In Moderation

1-on-1 with Rob: Solo, Honest, And Still Trying


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Raw honesty can sound louder than any guest panel, and today it fills the room. I open up about running solo, why Liam’s juggling parent life, how Mike’s been stepping up behind the scenes, and the personal storm that’s been brewing—family hospital runs, money stress, and a friendship I wish I handled better. The heart of it, though, is a tour through social anxiety and depression without the gloss: misreading social cues, panic that hijacks a good opportunity, and the long, awkward road from “what’s wrong with me” to a clear diagnosis and a workable plan.

I walk through medication not as a magic fix but as a messy process that includes bad side effects, honest conversations with a doctor, and incremental wins that barely look like wins. Think midnight mail runs that feel like heists, exposure that shows up as a weekly ritual, and experiments that redirect energy away from replaying the past. We dig into the mental habit of worshiping “what if” and pivot toward “what next,” using simple tools: pick one guitar string, take the smallest hike, sit at a park chess table with a stranger, or try a class that lets you fail safely. Anxiety management, mental health resilience, and self‑compassion aren’t big speeches—they’re repeatable moves.

I also stack the ledger fairly: the awards, the skills, the trust of people who chose me for safety on hard trails. Those moments count, especially when shame tries to erase them. If you’re navigating social anxiety, depression, or just a season where everything feels heavy, consider this your nudge to run a tiny experiment and see if tomorrow shifts by five percent. Tap play, share this with someone who needs a steady voice, and tell me: should we officially make Mike a co‑host? Subscribe, leave a review, and drop your “what next” in the comments—we’ll read them.

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In ModerationBy Rob Lapham, Liam Layton

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