Episode Summary:

In this episode, Aileen and Julie dive into the all-too-familiar experience of fear, exploring a quote that struck a chord:

“All you have to do is show up. Be late. Be scared. Be confused. Just be there. You'll figure out the rest as you go.”

They open up about how fear has shaped their journey—from launching the podcast to navigating personal and professional challenges. Whether it’s the fear of being seen, judged, failing, or not being ‘enough,’ they share honest reflections on what it takes to show up anyway.

Through candid stories and relatable insights, they explore how courage often begins with simply being present—especially when things feel uncertain. Tune in for a conversation about fear, vulnerability, and finding strength in showing up.

Key Topics Discussed:

1. The importance of showing up, even when it feels uncomfortable or imperfect.
2. Fear of being seen – what it means to step out of the shadows.
3. Navigating the fear of judgment and learning to rely less on external validation.
4. Facing the deep-seated fear of not being “enough” and embracing our true selves.
5. Learning to overcome the fear of failure and stepping forward with courage.

Quote to Remember:

"All you have to do is show up. Be late. Be scared. Be confused. Just BE there. You’ll figure out the rest as you go."

Join the Conversation:

We’d love to hear your thoughts! What are some of your biggest fears? How have you faced them? Reach out to us via voicemail or DM—let’s keep the conversation going!

Resources Mentioned:

Theodore Roosevelt's "Man in the Arena" - Read the full speech here

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• Download Enough - Our Self Worth Reset.
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Hosts: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy

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Disclaimer: 

Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.

Episode Overview:

In this heartfelt episode of You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie explore the often elusive concept of success. They delve into how societal definitions can overshadow personal aspirations and how we can redefine success on our own terms.

Key Discussion Points:

1. What Success Means to Us: Aileen and Julie share their personal journey with the definitions of success, highlighting how these have evolved over the years.
2. The Weight of Societal Expectations: A discussion on how societal norms can create pressure to conform to a specific idea of success, leading to feelings of inadequacy.
3. The Role of Authenticity: The hosts emphasise the importance of aligning success with one’s values and passions, advocating for an authentic approach to life goals.
4. Confronting Fear: They talk about the fears that often accompany the pursuit of success, such as fear of judgment and fear of failure, and how to navigate these challenges.
5. Celebrating Small Wins: Aileen and Julie stress the significance of recognising and celebrating the small achievements that contribute to our journey toward larger goals.

Listener Takeaways:

• Reflect on what success means to you personally and consider how it aligns with your values.
• Challenge societal definitions of success and embrace your unique path.
• Recognise the importance of celebrating small victories along the way.

Join the Conversation:

We’d love to hear your thoughts! How do you define success? What fears have you encountered in your journey? Reach out to us via voicemail or DM—let’s keep the conversation going!

BetterHelp Paid Partnership - Get 10% off your first month

If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our paid partner BetterHelp. Visit https://betterhelp.com/youkeepmesane for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy.

BetterHelp makes it easy to find a therapist who suits your needs. Their online platform connects you with credentialed therapists, and if your first match isn’t the right fit, you can switch.

Links:

• Download Enough - Our Self Worth Reset.
• Follow YKMS Podcast on IG @youkeepmesane.pod  
• Follow YKMS on FB https://www.facebook.com/YouKeepMeSanePod
• Email us at  [email protected]

Subscribe to our Newsletter: https://www.youkeepmesane.com/subscribe/

Hosts: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy

See https://www.buzzsprout.com/privacy for privacy information

Disclaimer: 

Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.