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January 12 What is a soul tie and how do I break one? (Part 2)
Disclaimer: This episode explores mature topics including sex and rape, and may not reflect the views of all Christians
This is part two of an in-depth discussion on the topic of soul ties! In part one, host Tola-Doll Fisher spoke with Bobbi Kumari about sexual soul ties – which can have positive outcomes in a godly marriage and negative ones outside of it.
On this episode, Tola-Doll and guest Stacy Hulm discuss the relationship between soul ties and unforgiveness.
Stacy is a former Christian radio presenter and a certified inner healing and deliverance minister. Last year she released a new book called, By My Word, They Will Be Healed. Her and her husband Nick are co-founders of Healing House Ministries in Missouri. Stacy's article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the conversation we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/you-can-have-an-ungodly-soul-tie-with-the-person-you-refuse-to-forgive/19181.article and find out more about with Stacy’s ministry at https://www.stacyhulm.com/
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘How do I set boundaries with a toxic friend?’
The Woman Alive podcast is produced by award-winning podcast producer, Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
39 min
January 05 What is a soul tie and how do I break one? (Part 1)
Disclaimer: This episode explores mature and sensitive topics including rape and may not reflect the views of all Christians
On this episode, host Tola-Doll Fisher and guest Bobbi Kumari deep dive into a topic that many Christians are either unaware of, or don’t fully understand – soul ties.
Sexual soul ties are often misunderstood by Christians, or sometimes misunderstood altogether. What are sexual soul ties, why did God create them and how can they be broken?
This is part one of two in-depth discussions on soul ties.
Bobbi Kumari is a speaker, teacher, author and founder of fashion and lifestyle brand Living in Light. She is also the producer of the Living in Light Podcast and author of the book, Sacred Sexuality: Rewire Your Desire Towards True Intimacy. Bobbi's article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the conversation we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/what-are-sexual-soul-ties-why-did-god-create-them-and-how-can-they-be-broken/13639.article and find out more about with Bobbi’s ministry at https://www.livinginlight.co.uk/
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘I feel bitter towards my dead husband’
The Woman Alive podcast is produced by award-winning podcast producer, Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
42 min
December 29, 2025 Christians can’t be nice all the time!
Have you ever been told you’re “too nice”? Do you struggle to tell people “no”?
Are you desperate to make everyone around you happy, at your own expense?
God calls us to be holy, righteous, kind, gentle and patient – but have we substituted the fruit of the Holy Spirit for people pleasing and seeking approval?
On this episode, host Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests discuss why being too nice isn’t always a good or Christian thing to do.
Danielle Finch is a wife, mum and former SEN (Special Educational Needs) teacher. She is now a freelance writer, sharing her experience of navigating life, parenting and faith, with disability. Danielle's article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/i-was-a-people-pleaser-and-i-thought-it-made-me-a-better-christian/20227.article and you can connect with Danielle at @thisdisabledfamilylife
Rachel Allcock is a high school teacher-librarian. She is also a content writer, social media manager, and events assistant for Activate Your Life. The Activate organisation exists to equip, resource, train and inspire Christian women to be active in sharing God's love in natural, meaningful ways. You can find out more about Activate at https://www.activateyourlife.org.uk/ and connect with Rachel at @weetabixglue.words
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘I have met a guy online, is he the real deal?!’
The Woman Alive podcast is produced by award-winning podcast producer, Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
44 min
December 22, 2025 Managing mixed feelings at Christmas
It’s Christmas! And while this season brings much joy to both believers and non-believers - many of us will be navigating mixed emotions at this time of year.
A recent YouGov poll on Christmas revealed only 59% of Brits feel happy over the festive period. Christmas can come with a lot of ‘shoulds’ and unrealistic social expectations of happiness and connectedness. But, along with the festive cheer, comes memories of loved ones who are no longer with us, navigating complex family dynamics, loneliness, busyness and pressure to make the day special.
On this episode, host Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests consider how Christians might celebrate in this season, whilst being considerate of these mixed feelings - in themselves and others.
