Bryan and Chris are joined by resident gay betch Dylan Hafer to break down the James Charles Youtube drama. Dylan explains how Charles became enemy number one after clashing with his former mentor Tati Westbrook. Who is really to blame here? At 18:50 they’re joined by John Paul ("JP") Brammer, managing editor at the Trevor Project. They talk about coming out later in life and what it’s like to grow up gay in rural America. JP tells us about his advice column and shares some of the most common questions he gets. Why is everyone worried they’re being “too” gay? At 38:45 a listener writes in to ask if he needs to tell his friend that they’re both flirting with the same guy. Are you obligated to be honest about a mutual crush? They close out the show with a conversation about the new gender-swap Snapchat filter, and whether or not we should be concerned about its implications.

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