Does a great relationship require that instant spark—or is true love built slowly over time? In this episode, we dive deep into the myths of attraction, chemistry, and how relationships really grow. From the excitement of butterflies to the security of a slow burn, we explore why so many people walk away from amazing potential partners simply because they didn't feel fireworks right away. Psychology even has a name for this—the Mere Exposure Effect—showing how love often grows from familiarity, consistency, and trust, not just instant chemistry. We also unpack how the "spark" can sometimes be misleading. What feels like passion can actually be anxiety disguised as excitement—the constant wondering, "Do they like me? Do they not?" That rollercoaster can feel addictive, but it doesn't always lead to lasting love. Whether you've chased sparks in the past, settled into a slow-burn love story, or are still figuring it out, this conversation challenges the dating myths we've been told and reveals what truly makes relationships meaningful. ⸻ 

What You'll Learn in This Episode 

• Why the "spark" is often overrated (and misunderstood) • How slow-burn attraction leads to deeper, lasting love • The role of the Mere Exposure Effect in building connection 

• Why butterflies may actually be alarm bells of anxiety

• How to recognize secure, healthy love over short-lived chemistry ⸻ 

✨ If you've ever wondered whether you should wait for fireworks or lean into familiarity, this episode will give you the clarity you need. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations on love, relationships, and everything in between. #whatsagoodguy 

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This week, we dive into four viral posts that had the internet talking — and we break down the deeper conversations behind them. From unconditional love during mental health battles, to hidden opportunities stolen by the people closest to us, to the hard truth about inflation and financial security, and even a wedding photo that sparked cultural conversations — we cover it all. We talk relationships, family dynamics, money, and the subtle ways social media reveals what's really going on in our society. 🎧 Tune in for laughs, debates, and those "I never thought about it like that" moments. #MyXShowedMe #Podcast #Relationships #MoneyTalks #Culture

In this episode, the guys dive into what it truly means to move with intention. From dating to friendships to personal growth — being intentional brings clarity, but it also comes with its own set of challenges.

We explore the beauty of being clear about what you want and consistent in your actions — but also the isolation, frustration, and high standards that come with it. Lashawn shares how dating with intention is making it harder to find someone who truly aligns, while Kojo challenges what it means to really know your intentions.

Whether you're building a brand, a relationship, or a better version of yourself — this episode is a reminder that being intentional isn't easy, but it's always worth it.

Episode 339 of What's A Good Guy challenges the myth that your time has passed. In this honest and energizing conversation, we explore why society makes people feel like there's an expiration date on their dreams. Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond — this episode is your reminder that it's never too late to pivot, pursue, or start over. We dive into: 🎯 Where the "too old" narrative comes from 💡 Real-life stories of people who found success later in life 🧠 The mindset shift required to overcome age-based doubt 🚫 Breaking the fear of judgment 🔥 How to reignite your passion no matter your age If you've ever felt behind or questioned whether your dreams have an expiration date, this episode will speak directly to your soul. Subscribe | Comment | Share — someone out there needs to hear this today. #whatsagoodguy #ChaseYourDreams #NeverTooLate #PurposeOverPressure #Podcast

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Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/whatsagoodguy 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whatsagoodguys 🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsagoodguy 🤝 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatsagoodguy Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/donpeezly 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/donpeezly Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/stayfocusla 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/stayfocusla 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!

we tap into a topic that hits close to home — the "hood rich" mentality. Inspired by a thought-provoking message from our Executive Producer T-Smooth, we explore why some people still live in the projects while pulling up in luxury cars and wearing designer head to toe. Is it really about status — or is it a deeper conversation around financial literacy, identity, and comfort zones? We ask: Is "hood rich" the ultimate cheat code or a financial trap? Do some people stay in the hood because it's their comfort zone, not their only option? What does real wealth actually look like? And should wealth be seen… or stay silent? This episode isn't about judgment — it's about empathy, perspective, and understanding the narratives behind the flash.

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After seven years, Myles returns to What's A Good Guy, and the growth is undeniable. In this powerful episode, we reflect on who Myles was then versus who he is now—a father, a man of deeper principles, and someone who's learned what it truly means to be a man. We dive into loyalty, morals, and navigating life's noise, all while discussing the challenges of mental health, loss, and the importance of therapy and community. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about growth, fatherhood, and what it really takes to persevere.

In this episode, the guys dive into what it really means to leave situations—jobs, relationships, or friendships—without bitterness. Inspired by Don's personal story of being let go from PBS only to be offered his position back later, this conversation unpacks the power of handling setbacks with grace. We explore: – The importance of not burning bridges – Why you won't always get closure (and why that's okay) – How "no bad blood" can be one-sided – The quiet strength in walking away without a scene – How life has a funny way of circling back This one is about maturity, growth, and how sometimes… silence speaks louder than revenge.

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Who are you when no one's watching? And more importantly — are you comfortable with the answer? In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, we're joined by the multi-hyphenate himself — Vic: fashion designer, stylist, basketball referee, teacher of life, dean, devoted partner, and part of the powerhouse brand Tier NYC. But today, we're not talking titles — we're talking identity. We explore questions like: • When do you truly know who you are? • What shapes your style, character, and personality? • Can you be proud of your reflection without the resume? From growth and self-awareness to how support shows up (or doesn't) in our relationships, this conversation challenges everything you thought you knew about becoming "you." 🔥 Subtopics We Dive Into: • Growth vs. Optics: Are you actually evolving or just performing? • Real Support: Do you know how to give it, and are you ready to receive it? • Navigating Identity in a world full of roles, labels, and pressure This episode is honest, layered, and long overdue. Episode 333: Who Are You Really? — streaming now. Leave a comment and let us know: Do you really know who you are?

In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, the guys reflect on their latest Sunday adventure at Burgers & Bottles, where Lashawn surprised everyone by stepping out of his comfort zone and becoming the life of the party. As he navigated socializing and attracting plenty of attention, the crew dives into what it means to truly come out of your shell. Lashawn shares his firsthand experience of breaking out of his usual mold and how it felt to embrace a new social dynamic. From there, the conversation shifts to handling social criticism while chasing success, and the importance of taking risks to grow. This episode is all about pushing boundaries, embracing new experiences, and stepping confidently into the unknown. Support and follow WhatsAGoodGuy here: 🌐 Website: https://www.whatsagoodguy.com 🐦 Twitter:   / whatsagoodguy   📸 Instagram:   / whatsagoodguys   🎥 TikTok:   / whatsagoodguy   🤝 Patreon:   / whatsagoodguy   Connect with Don: 🐦 Twitter:   / donpeezly   📸 Instagram:   / donpeezly   Connect with Lashawn: 🐦 Twitter:   / stayfocusla   📸 Instagram:   / stayfocusla   🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking conversations!