Rhiannon and her husband Pete serve together in a small church in Preston and have a blended family of six. She is also director of the charity Activate Your Life, which inspires women to share God’s love in authentic ways. Rhiannon's article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/notes-on-parenting--celebrate-with-care-this-christmas/20563.article and you can find out more about Activate Your Life at https://www.activateyourlife.org.uk/
Bekah Legg is CEO of Restored, a Christian organisation with a mission to speak up about violence against women and equip the Church to stand against domestic abuse and with survivors. Bekah and her late husband Steve have a blended family including five girls. You can find out more about Restored at https://www.restored-uk.org/
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘How do I not fall out with my family this Christmas?’
The Woman Alive podcast is produced by award-winning podcast producer, Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
46 min
December 15, 2025 If God made us so perfectly, why do we need the beauty industry?
Disclaimer: this episode references abortion
On the surface, it’s easy to label the beauty industry one big “vanity project” that lacks any real substance and only magnifies our insecurities.
However, even the most committed Christian women – some of your favourite preachers and role models – will likely have makeup or skincare favourites as well as potentially indulging in beauty treatments. But from a Christian perspective, if God made us so wonderfully, why do Christians even need the beauty industry?
Amy Dyas is a professionally trained makeup artist with experience in Editorial, Fashion (including London Fashion Week), TV, Bridal, Music Videos and Film. Amy is passionate about clean beauty and using sustainably sourced products and her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: womanalive.co.uk/discovering-clean-beauty/19003.article and connect with Amy on Instagram @beautycleanbyamy @justbeyoutiful
Mariana Mathenan is a beautician, and founder of ‘Grace on Wheels’, a beauty van which provides free treatments to women who are without homes or have been victims of domestic violence and/or human trafficking. This year, Mariana felt led by God to sell the van and open a beauty shop, and she is currently looking for a new owner for the beauty van. You can connect with Mariana on Instagram @graceonwheelsbv
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘How do I get over being jealous of my married friends?’
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
47 min
December 08, 2025 Are we over spiritualising sex within marriage?
When was the last time you heard this three-letter word at church? On this episode of the Woman Alive podcast, Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests talk about sex... and if you now feel immediately uncomfortable, then this may just be the episode for you!
Whilst the world is obsessed with sex - there seems to be an unspoken embargo on the topic in the Church, which only lifts when you get married – and even then, there are limited spaces to discuss it. The Bible describes sex as a holy gift of intimacy from God, to be enjoyed in marriage. So why has the conversation been blacklisted in so many of our churches?
Shakira Peronet is a freelance copywriter and content creator. Though originally from London, she now lives in Paris, after a pandemic romance resulted in marriage. Her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/we-expect-married-couples-to-go-from-zero-to-hero-in-the-bedroom-after-their-wedding-but-i-found-out-its-not-that-simple/13451.article and connect with Shakira on Instagram @shakirainparis
Tracey Nash is a social media manager, worship leader and teacher of the Word in her local church. She is an avid traveller, wordsmith, a lover of food and Jesus! You can connect with Tracey on Instagram @wrappednculture
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘I feel insecure in my marriage’
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
45 min
December 01, 2025 Is the Holy Spirit the female part of God?
The Bible tells us that we are created in the image of God - but as male and female, how is the image of God expressed in our genders? Is it scriptural to identify femininity in the nature of God? Have we created an image of God built on patriarchy? Is the church too feminine …and how does all this impact your relationship with God? On this episode of the Woman Alive podcast, Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests discuss God, femininity and the Church.

