WTF... OnlyFans Recruiting Agencies exist?! In this episode, I chat with Victoria Sinis who speaks about her experience working at an OnlyFans Recruiting Agency and why she quit after crying at work everyday.  Now, Victoria speaks at schools to empower young women and to encourage people to think twice about OnlyFans. We also discuss the impact OnlyFans and porn are having on society and the consequences of our overly sexualized culture on  younger generations, women, men, and relationships.

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@visibility.minist
Website: https://victoriamariasinis.com/
 

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Society never teaches us how to express anger. We're taught that anger is not "ladylike" and we need to be sweet, gentle, kind, and quiet 24/7 but I disagree. Feelings are meant to be felt, not controlled. Our anger is so important and powerful because it's telling us that something isn't right. It's our body's way of communicating to us that we are hurt and we need to do something about it.

Betrayal brings out so much anger. I want you to know you are validated and normal for feeling this. You're not alone and many people struggle with the neverending feelings of anger after betrayal

In this episode, we explore how to finally release anger and how we can let it transform us.

Spotify playlist "RAGE IT OUT": https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1HGTx1HNFyIW4yuIx0pwO0?si=r_AlPZ_NRSOtQXIJSv_K_Q&pi=u-t7CJMV7gQ8eu&nd=1&dlsi=38bf9701e3a54a47

Book: The Body Keeps The Score: https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748

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In this episode, I interview Sexual Addiction Therapist, Dan Ellenberg MA, NCC, LPCA. Some highlights of the show include:

- Dan discovering porn at 9 years old which led to an addiction 
- Why men don't often speak up about their porn struggles and hide it in relationships 
- Why the porn or sex addiction started years before the relationship even started and isn't because of the woman/partner
-  Why a sex or porn addiction isn't actually about the sex/porn or "attractiveness" of other women 
- How a porn habit can escalate into an addiction
- The chemicals being released in your brain while watching porn 
- Why porn users continue going back to porn even when it makes them feel bad
- Why the problem of pornography is underplayed
- Intimacy disorder resulting from an insecure attachment style 
- How EMDR can help people overcome addictions and trauma
- Why surveillance tools like CovenentEyes don't solve the issue of relapsing

If you'd like to contact Dan, you can reach him at https://www.dynamiscounseling.com/

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If your ex immediately went on the dating apps after your break up,  you're already doing better mentally and emotionally than they are. This episode dives into the fact that they aren't over you, it's an unhealthy coping mechanism because they miss your presence, and inspiration for you to stay off the apps immediately after a breakup and to focus on dating yourself instead <3  

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This episode discusses warning signs he may watch a lot of porn or have a potential porn addiction from women who discovered it in their relationships/marriages. Research continuously shows porn can rewire the brain and have a negative impact on relationships. Whether you're in a relationship or actively dating and vetting out potential partners, this episode contains information from betrayed partners navigating Partner Betrayal Trauma  (women who were in marriages/relationships and discovered their partner had a secret porn addiction years into the relationship).

Links to articles and research mentioned in the episode:
- https://uploads-ssl.webflow.com/61708b185d7d724acc2096da/61a5399eb4455c2a32f84d60_The_Secret_Sexual_Basement_Nov_2021.pdf
- https://fightthenewdrug.org/science-behind-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction/
- https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-can-distort-consumers-understanding-of-healthy-sex/
- https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-reasons-why-relationships-and-porn-dont-mix/
- https://fightthenewdrug.org/lets-talk-about-porn/

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This episode was originally recorded on February 18, 2024 on the podcast "Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast" by Jeremy Lipkowitz. You can find his podcast on the main podcast sources and the episode is called "My Partner's Porn Addiction: Dealing with Betrayal Trauma & Understanding the Effects of Porn on Intimacy"

In this episode, host Jeremy Lipkowitz converses with guest Mandy about her experience with a partner struggling with porn addiction. Mandy discusses the negative impacts porn addiction can have on relationships and individuals, and provide powerful insights into the partner's perspective of the situation. She shares her emotional journey of discovering, dealing with, and recovering from her partner's addiction, highlighting the importance of understanding, honesty, and vulnerability in relationships. Mandy also mentions the damage caused by the betrayal trauma, like PTSD, and advocates for more public discourse and education on the subject to prevent similar situations and provide better support for those affected. 

You can connect with Jeremy here
IG: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-bdQfwz2imRezP6YmUnNWKWUy8yEmcMw 

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Years of research are now showing that porn is rewiring our brains and negatively impacting mental health and relationships as a result.  It’s time to shed light on a topic that society continuously turns a blind eye to… because WTF is it doing to us all long-term???

This is an unfiltered journey through the complexities of discovering a partner’s secret porn addiction turned sex addiction, the feelings of betrayal, inadequacy, and embarrassment that overwhelm many women after experiencing Partner Betrayal Trauma, and the journey of healing, empowerment, and encouragement to rise from porn’s negative effects. 

Mandy is a trauma-informed and women's empowerment life coach. She's also a meditation teacher and breathwork facilitator. 

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