Have listened twice. Will need to listen a few more times I think...but a follow up question:

So if we are showing up with our clients who are asking us to create a six-figure business strategy with them so that they can prove to their parents that they can or so that THEN they can relax, or showing up to our kids who are asking us for more social media time so that they can show off how many snaps or toks they have (or whatever the cool kids do) - do we somehow need to first educate them about this separate secure-seeking self-thing so they are not asking for such ego-securing things from us? 

Here, however, I guess, we might notice there IS either a) obvious suffering in this interaction, or b) the sneaky "sigh, if only they were as enlightened as me" and then the natural suffering brought on by trying to 'educate' them LOLs. So this suffering indicates this is still a 'dirty one' and so brilliant - a chance to explore more deeply.

Or, as I suspect, that as our understanding changes, so do the questions and the requests they are showing up with? Because they are ARE us. And simple giving and receiving happens.

How cool if THAT is your answer:)

Because then we get to show up with clients/kids and EVERY interaction is a gift so there really is nothing to lose through full engagement with it ALL.