Where Women Win with Sarah Fechter

It is Sunday night and she is standing on the cold bathroom tile. She has done everything right for three weeks.

She trained hard, increased her water. She hit her protein. She got up and showed up on the morning. She wanted nothing to do with it.

She slides the scale out from under the sink and before her foot even lands, her whole body and brain is already bracing. She steps on the scale.

The number is the exact fucking same as three weeks ago.

Maybe even up a pound.

And her heart sinks. Here comes the wave. She knows all so well. The one that says, what's wrong with me?

Why does this keep happening? Why does it work for everyone but me?

Maybe I need a GLP one and she's already doing the math on tomorrow. What? She's going to cut the calories.

She will take away the carbohydrates that she will take away from herself. How much smaller do I have to make myself to finally earn a different number on the scale? And running through all of this is the same thought she has heard her whole entire life.

This isn't working for me. That thought standing right there on the tile is where most women quit.

And what gets me is they almost always quit while it's working right before it pays off.

Because they don't understand. Her body may have been winning on the very day she decided to walk away from it.

Time Stamps:

(1:05) The Emotions From The Number

(2:32) Body Recomposition

(6:32) When The Scale Goes Up

(9:30) The Weekly Dopamine Hits

(12:20) Earning The Deficit

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Picture a woman sitting at a long conference table.

She's 32 years old.

She's there by herself and she's the only woman in the room. In front of her is a contract, and when she signs her name at the bottom of it, she is signing herself into a million dollars of debt.

She signs it anyway.

Then she drives home, sits down on her couch, and the man she loves looks at her and asks her how she feels, and she doesn't answer with words.

She starts to cry. Not a pretty cry either.

The ugly kind.

The kind that comes up from somewhere deep within her soul. Where all she can get out between the tears. Is that she's scared to death.

That woman was me back in 2012, and I want to tell you how I ended up at that table, because this week my gym turns fourteen years old, and the whole thing started with a terrified 32 year old betting everything she had on a building and a belief, because that is what it came down to in the end, a belief.

And I have learned in all the years since that your belief is the entire game, that whether you believe you can or you can't, you are exactly right.

Time Stamps:

(1:20) SFHQ Turns 14

(2:03) Back In 2003

(4:45) Running On Stress Hormones

(6:45) Starting To See Growth and Success

(9:00) Justin's Reaction

(14:40) My Focus Now Is Service

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There is a moment I have had hundreds of times over the years.

A woman sits across from me or she's on the other end of a call, and she lowers her voice a little and says, this might be TMI.

And I always smile because after sitting in the front row of women's health for twenty six years, there is truly nothing she can tell me I have not already heard many times over.

I have talked with women about their libido, their discharge, their hemorrhoids, their divorces, their autoimmune diagnosis, and all the things they were sure they could never bring to anyone, let alone bring to their doctor's office.

So when a woman drops her voice and tells me this might be TMI, the only thing I'm thinking on the inside is try me. We're going to have that conversation together in this episode and discuss the different stages of women's health, what this looks like to do it on your own, and what it would be like working with us the SF Coaching Method team.

Time Stamps:

(0:53) … This Might Be TMI

(2:10) Different Stages of Women Health

(3:35) Birth Control

(8:00) PMOS

(11:40) Doing This On Your Own

(14:30) When You Work With Us

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For a lot of women, midlife arrives hard. The symptoms, the unveiling, the way everything you buried starts rising to the surface.

I'm not going to sit here today and tell you that part is not real, because it is. And I cover it on many of my podcasts. But here's what I have learned in my own life and in the lives of the women we coach.

That hard season can become one of the biggest seasons of growth, awareness, and freedom you'll ever have.

Sometimes it is the rock bottom that finally forces you to pivot.

And most of us think this is the beginning of an end. And I want to come to you from the other side of this today, from what is waiting for you.

Once you take back control of your health, your nutrition, your relationships, your muscle, your values, your alignment.

What do you get to do with the first 38 to 42 years of your life and all of the wisdom they handed to you?

How do you carry that through? What is waiting on the other side?

Time Stamps:

(1:15) What's Waiting For You When You Take Control Of Your Health

(8:42) Live More Hurt Less By Sean Pastuch

(13:00) For The Younger Women Out There

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September is Perimenopause Awareness Month, and I want to lead a conversation today that is not being talked about nearly enough.

One I think deserves a lot of attention and light, and one you won't find in your social media platform or feed.

This is the work I live and teach every single day. I've coached hundreds of women through this transition and I'm walking it myself right now.

Now, if you were with me last week for episode one hundred forty four, we talked about the emotional side of midlife and how the people who love you can meet you in it.

Today is a different conversation. You're going to hear me repeat a couple of through lines because I say them often. And the biggest one is this perimenopause is not a moment.

It's not a single event. It's a transition over time.

But the angle I am bringing today is one you will not again find scrolling your newsfeed on social media, and you will not hear it being talked about.

It's the piece that keeps getting left out and it's important.

