March 06, 2025

Why You’re Not Turned On: The Truth About Low Desire, Sexual Shame & Mismatched Libidos With Susan Morgan Taylor, MA

31 minutes

Ever wondered why you don’t crave sex the way you used to? Or why your partner always seems to want it more (or less) than you? You’re not broken—but the way we’ve been taught to think about desire is.

In this episode, I sit down with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to uncover the real reasons behind low sex drive, desire discrepancies, and why women are often blamed for “not wanting it enough.”

If you’ve ever felt disconnected, pressured, or “not in the mood” more than you’d like, this episode will change everything you thought you knew about desire.

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About the Guest:

Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, is a somatic sex therapist who has helped hundreds of couples reignite their sex lives and deepen intimacy. She is the creator of The Pleasure Keys Process™, a three-part approach designed to help partners break free from sexual frustration and self-sacrifice.

After leaving a sexless marriage, Susan discovered that pleasure and orgasm are natural states—already within us, just waiting to be unlocked. With over 25 years of experience in body-based healing, she now teaches couples how to get back on the same page in the bedroom—without guilt, shame, or obligation.

Timecode:
00:03:38 - Understanding Desire Discrepancy

00:06:19 - The Pleasure Keys Process

00:08:10 - The Role of Presence in Sexuality

00:19:12 - Women's Sexuality and Contextual Desire

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(0:00) The disconnect in sexual timing and arousal styles between couples

(1:27) Spirituality and sexuality with guest Susan Morgan Taylor

(3:01) Myths and realities about desire and arousal maps

(8:10) The role of presence and the three "N"s in pleasure

(14:57) Communication and negotiation in sexual relationships

(18:06) Exploring factors affecting women's desire and libido

(22:09) Male vs. female brain function in sexual arousal

(23:20) Embracing emotions and spirituality in sexuality

(28:14) Introducing part two, Libido Club, and Susan's resources

(31:33) Closing remarks and social media handles

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