WTF - Stories and Advice

In 1990, 17-year-old María Soledad Morales left a spring festival in Argentina and never came home. What followed wasn't just a murder investigation — it was a masterclass in how power protects itself, and what happens when ordinary people decide they've had enough. A nun named Sister Martha helped lead weekly Silent Marches of students and townspeople that grew into a national movement, forced federal intervention, and eventually shook a political dynasty to its core. Caroline and Daryl break down the case, the cover-up, the extraordinary protests that changed Argentina, and what it actually takes to hold powerful people accountable. Plus: media recommendations, a few wild tangents, and the usual chaos.

Learn more about the case in Netflix's Breaking the Silence

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Timestamps:

• 00:00 — Intro banter and meet the hosts
• 02:47 — The María Soledad case: who she was and what happened
• 07:05 — The cover-up and the powerful names behind it
• 08:22 — The Silent March movement begins
• 11:17 — Trials, witnesses, and the political fallout
• 14:46 — Legacy: femicide, justice, and what actually changed
• 16:48 — Cover-ups in pop culture: Netflix picks and recommendations
• 23:26 — The empathy question: how do people switch it off?
• 34:36 — Protests, boycotts, and how ordinary people fight back
• 38:15 — What we're watching and reading
• 43:21 — Outro

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We start where all great podcasts start — glamping, punctured air mattresses (thanks, cat), and a heated debate about what exactly Daryl means when he talks about "reading your ring."

From there we somehow end up deep in geopolitics, oil supply crises, and the kind of predictions that make you want to quietly stockpile pasta and rethink your entire life plan. Just a normal Tuesday.

In this episode:

We talk about the YouTube rabbit hole that has consumed Caroline's soul: Professor Jiang (technically Xueqin, technically a high school teacher, universally called Professor because he's just that good). His channel Predictive History uses game theory, structural historical analysis, and something borrowed from Isaac Asimov called psychohistory to model where geopolitics is actually heading — not based on what leaders say, but what the incentives force them to do.

His three big predictions: Trump wins the election ✅, US goes to war with Iran ✅, US loses that war 👀

We get into The Iron Trap — his argument that the US has structurally locked itself into conflict with Iran regardless of who's in the White House. We also talk about the Peloponnesian War, the fall of empires (spoiler: they always overextend), and why America at 250 years old is basically just following the script every empire before it has followed.

Then we get into the part that's actually affecting us right now: oil supply, the Strait of Hormuz, and what a diesel shortage actually means. Hint: it's not just expensive petrol. It's food not moving, ambulances not moving, farms stopping. We break down what's actually in the tanks, what's on the water, and what happens when the ships stop coming

Practical things we actually recommend:

• Stock up on basics — rice, canned food, olive oil, powdered milk, oats
• Get your medications in bulk if you can
• Back up your files — don't rely entirely on Google
• Look into Starlink if internet resilience matters to you
• Get an electric bike. Daryl got one. He's very pleased with himself.
• Follow Suzanne Peet (@thesuzannepeet on TikTok) for genuinely sane food security advice that doesn't involve becoming a full survivalist weirdo
• Check out Armstrong Economics and Martin Armstrong's Socrates system if you want more predictive modelling rabbit holes

And yes, we do also recommend regulating your nervous system, growing microgreens on your windowsill, talking to your neighbours, and remembering that humans are actually mostly good and community is the real prep.

We're not saying panic. We're saying: know what's coming, make some sensible moves, and maybe don't wait until the shelves are empty to buy rice.

Helpful links:

• 📺 Predictive History on YouTube
• 🌐 Armstrong Economics
• 🛢️ NZ Fuel Watch: FuelWatch.nz
• 📱 @thesuzannepeet on TikTok
• 📧 [email protected] — send us your tips, your stories, and your best rice recipes

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ www.darylgove.com https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Timestamps:

• 00:00 Glamping, punctured mattresses, and cat chaos
• 01:12 Dayvigo vs melatonin — the deep sleep data war
• 02:22 The ring joke that got completely out of hand
• 03:29 Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice
• 04:47 Things therapists probably shouldn't talk about (we do anyway)
• 05:42 Meet Professor Jiang — China's Nostradamus
• 07:15 The three predictions and what comes next
• 09:56 Who actually is this guy?
• 15:53 Game theory, psychohistory, and predictive history explained
• 19:16 The Iron Trap — why the Iran war was always going to happen
• 21:47 Every empire overextends. Every single one.
• 26:51 The Strait of Hormuz and what it actually means for us down here
• 29:01 How fuel prices really work (and why it's worse than you think)
• 30:05 How many days of diesel does NZ actually have?
• 31:57 What happens when the supply chain stops
• 32:56 The bigger geopolitical picture — who has the oil now
• 35:17 Practical prep: what to actually do
• 40:24 Suzanne Peet and the food security mindset shift
• 47:06 Getting around without petrol (Daryl's electric bike era begins)
• 48:40 Managing the anxiety — meditation, gardening, don't doom scroll
• 49:44 The Age of Aquarius, old structures collapsing, and why that might actually be okay
• 55:40 Wrapping up with a laugh — go watch Red Nose Day Little Britain

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In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that "no secrets is how adults do it." Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag?

Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, really Daryl used to work at a bank), why a narcissist's accusation is often a confession, and how controlling behaviour tends to creep in one small demand at a time. They also share why having your own money and your own privacy isn't a trust issue, it's just good sense.

Timestamps:

• 0:00 — Intro banter (Cards Against Humanity and gym stories)
• 5:00 — Welcome + a note on making fun of people (five stars though, please)
• 7:00 — WTF moment: new students who emigrated to NZ on the same flight 26 years ago
• 10:30 — Reddit story: AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend my banking login?
• 15:00 — Discussion: why sharing your login is actually illegal + red flag central
• 18:00 — Gaslighting, coercive control, and "a narcissist's accusation is a confession"
• 22:00 — Wild tangent: YouTuber invited to a very wrong party
• 26:00 — The Epstein files and scat tables (you've been warned)
• 29:00 — Black Mirror Season 7 recommendation + wrap up

Recommendations this episode: Black Mirror, Season 7 (Episode 2 in particular — you'll know the one)

To find out more about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment:

🔗 https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

🔗 https://www.darylgove.com/#/

🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: 🔗 https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story: ✉️ [email protected]

Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course: 🔗 https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Check out Daryl's Course — Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men: 🔗 https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

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WTF Stories & Advice: Covering for Cheaters, Keeping Confidences, and AI Consciousness

Hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw read a Reddit AITAH post about a husband upset that his wife won't admit her best friend is cheating. They share a personal story about covering for a friend's drunken kiss and discuss when loyalty crosses a line. The episode ends with recommendations including The Bronze Horseman, the Conscious Observers podcast (AI and bots communicating), comparisons of Claude vs ChatGPT reliability and ethics, speculation about AI consciousness and control, and a plug for watching MAFS Australia.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment

https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

https://www.darylgove.com/#/

https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Timestamps:

00:00 Gates Epstein Rant 00:50 Questioning Authority 02:00 AITA Cheating Story 05:26 Advice Boundaries Trust 06:29 Therapist Confidentiality 08:51 Ride Or Die Friend Tale 12:22 When Not To Tell 13:02 Friendship Versus Truth 13:48 When Secrets Must Break 14:58 Staying Out Of Affairs 15:48 Trusting Your Gut 16:38 Book Pick Bronze Horseman 17:54 Podcast Pick Conscious Observers 18:51 AI Consciousness Debate 20:24 ChatGPT Versus Claude 23:21 MAFS Australia Recap

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Unintentionally Joining a Cult

Caroline and Daryl and read a listener letter about unintentionally joining a cult after responding to a vague Craigslist job ad offering housing and "purpose." The hosts speculate about what the group's money-making operation might be and discuss other cult-related media and scandals, including Netflix's "Dancing for the Devil," a podcast about Jerry Falwell Jr., and conversation about propaganda, social engineering, and media influence. They share recommendations (the film "Cry-Baby," Netflix's "Him & Her," and the book "Propaganda" by Edward L. Bernays) and close by inviting comments, letters, and ratings.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to WTF Stories & Advice 00:33 Trigger warnings, dark humor & laughing through trauma 01:23 Letter begins: Unintentionally joining a cult after college 02:47 The 'job' interview at the mansion: Tim & Jenna's pitch 06:17 Moving in: phone control, routines, isolation & 'the fold' rules 08:34 The shocking discovery in the park (leader + Tim) 09:37 Gaslighting & sedation: 'it was a dream' and the pill 11:20 Planning the escape: playing along and getting out via grocery run 12:45 Aftermath + hosts speculate: cult, trafficking, blackmail? 14:36 Cult media & parallels: TikTok cult doc and Jerry Falwell Jr. scandal 17:15 Turning Point/Liberty University rabbit hole & alleged cult connections 24:02 Handlers, honey traps & political gossip: Patel, Epstein jokes, Greenland 26:57 Why Greenland Matters: Data Centers, Minerals, and Strategy 27:54 Can You Just Buy a Country? 28:35 Greenland UFO Rumors & the "Forgotten" Underground US Base 29:44 Government Waste, Audits, and the Price of Incompetence 30:30 Post-Truth & "Disclosure": Are We Being Primed for Aliens? 32:04 Desensitization Playbook: From War Talk to Mask Culture 37:05 Critical Thinking, Changing Your Mind, and How Schools Shape Beliefs 41:35 Movie & TV Recs (Cry-Baby, Him & Her) + Propaganda Reading List 47:06 CIA-Hollywood, Blackmail Theories, and Final Sign-off

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In this episode, hosts Caroline and Daryl discuss a variety of topics, starting with a humorous monologue about their pets. They share their backgrounds, sparking a deeper conversation about current geopolitical issues and personal histories linked to military bases.

