What began as affectionate nostalgia, remembering the men who taught them gay culture, the language, how to navigate the lifestyle — gradually unfolds into a heavier realization. With the hindsight of adulthood and therapy, we come to name what they experienced for what it was: grooming! Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220

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Jay has a confession to make: he might be a prude... or maybe he's just becoming a full-blown Karen.

The guys discuss apartment living etiquette, and the fine line between being considerate and being competely annoyed by everyone.

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What happens when your own grandmother breaks your femur, and then gives your money to the church? The guys break down a wild TikTok story that has the internet completely divided. Is he wrong for going after the insurance? Was grandma out of pocket? And why are the cousins making everything worse? Buckle up, because this family drama has layers. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220

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This week, the crew tackles a story that has sparked conversations across the country—the tragic death of Nolan Wells, an 18-year-old Black teen from Mississippi whose disappearance and death have left many unanswered questions. As details continue to emerge, Jay, Torrian, and Chef Von discuss race, trust, community, and the realities of navigating America as Black people.

The conversation expands beyond the headlines into personal experiences, cultural perspectives, interracial relationships, systemic racism, privilege, and the lessons Black families pass down for survival. It's an emotional, thought-provoking, and at times uncomfortable discussion that challenges listeners to examine how history shapes the way we view present-day events. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220

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Inspired by a recent episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, the conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about sexuality, identity, religion, family expectations, and the complicated ways LGBTQ+ people are represented in media.

What starts as reality TV commentary evolves into an honest and vulnerable conversation about growing up gay, navigating shame, acceptance, parenthood, and the different standards society places on queer men and women. With plenty of laughs, personal stories, and a few unexpected detours down memory lane, this episode delivers exactly what Catch My Black and Gay does best: keeping it real.

🎙️ Reality TV, real conversations, and a whole lot of perspective. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220

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In one of our most vulnerable conversations yet, Chef Von opens up about addiction, mental health, recovery, and the friends who helped him find his way back to himself. It's an honest, emotional, and at times hilarious reminder that healing isn't linear, but showing up for yourself is always worth it.

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After nearly three years, the crew is finally back—and picking up right where they left off. In this episode, Jay, Chef Von, and Torrian reconnect, reflect on their time away, and ease back into their signature unfiltered chemistry. From hilarious behind-the-scenes struggles with dusty equipment and tech issues to real conversations about career transitions, personal growth, and evolving friendships, it’s a mix of chaos, laughter, and honesty.

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Do you put raisins in your coleslaw? Do you put eggs in your mac and cheese? In this episode, the guys discuss their holiday dinners.

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Have you ever dated someone that is living with HIV? In this episode, the guys get educated on what its like to date someone living with HIV and how to use inclusive language when speaking on this topic.

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