities of walking the fine line between one thing and another. We explore the blurred boundaries that define our actions, emotions, and values:

• Begging vs. Fighting: When does persistence cross the line into desperation?

• Love vs. Hate: Is there really a thin line, or are these feelings closer than we think?

• Following vs. Being Inspired: How do we draw the line between admiration and losing individuality?

• Culture Vulture vs. Culture Appreciator: What separates respect from exploitation in how we engage with other cultures?

This episode will make you question how we define our boundaries and navigate the gray areas of life. Join the conversation as we unpack these nuanced topics and challenge the way we think.

Tune in now and let us know: Where do you draw the line?

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