Elaine Storkey is a theologian, lecturer, broadcaster and Christian feminist. In 2020 she wrote a book titled ‘Women in a Patriarchal World’ which was based on her articles for Woman Alive magazine. She has been writing Bible Studies for Woman Alive for 25 years! Her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/is-the-holy-spirit-the-female-part-of-god/19813.article
Sally Hope is a writer specialising in faith, feminism and domestic abuse. She is also the creator of the Always Hopeful Programme and author of the book No Visible Scars. Both are resources for Christian women who have experienced domestic abuse. You can find out more about Sally’s work at www.alwayshopeful.org.uk
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Elaine’s book ‘Meeting God In Matthew’
Sally’s book ‘No Visible Scars’
Find support at Restored https://www.restored-uk.org/
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled ‘I did everything the right way but ended up with nothing. I feel so let down by God’
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
44 min
November 24, 2025 Navigating Neurodivergence with Motherhood and Faith
Neurodivergence, motherhood and faith are a unique intersection which more Christians are navigating, as awareness grows of the genetics that can affect our learning. Many believers are involved in campaigning to remove the stigma in the Church. At the time of recording, this topic had become heavily politicised following the US President’s controversial comments about the cause of Autism. Tola-Doll Fisher explores how Christian women navigate neurodivergence with motherhood and faith.
Julie Williams is a writer and marketing specialist living in Cape Town, South Africa. She is a wife and mother to five children, and received an ADHD diagnosis at the age of 40. Her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/i-am-a-christian-mum-of-five-and-i-just-found-out-i-have-adhd/16195.article
Ann Wilson is a diagnostic clinician for autistic adults, working for the NHS. She and her husband have two adult children, and their daughter was diagnosed with ADHD and autism at the age of 6.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Andrew Wilson’s book ‘The Life You Never Expected’
National Autistic Society - https://www.autism.org.uk/
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled: I want to leave my husband!
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
41 min
November 17, 2025 How do you find a godly spouse?!
A recent study commissioned by the non-Christian dating platform ‘Tinder’, reported that more than 90% of single adults think ‘dating is more difficult than ever’.
We are in an era of a million online dating apps, and with that comes the risk of catfishing, banksying, ghosting and many more iterations of poor dating etiquette!
And, sadly, this list does not exclude Christians. Tola-Doll Fisher asks is it really as bad as it sounds?
*(On this episode we welcome our very first male guest to give his perspective!)
Tim Bechervaise is a photographer and freelance writer focusing on sports, culture and Christianity. Tim is also a copywriter for Open Doors UK & Ireland and currently lives with his wife just outside of London. Tim's article for Woman Alive on dating as a single man was published back in 2022 before he was married: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/im-a-single-christian-man-and-these-are-the-things-women-do-on-dating-apps-that-i-find-difficult/12754.article and connect with Tim on Instagram @tim_bechervaise
Cassandra Maria is an award-winning broadcaster, comedian and content creator based in Birmingham, and the programme manager of Premier Gospel.
Cassandra was also engaged (at time of recording, though she is now married) to her fiancé who she met through a dating app! You can connect with Cassandra on Instagram @cassvillle
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled: Should I church hop to find a husband?
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
47 min
November 10, 2025 Are we still telling Christian women how to dress “appropriately”?
Throughout history what women wear has always come under scrutiny. This is the case both in wider society, and the Church! Whether it’s pressure to come to service in your “Sunday best” or other extremes of trouser bans and mandatory head coverings – many Christian women are still being told how to dress “appropriately”. On this episode of the Woman Alive podcast, Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests explore why this is still happening today, and what the bible says about modesty.
Hope Bonarcher is a native New Yorker, living with her Scottish husband and four children just outside Glasgow. She is a model, actress and singer. Her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/what-the-world-views-as-liberal-sexuality-god-calls-bondage/19355.article and connect with Hope on Instagram @hopebonarcher
Dara Olagbami is an author, editor in chief and founder of Grace magazine, which combines faith, fashion and lifestyle. She is also the co-founder of Its Huntd – a digital members-only platform which offers exclusive luxury fashion items! You can connect Dara on Instagram @beingdara
The Great Sexpectation question in this episode is titled: My in-laws are toxic!
The producer of the Woman Alive podcast is Dami Okeke.
Special offer! Podcast listeners get 50% off Woman Alive magazine: womanalive.co.uk/podcast
43 min

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