Are you Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah? In this episode, we break down The Summer I Turned Pretty love triangle from the perspective of a marriage and family therapist and relationship anxiety coach.

Joy walks Mathieu (who has never seen the show!) through Belly’s relationships with Conrad and Jeremiah — from first love butterflies to Jeremiah’s cheating to Conrad’s emotional growth and big confession. Together, they explore what real love looks like, why we sometimes sabotage healthy relationships out of fear, and what it takes to build a secure relationship in real life.

Whether you’re a TSITP fan or just trying to figure out your own love life, this episode will help you think differently about chemistry, compatibility, and choosing love even when you feel anxious.

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“Does God really take away something you love because He has something better?”

This idea has shaped so much of modern Christian dating culture — but it often creates more fear than freedom. In this episode of When You Don’t Know, we explore the roots of this message, how it fuels relationship anxiety, and what it really means to trust God in love and commitment.

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You got married and thought the anxiety would go away—but the doubts are still here.

“What if I made a mistake?”

“What if this wasn’t God’s will?”

In this episode, we talk about why anxiety can show up after marriage, how ROCD and spiritual fears play a role, and why it doesn’t mean you’re in the wrong relationship.

We also share what to do if you’re stuck in anxious spirals—and how to avoid falling into the relationship anxiety trap.

You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you didn’t ruin your life.

Hope you enjoy!

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In this episode, we’re opening up about some of the heavy things we’ve walked through over the past month. Honestly, we almost didn’t share this—but it didn’t feel right to move forward without acknowledging what’s been going on behind the scenes.

Trigger Warning: We talk about loss in this episode. If that feels too tender for you right now, please feel free to skip this one and take care of your heart.

Have you ever heard someone say the person you’re dating might be a counterfeit — someone sent by the enemy to distract you from “God’s best”? 😳

Whether it’s:

    •    A non-Christian labeled a trap 🎯

    •    A “fake Christian” in disguise 😈

    •    Or even a good person who just isn’t your “divine match” 💔…

This teaching has caused so many people to second-guess themselves, spiral in fear, and walk away from good relationships out of anxiety.

In this episode, we’re breaking down where the counterfeit spouse idea comes from, why it’s so harmful, and what a more freeing, peace-filled perspective looks like. If you’ve ever felt stuck in fear that you’ll choose wrong — this one’s for you.

💬 Let’s stop spiritualizing fear and start trusting the God who walks with us in every choice.

🎧 Listen now and tag a friend who needs to hear this truth.

👇 Ready to work with me to find peace and clarity in your relationship journey?

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In this episode, we explore how idealized expectations around love, faith, and life can lead to anxiety and doubt in your relationship. If your current relationship feels “off” because it doesn’t match what you always imagined, you’re not alone.

We talk about:

• The origin of unrealistic expectations

• How unmet hopes can fuel anxiety and confusion

• Spiritual pressure around “the one” and leadership

• What to do when your dream and your reality don’t align

Unmet expectations don’t always mean something’s wrong—they might just be pointing you toward a more grounded, authentic love.

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Do you ever wonder if the differences between you and your partner are red flags—or just normal, human differences? In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between true red flags (the kind you shouldn’t ignore) and preferences (the kind you can work through with the right tools).

We’ll walk through real-life examples—from faith and fitness to humor and ambition—and talk about how to tell when a difference is a dealbreaker or just something you need to talk about.

Whether you’re dating, engaged, or already deep in a relationship, this episode will help you breathe a little easier and trust yourself more when making relationship decisions.

Let’s take the pressure off and get honest about what really matters.

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In this episode, we’re getting real about what our walk with God looks like as a married couple—and how it doesn’t match the polished image a lot of Christian influencers put out. We talk about letting go of spiritual performance, not praying together every day, and learning to embrace a relationship with God that’s raw, honest, and personal.

If you want to work with us, follow this link: https://lnk.bio/joyrossignol

In this episode, we interview one of the many people who has worked with us. Like us, she used to struggle with relationship anxiety but her healing journey got her to where she is now; married and happy.

We hope you enjoy this episode!

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We feel it’s important for people to know that the thoughts you dwell on are physically changing your brain. It’s important to understand that we can’t indulge in anxiety.

If you want to work with us, check out this link:

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