Dr Judy WTF

By Dr Judy WTF

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FROM the Problem...

THROUGH Dismantling it...

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RELATIONSHIFT with yourself and those around you, and

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Dr Judy WTF episodes:

01.22.2015
Kids for Kids, Richard Branigan
Today we had the pleasure of having Richard Branigan, founder of the organization Kids for Kids, www.KFKDanceForLife.org on our show. It is remarkable how inspiring and powerful children are when they give back to the community. With the...
01.15.2015
How to Sustain your New Year Resolutions
What is holding you back from manifesting your New Year's resolutions? Many of our resolutions have to do with STOPPING or "curbing" unhealthy defense mechanisms that fill the "hole in the soul," that emotional emptiness that resulted from...
01.08.2015
SETTING OUR INTENTIONS FOR THE NEW YEAR
With all good intentions, most new year's resolutions fail miserably. Why? Because they are not sustainable! If you go to the gym in early January, you will see many people enthusiastically crowding the premises. By mid...
12.18.2014
The Gift of Giving
When we give, we get. We get the joy of connecting with others and making a difference. Those who give and volunteer their time are healthier, happier, and live longer. The most valuable gift we can give...
12.11.2014
Holiday Depression
Holidays are supposed to be the "happiest time of the year" yet some people find themselves depressed, anxious and lonelier than ever. Holidays can highlight what is lacking within and lacking in relationships, so it behooves us to plan...
12.04.2014
Loneliness 2
Loneliness doesn't necessarily mean we are ALONE. We can be WITH someone and still experience a state of loneliness. We are wired to connect and we don't feel that we are "gotten" by another, we may feel triggered...
11.20.2014
Loneliness - Part 1
Loneliness is a very common form of human suffering. It starts with mother-infant disconnect as CAUSE. When mother, or primary caregiver doesn't supply enough of the emotional ingredients for the baby to "take in" the blueprint of a warm...
11.13.2014
The passive aggressive person
The passive aggressive person is a fear based individual low suffering from low self esteem poor communication skills. When people grow up in a homewhere it is unsafe to express authentic feelings, when there is no otherway to express feelings...
11.06.2014
BETRAYAL
True to the form of the Be The Cause MIND MAP, Dr. Judy's 9 Panel paradigm shifting tool to get you FROM the problem THROUGH the process and TO the solution (see it at www.DrJudyWTF.com), turn your attention to PANEL...
10.30.2014
WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?
Today we had the privilege of having Aaron Lamont Curry, author of his brand new book "Why Are You Still Single." When you love and respect yourself, you are no longer willing to settle, and avoid wasting time...
10.23.2014
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Today we had the pleasure of speaking to Dr. Zohara M. Hieronimus, author of her most recent book, The Future of Human Experience. The power of prayer and the power of unconditional love are the most healing...
10.16.2014
Dr Judy WTF - October 16, 2014
10.09.2014
Dr Judy WTF - October 09 2014
10.02.2014
BOUNDARIES: “How to Have Tact with a Suitor You Don’t Want to See”
What do we do when we have to say NO to a person who wants to say YES to us? This is a delicate issue, in that we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and yet we need to...
09.18.2014
Dr Judy WTF - September 18, 2014
09.04.2014
Dr Judy WTF - September 04, 2014
08.29.2014
Defying Gravity by Breaking Free from Narcissistic Mothers - Part 2
Demean, Devalue, Destroy. The three D's of a narcissistic mother makes it difficult to be her child. Many people who grew up with narcissistic mothers feel like they are merely extensions of her, and are there to suit...
08.21.2014
Defying Gravity by Breaking Free from Narcissistic Mothers
On today's episode we talked about a very core injury to the self--being raised by a narcissistic mother or caregiver. According to the natural flow of things, the child, not the mother should come first. When this...
08.14.2014
Dr Judy WTF - August 14, 2014
08.07.2014
Our Final call with Maria - Part 4
Thanks to our volunteer patient Maria, we have been able to journey FROM, THROUGH, and finally TO the paradigm shift into healing. Maria has been very transparent in her sharing her journey with us, and we want to...
07.31.2014
DISMANTLING OF THE PROBLEM: THROUGH With our call in patient "Maria" - Part 2
We continue with our "session" with our patient "Maria" who reports that she is feeling a sense of relief, and experiencing many insights into the Cause of her distress from our first time together last week. (If you missed...
07.24.2014
Live Call #1 with "Maria"
Today we had the pleasure and privilege of interviewing "Maria" so that all listening can really experience Dr. Judy trace the early wound of Mother-Infant Disconnect, through the reaction of the wound, and to the encoding of the wound into...
07.17.2014
FATHERS - Forgive Them For They Know Not What They Do?
Although most of what we talk about is the importance of Mother, we cannot ignore the tremendous impact of the Father on the mental health of the child. From his participation in the labor room to nourishing the Mother...
07.10.2014
Panel 9 - “TOMORROW IS THE LIFE WE CREATE TODAY" Finding Unity in an Insane World.
The state of our planet is a mirror of our inner world. Early infant mother-infant disconnect now projects outward onto MOTHER EARTH and look around--- the earth, the air, the waters, spitting back at us the garbage we throw at...
07.03.2014
Panel 8 - Part 2 - OUT WITH THE OLD, IN WITH THE NEW
Community, sharing, connecting ourselves with others. That's how we elevate ourselves and others around us. As we move out of the "old unsustainable systems" and into the paradigm shift of interconnection, we can reconnect and "recode" ourselves. ...
06.26.2014
PANEL 8 RECODING
