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Ari, Chuck, and Faisal dive deep into one of the biggest complaints they hear from men: "My wife never initiates sex anymore." Whether you're in a dead bedroom situation, feeling like you're always chasing, or wondering if you stopped initiating whether sex would happen at all… this conversation is going to open your eyes.
We get into:
Why "it's always the masculine's job to initiate" might actually be true
The difference between initiation and seduction (and why women do it differently)
How you've probably been approaching sex all wrong — like a "sexual camel" waiting for water
Why your wife isn't initiating (hint: it's not about her libido)
The real reason men crave initiation from women (it's not what you think)
How to rebuild attraction and polarity when the spark has died
Why being a "nice guy" who does the honey-do list isn't foreplay
The connection between sex appeal, effort, and actually being desirable
This one's for every man who's ever thought "Why am I always the one?" or "She used to want me all the time." Listen. Learn. Start showing up differently. Because the problem isn't that she doesn't want sex — it's that she doesn't want sex with the man you've become.
Time to change that.
Subscribe to the Nice Guy Show newsletter to get tips and insights on how to lead a high-value life
https://niceguyshow.com/
Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
https://masculine.co/
https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk
Connect with Chuck Chapman:
https://chuckchapman.com/
https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/
Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
https://drarigraff.com/
https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
https://youtube.com/@AriGraff
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Ari, Chuck, and Faisal dive deep into one of the biggest complaints they hear from men: "My wife never initiates sex anymore." Whether you're in a dead bedroom situation, feeling like you're always chasing, or wondering if you stopped initiating whether sex would happen at all… this conversation is going to open your eyes.
We get into:
Why "it's always the masculine's job to initiate" might actually be true
The difference between initiation and seduction (and why women do it differently)
How you've probably been approaching sex all wrong — like a "sexual camel" waiting for water
Why your wife isn't initiating (hint: it's not about her libido)
The real reason men crave initiation from women (it's not what you think)
How to rebuild attraction and polarity when the spark has died
Why being a "nice guy" who does the honey-do list isn't foreplay
The connection between sex appeal, effort, and actually being desirable
This one's for every man who's ever thought "Why am I always the one?" or "She used to want me all the time." Listen. Learn. Start showing up differently. Because the problem isn't that she doesn't want sex — it's that she doesn't want sex with the man you've become.
Time to change that.
Subscribe to the Nice Guy Show newsletter to get tips and insights on how to lead a high-value life
https://niceguyshow.com/
Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
https://masculine.co/
https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk
Connect with Chuck Chapman:
https://chuckchapman.com/
https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/
Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
https://drarigraff.com/
https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
https://youtube.com/@AriGraff
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