Time Stamps:

(0:48) Menopause Awareness Month

(4:40) Perimenopause Can Start Sooner Than You Think

(10:38) What This Feels Like

(11:55) Where This Lives In Me

(13:50) Client Example

(18:45) Women in Previous Generations

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There is a fear a lot of women carry in their forties, and they will not say it out loud to a single soul.

The fear is that they're becoming difficult, cold too much, that the warmth is draining out of them and they can't get it back.

That maybe something is wrong with them. I

f that fear sounds familiar and lives somewhere in you, hear me out.

There's nothing wrong with you.

You are becoming someone new, and almost no one around you has the language for what that feels like on the inside.

This is a different kind of episode today. No labs, no markers.

Today I'm talking about what a woman goes through in midlife.

Again, the part that happens in her mind, her mood and her relationships and why the people who love her keep reading it wrong.

And I'm going to talk straight to you.

The women in midlife who are in the thick of it. And I will acknowledge that's not every woman.

And near the end of this, I'm going to give you something to share with your people in your life your sister, your daughter, your closest friends.

Time Stamps:

(3:12) When A Small Question Sends You Over The Edge

(8:05) My Personal Experience

(13:48) Not Taking Things Personally

(18:10) Asking For Help

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There is a word that gets said in doctor's offices every single day.

For a lot of women, it is the most frustrating word they will ever hear.

The word is normal.

Earlier this year, a woman came to me with a stack of lab results and one sentence her doctor had handed her. You're fine. Everything looks normal and she did not feel normal. She was exhausted, not tired, wiped out.

Her hair was coming out in the shower, in clumps. The workout she used to love suddenly felt twice as hard. Her body was changing and not in the direction she wanted.

And on top of all of it, she had been bleeding every two weeks for six months straight, and she was told she was fine and she knew she was not fine.

So instead of accepting normal, she brought those same labs to me. And when I read them, the story was sitting right there in the numbers and had been there the whole time.

Today I'm going to walk you through what her labs really showed and why the word normal almost cost this woman her energy, her hair, and her sanity.

Time Stamps:

(0:48) The Word Normal In Your Doctor's Office

(3:55) The Role of Iron

(9:23) B12 MMA

(13:55) The SF Team

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There is a bottle right now in your pantry that says Pure Avocado Oil.

There's a bag of chips in the pantry that says it's made with avocado oil, and there is a real chance both of them are lying to you.

This summer, researchers at UC Davis tested a batch of processed foods that listed avocado oil as the only oil on the label.

Nearly nine out of every ten were cut with cheaper oils, and when I read that, my stomach dropped because I had a lab result sitting in a folder from a year earlier, that suddenly made sense.

Today I'm going to walk you through three things what the testing found, what showed up in my own blood work, and how long it took me to figure it out.

And the lesson sitting underneath all of it. The lesson I want you to carry out of this episode and into your kitchen tonight.

The label is not the truth.

Time Stamps:

(1:25) The Label Is Not The Truth

(2:15) The Explosion of Avocado Oil

(4:10) Contrasting Olive Oil

(10:15) My Husband's Chef Skills

(12:50) When It Stops Being About Labels

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My coffee had already gone cold on the counter the way it often does when the morning gets away from me.

An SF Coaching Method inquiry came through my email. I opened it up and read her answers.

The part of the forum where a woman gets to expand in her own words and one line stood out from every other inquiry I had ever read this year.

Six words. I'm sick of my own shit.

I read it and I smiled and what I felt was respect and a lot of curiosity.

I wanted to know more right away because after twenty six years of coaching women's health, I know exactly what that sentence is.

If you've felt this way too, listen in and let's take this journey together.

Time Stamps:

(0:50) Most Respect I've Had In A Coaching Application

(2:18) Does She Sound Like You?

(8:25) From Stuck To Relief

(10:50) Sexual Desire

(14:40) Asking For Help

(21:05) Our Health In This Country

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By the time the fire alarm goes off, the house has been quietly filling with smoke for ten years.

You don't smell it at first. A little tiredness you blame on a busy week, a period that comes early or maybe late a night.

You wake up at three a m soaked and wide awake for no reason, a word that won't come to you in the middle of a sentence, one at a time.

They're easy to wave off, easy to promise yourself you'll deal with it later.

That's the cruel thing about smoke. It never arrives all at once. It comes so slowly that you learn to adjust to it. You get used to being tired.

You get used to a bad night's sleep. You start calling your symptoms normal. Hell, we brush it off with humor.

We're just getting old now. That's how we are.

This is what forty looks like. And the slower it comes, the easier it is to convince yourself there's nothing there at all.

And then one day, the alarm is screaming, and you're standing in a doctor's office in your forties, maybe in your fifties, with a lab sheet full of numbers that are suddenly not okay with you, wondering how it all happened so fast.

It didn't happen fast. It happened over the two decades. We're going to unpack those last two decades together on this episode.

Time Stamps:

(2:05) What Perimenopause Really Is

(3:45) Who I Talk To Every Single Week

(17:40) What You Don't Have To Tell Me

(21:18) Why The SF Coaching Method Exists

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