In her book, Reading People: How Seeing the World through the Lens of the Personality Changes Everything, author Anne Bogel talks about being at peace with who you are. And, who doesn't want peace with themselves, to have a sense of consonance, a sense of integration despite all of their dings and dents?  Part of the journey for Nines is learning to take action on their own behalf and invest in themselves and not feel like it's a poor investment.