The main focus delves into a Reddit story about a woman whose fiancé pressures her for a threesome, exploring the boundaries of consent, relationship dynamics, and the effects on trust.

Other subjects include dealing with coercion, navigating difficult relationships, and the nuances of bisexuality. They close out the episode with TV show recommendations, featuring 'Beauty' on Disney and 'Afterlife' with Ricky Gervais.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ https://www.darylgove.com/#/ https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Cat Story 02:05 Welcome to WTF Stories and Advice 12:45 Reddit Story: Threesome Dilemma 21:47 Setting Boundaries in Relationships 22:14 The Pressure of Sexual Expectations 23:03 Community Feedback and Personal Reflections 25:23 Confronting the Partner 27:24 Understanding the Core Issue 29:51 Deciding the Future of the Relationship 31:36 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward 38:05 Recommendations and Closing Remarks

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The world is a dumpster fire and you need 20 minutes of actual peace. I've got you.

This isn't your standard "love and light" meditation, this is clinical hypnotherapy meets sound healing science. I've combined:

Triple Solfeggio frequencies (528 Hz love frequency + 432 Hz universal harmony + 639 Hz heart connection) 8D spatial audio (immersive AF, you'll feel like you're floating)

Gentle subliminal reinforcement (your subconscious gets the memo too)

Research shows loving-kindness meditation reduces stress, increases empathy, and helps you stop feeling like a rage-filled isolated hermit. Exactly what we need right now.

Two versions:

• This episode: Daytime version with gentle wake-up
• Sleep version: posted next - No wake-up, fades to silence

Use headphones for full effect. You've earned this.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

In this lively episode of WTF Stories and Advice, therapists Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove share personal and listener-submitted stories filled with eerie and unsettling experiences. Caroline recounts her unnerving stalker encounters, while Daryl reads a spooky mirror story from a listener named Sarah.

The hosts discuss the possibility of ghosts interacting with electronics and delve into the Mandela Effect, while also touching on TV recommendations. The episode blends humor and horror, providing both laughter and thought-provoking conversation about paranormal activities and personal safety.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove

https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

https://www.darylgove.com/#/

https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: [email protected]

Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

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Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Awkward Beginnings 00:27 Meet the Hosts: Caroline and Daryl 00:55 Therapists with a Twist 01:19 Daryl's Story Jar: Listener Submissions 01:33 Spooky Stories and Sexy Confessions 02:15 Sarah's Spooky Encounter 03:31 Caroline's Stalker Stories 08:31 Safety Tips and More Creepy Tales 10:12 Analyzing Sarah's Story 13:00 Haunted Houses and Personal Experiences 16:41 Unexplained Phone Phenomena 17:19 Spooky Text Message Incident 18:50 Granny's Ghostly Phone Interference 19:36 Mandela Effect Mysteries 21:15 CERN and Parallel Realities 23:51 Coke and Pepsi Wars 26:09 Married at First Sight Discussion 29:08 Podcast Wrap-Up

In this episode of 'WTF Stories and Advice,' hosts Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove discuss a listener's dilemma regarding her boyfriend's unexpected fetish.

Caroline and Daryl provide insights into the complexities of fetishes, the importance of boundaries, and the potential impact on future plans, emphasizing the value of open communication and personal boundaries.

The episode also touches on personal anecdotes and offers advice on relationships, fertility, and making informed decisions.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove

https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

https://www.darylgove.com/#/

https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at: [email protected]

Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men

https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

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Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Warnings

01:41 Listener's Letter: Desperate for Love

02:58 The Perfect Match?

04:17 A Shocking Discovery

05:09 Pony Play Revelation

07:03 Seeking Advice

10:02 Hosts' Personal Experiences

13:22 Understanding Fetishes

17:12 Final Thoughts and Advice

20:57 Navigating Relationship Dilemmas

21:15 Cultural Perspectives on Eating Horses

22:12 Biological Clocks and Relationship Decisions

23:20 Fertility Insights and Advice

25:17 Understanding Pony Play

27:58 Exploring Personal Boundaries

34:59 Book and Media Recommendations

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw address a letter from a 36-year-old man struggling with porn addiction and its detrimental effects on his marriage and mental health.

To find more out about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove

https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/

https://www.darylgove.com/#/

https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/

To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out:

https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com

Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story at

[email protected]

Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course

https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout

Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men

https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449

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Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction 00:42 Reading the Listener's Letter 04:36 Discussion on Porn and Sex Addiction 08:34 Advice for Overcoming Addiction 13:58 Impact of Porn on Relationships 16:47 Rewiring Habits and Final Thoughts 17:12 Discovering New Favourites 17:21 The Cold Turkey Approach 18:11 The Dangers of Pornography 20:18 Rewiring the Brain 21:08 Addressing Insecurities 21:57 Finding Meaning and Purpose 23:02 Seeking Professional Help 23:55 Book Recommendations 29:46 The Importance of Communication