If you’ve ever felt a sudden “voice” telling you to break up, and it came with guilt, fear, or shame, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we’re responding to a message that deeply moved us. A man shared that after hearing a sermon, he felt what seemed like conviction telling him he was in the wrong relationship and needed to leave, even though he loves his girlfriend and wants to serve Christ with her.

So how do you know if something is truly from God?

In this episode, we talk about the difference between conviction and anxiety. We unpack how God actually leads His children. And we share why we do not believe He randomly asks someone to leave a relationship as a test of obedience or trust.

If a thought feels urgent, condemning, and heavy, it may not be the Holy Spirit. God’s voice brings clarity and peace, even when it challenges us. It does not trap you in shame or constant second-guessing.

If you struggle with relationship anxiety or constantly question whether you should stay or go, this episode will help you slow down and discern what is really happening beneath the fear.

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👉 If you struggle with relationship anxiety or ROCD, one of the hardest questions is:

“How do I tell my partner what’s going on in my head… without scaring them, hurting them, or damaging the relationship?”

In this episode, we’re talking about how to have the conversation and how to know when you’re actually ready to have it.

Because sharing your anxiety isn’t about confessing every intrusive thought.

And it’s definitely not about offloading your anxiety onto them. In this conversation, we cover:

    •    How to explain relationship anxiety to a partner who doesn’t experience it 

   •    What your partner actually needs to know — and what they don’t    

• ​    How to talk about anxiety without making your partner responsible for managing it  

  •    Common mistakes that accidentally fuel more anxiety in the relationshipIf you’ve ever worried that being honest about your anxiety might push your partner away, this episode is for you.

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The prophetic is often presented as a reliable way to discern relationships — but for many people, it becomes a source of fear, control, and harm.

In this episode, we talk about spiritual abuse that took place in the context of prophetic language and relationships, and why relying on prophetic words to make dating or marriage decisions can be deeply unsafe.

We unpack how “God told me” has been used to override consent, silence discernment, and create anxiety — and why this approach doesn’t reflect how God actually leads His people.

This conversation is honest, grounded, and necessary for anyone who has been hurt or confused by spiritual authority in relationships.

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What do you do when spiritual advice about your relationship leaves you feeling anxious, confused, or afraid of getting it wrong?

In this episode of When You Don’t Know, we talk about the tension many Christians experience when church leadership doesn’t support their relationship — not for biblical reasons, but because of feelings, preferences, or a perceived “lack of peace.” For many, this creates deep relationship anxiety and the fear that disagreeing with leaders means disobeying God.

We explore:

• The difference between spiritual guidance and spiritual control

• Why anxiety often shows up when obedience to leaders is confused with obedience to God

• How God actually leads His people — and why fear, pressure, and urgency aren’t part of His voice

• What healthy spiritual leadership looks like in dating and relationships

If you’ve ever felt torn between your faith, your relationship, and your own discernment, this conversation is for you.

You’re not rebellious. You’re not faithless. And you’re not broken for wanting clarity and peace.

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You’re in a relationship, but you’re unsure if your callings align.

“What if this means we’re not meant to be together?”

“What if I’m missing God’s will?”

In this episode, we talk about why uncertainty around calling creates so much anxiety in Christian relationships, and why not having clarity doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.

We also discuss how fear can disguise itself as discernment, and how to approach questions about calling without spiraling into overthinking.

You’re not broken. You’re not behind. And you didn’t ruin God’s plan.

Hope you enjoy!

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Relationship anxiety doesn’t just make you overthink — it takes things from you.

Your confidence.

Your peace.

Your ability to enjoy your relationship.

And for so many people, the anxiety becomes so overwhelming that ending the relationship feels like the only way to get relief.

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the real cost of anxiety and how it silently impacts your relationship even when nothing is actually wrong. We’re talking about:

✨ How anxiety steals your confidence

✨ Why it’s so hard to feel peace around someone you love

✨ How fear becomes the lens you see your partner through

✨ Why so many people consider breaking up just to feel “normal” again

✨ And most importantly… how to silence the internal noise so you can finally breathe

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I just feel secure?” or “Why does my mind always spiral?”, this episode will make you feel deeply understood — and give you hope for a calmer, more grounded relationship.

You’re not broken.

You’re not alone.

And there is a path back to peace.

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What happens when two best friends start to fall for each other… but one of them is battling intense relationship anxiety?

In today’s episode, we sit down with Pedro & Aliah, a married couple who went from friends to lovers — and had to navigate fear, doubt, and anxiety to get there.

One partner struggled deeply with relationship anxiety and eventually joined our Relationship Anxiety Group Coaching Program, where they did the inner work, gained clarity, and learned how to move toward connection instead of fear. Their persistence, vulnerability, and commitment to growth led them to choosing each other — fully, confidently, and wholeheartedly.

Now they’ve been happily married for over a year, and they’re sharing their story with you.

In this conversation, we explore:

✨ How their friendship turned into something more

✨ What relationship anxiety looked like behind the scenes

✨ How faith, community, and support made all the difference

✨ The turning points that helped them move toward marriage

✨ Encouragement for couples navigating similar fears

If you or your partner have ever felt scared to choose the relationship — or feared choosing “wrong” — this episode will give you so much hope.

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If you’ve been stuck in an anxious loop about your relationship — constantly questioning your feelings, your partner, or whether you’re in God’s will — this episode is for you.

We’re breaking down the difference between reacting and responding to relationship anxiety, and why both can still leave you trapped in fear if you’re missing one key thing: your core beliefs.

Many people learn to pause before reacting, but never get to the root of why they feel unsafe in love.We’ll talk about how your beliefs about love, commitment, and God shape the way you experience anxiety — and how shifting them can finally bring peace.

🎧 In this episode:   

 •    The difference between reacting and responding   

 •    Why awareness isn’t always enough to heal anxiety    

•    How to uncover the core beliefs driving your fears   

 •    What it really means to trust God in relationships

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What’s it really like to marry someone who’s been married before… and already has kids?

In this week’s Imperfect Love Stories, we’re talking with Tiph and Andrew — a couple who’ve built something beautiful out of life’s second chances. We talk about the fears, assumptions, and growth that come with blending lives (and families), and what it looks like to let go of “perfect” love so you can embrace real love.

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Are you Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah? In this episode, we break down The Summer I Turned Pretty love triangle from the perspective of a marriage and family therapist and relationship anxiety coach.

Joy walks Mathieu (who has never seen the show!) through Belly’s relationships with Conrad and Jeremiah — from first love butterflies to Jeremiah’s cheating to Conrad’s emotional growth and big confession. Together, they explore what real love looks like, why we sometimes sabotage healthy relationships out of fear, and what it takes to build a secure relationship in real life.

Whether you’re a TSITP fan or just trying to figure out your own love life, this episode will help you think differently about chemistry, compatibility, and choosing love even when you feel anxious.

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