After all the work of taking down the old unsustainable system encoded from the wounds of childhood, we come to a place where we can recode and heal. The new codes are based on sustainability and health, sharing and...
06.19.2014
Dr Judy WTF - June 19, 2014
06.12.2014
PANEL 7 - INTERCONNECTION
The power of interconnection can only occur when two healthy (or relatively healthy parts) can come together to SHARE THE LIGHT. This is different than COMPROMISE. Interconnection means taking your gifts and sharing with another to create a...
06.05.2014
PANEL 6 BREAKDOWN/BREAKTHROUGH
The shooting at UCSB is a prime example of a breakdown of all defense mechanisms (PANEL 5) and a representation of how emotional suppression can cause explosions (the shootings) and implosions (the suicide). Not knowing the first few years...
05.29.2014
Author Misti B
Today we had a wonderful guest, Misti B. who just released her first book: If You Leave Me, Can I Come With You? 365 Humorous Daily Meditations for Al-Anons & Codependents. Bringing humor to Al-Anon, a 12...
05.22.2014
Panel 5 - Defense Mechanisms
When the pain of mother infant disconnect is allowed to go untreated, defense mechanisms kick in. These defense mechanisms defend against the original wound and can take many shapes and sizes. For example, overeating, smoking, alcohol/drug abuse, porn,...
05.15.2014
PANEL 4: CHAOS
When the bonds of Panel 3, which represent our dysfunctional core belief, core sense of self, and relationships are no longer sustainable, they force us to go to the PRECIPICE--a place where we have a choice point to allow to...
05.08.2014
HOW OUR ADVERSE SELF-PERCEPTIONS ARE CREATED & IMBEDDED
Today we spoke about the ENCODING of the core belief into the fiber of our being. Mostly negative, it sets us up for chaos down the road (preview of the coming attraction of the next panel). We have seen...
05.01.2014
Are we Wired for Love?
Today we had a special guest, Dr. Stan Tatkin, author of Wired For Love, and founder of Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT).. PACT a fusion of attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and arousal regulation, PACT is quickly gaining a reputation...
04.24.2014
Panel 2: The Reaction to the Wounds of Childhood
04.17.2014
Mind Map - Panel One - Childhood is a Hostage Situation
The wounds of childhood cast a shadow over our lives that leave us with what Dr. Judy calls "the hole in the soul." These wounds are either overt--what is done to us, like physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, or...
04.10.2014
SELF TALK: The Power of OUR Inner Words
Our self talk is a function of our core belief about ourselves. Our core belief about ourselves is a function of how we were treated or mistreated particularly during the early formative years of the first 2-3 years of...
04.03.2014
HAPPINESS 2
Rather than be slings and arrows to life's ups and downs, we need to have an internal mechanism of regulating our state of Being. When we depend ONLY on outside events to make us happy or unhappy, we become...
03.27.2014
Dr Judy WTF - March 27, 2014
03.20.2014
THE GOOD BAD AND UGLY OF THERAPISTS PART 2
A baby is like a sponge-ready to soak in the world through mother's eyes. When there is "light" in her eyes, he/she "lights up" in response. We are wired to connect. Human disconnect is what turns our...
03.13.2014
ANIMALS AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: DOG IS GOD SPELLED BACKWARD
Our intuitive and "attuned to nature" animals are our role models for parenting gone "right." We, as a human species have moved further and further away from nature and nurture. Instead of following our animal instincts and connecting...
03.06.2014
HEART HEALER OR HEADSHRINKER? THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND THE REALLY UGLY OF THERAPISTS
The most common complaint I get in my practice as a psychologist, is that most therapists don't have a solid and definable treatment plan! More concerned about helping the patient vent their feelings or manage their symptoms, many forms...
02.27.2014
Fetishes - Sex Gone Sideways
We finish February, Valentine's month discussing FETISHES and S&M is another example of Human Disconnect. When bonding to humans is just too painful, it is easier to redirect that energy to objects. After all, objects can't break your...
02.20.2014
Matters of the Heart - 2
When it comes to matters of the heart, it is vital that we put our hands in the heart of another where the feelings flow both ways. The word is MUTUALITY. To have a healthy loving relationship, it...
02.13.2014
MATTERS OF THE HEART: VALENTINE'S DAY SERIES 1
Today's Valentine's Day special focused on MATTERS OF THE HEART. Falling in "love" is also falling into vulnerability. When two become one, there is a risk of repeating old wounds that can re-injure the heart. As adults, we still...
02.06.2014
Preemie Incubator Babies - Bonding Interrupted
he mother-infant disconnect of babies placed in incubators can have profound consequences on the mental health of individuals who Dr. Judy refers to as. Oftentimes deprived of touch, breast feeding, the comforting sound of the heartbeat, babies traumatized...
01.30.2014
I HATE YOU. I HATE YOU. DON’T LEAVE ME!!
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a very painful disorder marked by deep seated fears of real or imaginary abandonment. CAUSED by mother-infant bonding-gone-wrong, persons suffering from BPD exhibit a lot of acting out behavior in the form of lack...
01.23.2014
Walking On Egg Shells
01.16.2014
Disney Loved Orphans or He Hated Mother
Our stories, fairytales are the collective connection to our unconscious. Within stories like Mary Poppins, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, and many other wonderful Disney productions lie the underlying story of childhood wounds of motherlessness, abusive stepmothers (Cinderella), nanny's that heal childhood...
01.09.2014
HABIT MAKERS/HABIT BREAKERS PART 2
Habits are hard to break, and new ones are hard to make. With new year's resolutions quickly being kicked to the curb as the new year ticks on, it is essential that if you want to KEEP your NEW YEARS...

