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If you've been using ERP or the Triple-A Response and still feel stuck, this episode explains why. Matt Codde, LCSW breaks down one of the most misunderstood concepts in OCD and anxiety recovery: the difference between chasing a future free of intrusive thoughts versus ascending to a higher level of consciousness where those thoughts lose their grip.
Most people in OCD recovery are secretly operating from a cause-and-effect loop: "If I eliminate the thoughts, I'll eliminate the anxiety." Matt explains why this Newtonian paradigm keeps you oscillating in the same cycle — and why recovery only becomes possible when you stop treating it as a destination and start treating it as a shift in consciousness.
Using Einstein's principle that you can't solve a problem from the same level of consciousness that created it, this episode reframes the entire goal of recovery tools like ERP and the Triple-A Response — and shows you what it actually looks like when they start working.
🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✅Understand why OCD recovery is spectral (not linear) and why this distinction changes everything
✅Learn why using ERP or the Triple-A Response to "get rid of thoughts" actively keeps you stuck
✅See why self-deception — saying the right things externally while still resisting internally — blocks real progress
✅Discover how different levels of consciousness produce completely different experiences of OCD and anxiety
✅Understand why resistance is the real driver of suffering — not the intrusive thoughts themselves
✅Learn how the Triple-A Response is designed to release underlying emotion and shift consciousness — not suppress thoughts
✅See why recovery is a present-moment shift, not a futuristic destination you're trying to reach
🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:
📥 FREE Recovery Guide
Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance.
👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start
📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck
Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life
.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT
📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program
Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.
👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc
🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support:
✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content.
👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds
✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content:
👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD
👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30
✅ Ask a Question for a future episode:
👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck
👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/bookFollow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media:
🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/
🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/
🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/
🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds
📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us!
⏱️ Timestamps
• 00:00 — What this episode is about: Recovery isn't linear, it's spectral
• 00:33 — The self-deception that keeps OCD sufferers stuck• 01:53 — The Newtonian cause-and-effect paradigm that drives the OCD loop
• 03:17 — Why you can't solve this from a linear plane
• 04:38 — What "spectral" recovery means and levels of consciousness
• 06:59 — How working from a new paradigm produces rapid real shifts
• 08:09 — The present-moment shift that breaks the loop for good
Disclaimer
⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.
By Matthew Codde LCSW4.8
259259 ratings
If you've been using ERP or the Triple-A Response and still feel stuck, this episode explains why. Matt Codde, LCSW breaks down one of the most misunderstood concepts in OCD and anxiety recovery: the difference between chasing a future free of intrusive thoughts versus ascending to a higher level of consciousness where those thoughts lose their grip.
Most people in OCD recovery are secretly operating from a cause-and-effect loop: "If I eliminate the thoughts, I'll eliminate the anxiety." Matt explains why this Newtonian paradigm keeps you oscillating in the same cycle — and why recovery only becomes possible when you stop treating it as a destination and start treating it as a shift in consciousness.
Using Einstein's principle that you can't solve a problem from the same level of consciousness that created it, this episode reframes the entire goal of recovery tools like ERP and the Triple-A Response — and shows you what it actually looks like when they start working.
🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✅Understand why OCD recovery is spectral (not linear) and why this distinction changes everything
✅Learn why using ERP or the Triple-A Response to "get rid of thoughts" actively keeps you stuck
✅See why self-deception — saying the right things externally while still resisting internally — blocks real progress
✅Discover how different levels of consciousness produce completely different experiences of OCD and anxiety
✅Understand why resistance is the real driver of suffering — not the intrusive thoughts themselves
✅Learn how the Triple-A Response is designed to release underlying emotion and shift consciousness — not suppress thoughts
✅See why recovery is a present-moment shift, not a futuristic destination you're trying to reach
🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:
📥 FREE Recovery Guide
Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance.
👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start
📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck
Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life
.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT
📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program
Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.
👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc
🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support:
✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content.
👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds
✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content:
👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD
👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30
✅ Ask a Question for a future episode:
👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck
👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/bookFollow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media:
🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/
🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/
🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/
🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds
📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us!
⏱️ Timestamps
• 00:00 — What this episode is about: Recovery isn't linear, it's spectral
• 00:33 — The self-deception that keeps OCD sufferers stuck• 01:53 — The Newtonian cause-and-effect paradigm that drives the OCD loop
• 03:17 — Why you can't solve this from a linear plane
• 04:38 — What "spectral" recovery means and levels of consciousness
• 06:59 — How working from a new paradigm produces rapid real shifts
• 08:09 — The present-moment shift that breaks the loop for good
Disclaimer
⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

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