In this episode of the podcast, Don opens up about the palpable tension he feels in his workplace, grappling with the uncertainty of whether it’s a product of his own overthinking or an actual issue at play. He reflects on the struggle of being his own worst enemy, caught in a cycle of self-doubt and hesitation. This leads to a heartfelt conversation between LA and Jo, where they explore strategies for Don to assert himself and communicate his needs effectively. Jo shares a pivotal email from his past that significantly altered the course of his career, illustrating the power of open dialogue. Meanwhile, Lashawn draws on his own experiences, providing insightful examples of how he conquered his inner critic and transformed his mindset. Tune in for an engaging discussion filled with personal stories and practical advice on overcoming self-imposed obstacles.

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Episode 322: Keep It to Yourself

In this episode, Don leads a conversation on the power of privacy and the moments when saying less might actually mean more. From what people confide in you, to what you choose to share with your partner—we dive into the boundaries of oversharing, emotional responsibility, and protecting your peace. We even learn a surprising truth about Kojo: he doesn’t like his praises being sung. Some things really are better left unsaid.

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In this episode, Kojo introduces his “Red and Green Theory,” a concept that helps us reflect on how we categorize people in our lives—green meaning safe and aligned, red meaning harmful or misaligned. But what happens when someone you’ve placed in the green starts treating you like you’re in the red? How do we communicate those shifts in energy and maintain healthy relationships?

We also unpack the phrase “feelings aren’t facts” and the challenges that come with navigating emotional truths in romantic and platonic relationships. This conversation is about accountability, boundaries, and emotional honesty.

Tune in for a powerful conversation that will challenge how you view the people in your life—and how you show up for them.

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In this episode, we kick things off with a wild conversation about cheating culture. Lashawn shares a story about a coworker casually bragging about how much he cheats on his partner—leading us into a deeper conversation about the toxic patterns people normalize in relationships. That opened the door to the main topic: bread crumbing. We break down what it is, how it shows up in relationships, and why so many of us settle for the bare minimum attention and effort. Are you really being loved, or just being strung along?

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What happens when you reach your breaking point?

In this episode, Don opens up about the moment he had to speak up for himself at work after feeling unsupported and unseen. He also reflects on the pressure of family expectations at his grandmother’s 91st birthday dinner—navigating the questions about marriage and children. Lashawn flips the conversation, asking: what if your partner feels the same way and the grace to figure it out starts to run out?

We wrap up by exploring a difficult but honest question—when you see your friends caught in unhealthy cycles, when is enough truly enough for you as a friend?

This episode is full of real moments, tough conversations, and the courage to choose yourself.

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What does it really mean to be equally yoked? In this episode, we dive deep into the meaning behind this concept and how it plays out in relationships. From values to lifestyle choices, we unpack the hard truths about compatibility and alignment. LA shares his experience dating a drug dealer, while Kojo reflects on his time with an active gang member—both shedding light on what happens when two people think they’re aligned but live in completely different worlds.

Are we truly as compatible with people as we believe, or are we just forcing connections that were never meant to be? Tap in for a real, unfiltered conversation about relationships, self-awareness, and the lessons we learn when life humbles us.

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#EquallyYoked #RelationshipTalk #Compatibility #LifeLessons #DatingStories #PersonalGrowth #WhatsAGoodGuy

In this episode, Lashawn introduces The Four Agreements, a powerful book that challenges us to reshape our mindset and approach to life. Along with the cast, we break down each agreement, discussing how they resonate with us and the ways we can apply them to our daily lives. Which agreement spoke to us the most? Tune in to find out as we reflect on personal growth, accountability, and the wisdom that can change the way we navigate the world.

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Intimacy vs. Isolation – How 19-40 Shapes Success & Connection

In this episode, we break down the stage of development between ages 19-40, focusing on intimacy vs. isolation—how this period defines our relationships, personal growth, and self-worth.

We explore: 🔹 Success & Failure: Do we distance ourselves from things we see as failures? 🔹 Emotional Connection: How does our view of success impact our ability to be intimate with people and experiences? 🔹 Personal Growth: Are we truly embracing this stage of life, or are we isolating ourselves without realizing it?

Let’s unpack what it means to navigate this crucial stage and how it shapes who we become. Drop a 💭 in the comments and let us know: Are you in a season of intimacy or isolation?

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In this episode, we dive into the wild turbulence of life—literally and figuratively. We kick things off with a discussion about the recent Delta flight incident that went viral and how it’s got Lashawn feeling some type of way as a flight attendant. Then, we transition into the latest TikTok story that’s got everyone talking: a woman flying herself out to Atlanta to meet a man, only for things to go left. This story leads us to the main question: How fast is too fast when it comes to pursuing someone? We debate the fine line between moving with intention and moving too quickly. How soon is too soon to get intimate or share your best moves? And what are the hidden risks of rushing into romance? Join us for a real conversation about navigating love, lust, and the pace of modern dating. Tune in, and let us know: How fast is too fast for you?

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This episode is raw, hilarious, and guaranteed to spark conversation. Let us know—do you forgive, or do you hold onto the grudge? 👀 🔔 Subscribe & join the conversation!

Episode 309: The “With You” Is Silent

Eight years of What’s A Good Guy—what a journey! We’re celebrating in high fashion, giving flowers to the team for their new job roles, and reflecting on how far we’ve come.

Then, we dive into the hot topics: Anthony Edwards openly tells a woman he doesn’t want to be a father—was he just being honest, or is there more to unpack? And is a 38-year-old woman pursuing a 23-year-old man a double standard or predatory behavior?

Finally, Lashawn brings the real talk—is it ever fair to break a hard no? If you’ve told people in your past that something was off-limits, is it wrong to make an exception for someone new? We discuss boundaries, fairness, and whether past decisions should dictate present choices.

Tap in for an anniversary episode full of reflection, debates, and big questions! 🎙️ #WhatsAGoodGuy

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