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Dr Judy WTF episodes:

Kids for Kids, Richard Branigan

How to Sustain your New Year Resolutions

SETTING OUR INTENTIONS FOR THE NEW YEAR

The Gift of Giving

Holiday Depression

Loneliness 2

Loneliness - Part 1

The passive aggressive person

BETRAYAL

WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

Dr Judy WTF - October 16, 2014

Dr Judy WTF - October 09 2014

BOUNDARIES: “How to Have Tact with a Suitor You Don’t Want to See”

Dr Judy WTF - September 18, 2014

Dr Judy WTF - September 04, 2014

Defying Gravity by Breaking Free from Narcissistic Mothers - Part 2

Defying Gravity by Breaking Free from Narcissistic Mothers

Dr Judy WTF - August 14, 2014

Our Final call with Maria - Part 4

DISMANTLING OF THE PROBLEM: THROUGH With our call in patient "Maria" - Part 2

Live Call #1 with "Maria"

FATHERS - Forgive Them For They Know Not What They Do?

Panel 9 - “TOMORROW IS THE LIFE WE CREATE TODAY" Finding Unity in an Insane World.

Panel 8 - Part 2 - OUT WITH THE OLD, IN WITH THE NEW

PANEL 8 RECODING

Dr Judy WTF - June 19, 2014

PANEL 7 - INTERCONNECTION

PANEL 6 BREAKDOWN/BREAKTHROUGH

Author Misti B

Panel 5 - Defense Mechanisms

PANEL 4: CHAOS

HOW OUR ADVERSE SELF-PERCEPTIONS ARE CREATED & IMBEDDED

Are we Wired for Love?

Panel 2: The Reaction to the Wounds of Childhood

Mind Map - Panel One - Childhood is a Hostage Situation

SELF TALK: The Power of OUR Inner Words

HAPPINESS 2

Dr Judy WTF - March 27, 2014

THE GOOD BAD AND UGLY OF THERAPISTS PART 2

ANIMALS AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: DOG IS GOD SPELLED BACKWARD

HEART HEALER OR HEADSHRINKER? THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND THE REALLY UGLY OF THERAPISTS

Fetishes - Sex Gone Sideways

Matters of the Heart - 2

MATTERS OF THE HEART: VALENTINE'S DAY SERIES 1

Preemie Incubator Babies - Bonding Interrupted

I HATE YOU. I HATE YOU. DON’T LEAVE ME!!

Walking On Egg Shells

Disney Loved Orphans or He Hated Mother

HABIT MAKERS/HABIT BREAKERS PART 2