10% Happier with Dan Harris

A tongue-in-cheek jaw release, a 30-second shake-off, and a two-finger trick that tells your body it's safe. Plus: why scrolling feels relaxing but isn't.

Nadia Narain and Katia Narain Phillips are the authors of the international bestsellers Self-Care for The Real World and Rituals for Every Day. Their most recent book, Glimmers: Tiny Moments to Transform Your Life, was published in January 2026.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why staying calm all the time isn't actually the goal
• The sneaky state that masquerades as rest
• How to find glimmers in even the most ordinary moments
• Why glimmers turn out to be contagious
• The odd little trick for releasing tension you didn't know you carried
• What animals know about stress that we've forgotten
• How your field of vision talks to your nervous system
• Why your chores might be a secret meditation practice
• What rushing does to even the best of intentions
• Why leaving dishes in the sink can be a sign of progress
• The overlooked basics behind so much everyday stress
• Why rest isn't one-size-fits-all
• What it means to reparent yourself

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Why tensing against pain makes it worse, the difference between acceptance and passivity, and how to plan for the future while staying present—from two of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh's senior students.

Brother Thích Chân Pháp Dung is a Vietnamese American Buddhist monk ordained in 1998 and a Dharma Teacher in the Plum Village tradition, founded by Zen Master Thích Nhất Hạnh. He currently practices and teaches at Deer Park Monastery in California and is the founder of the Thích Nhất Hạnh School of Interbeing.

Kaira Jewel Lingo is a senior Dharma teacher in Thich Nhat Hanh's Plum Village Zen lineage who also teaches Vipassana in the Insight tradition. After 15 years as an ordained nun in Thich Nhat Hanh's monastic community, she now teaches internationally, integrating mindfulness with creative expression, social and racial justice, and care for the Earth. She is the author of We Were Made for These Times and co-author of Healing Our Way Home: Black Buddhist Teachings on Ancestors, Joy, and Liberation. You can also read Kaira Jewel's essays on Substack.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why we need to hear the same teachings over and over
• What it means to be alive while you're alive
• The hidden gifts of turning toward difficulty
• How to plan for the future without leaving the present
• The one sentence legendary teacher Thich Nhat Hanh said summed up all his teachings
• Where our true home really is
• How to accept things without becoming a doormat
• The difference between surrender and giving up

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The liberation that comes from realizing that you're never going to get everything done.

Oliver Burkeman is the author of the Sunday Times bestselling Four Thousand Weeks, The Antidote, and most recently, Meditations for Mortals. His work has also appeared in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Psychologies and New Philosopher. He has a devoted following for his writing on productivity, mortality, the power of limits, and building a meaningful life in an age of bewilderment.

This episode originally appeared in April 2024.

In this episode we talk about:

• What the term "imperfectionism" means
• The illusion of reaching a point where "everything's done"
• Why there's liberation in seeing how finite we are
• Why small, imperfect actions are more valuable than perfect plans
• Why overplanning is a kind of avoidance
• How to make decisions
• The importance of finishing things
• Who you should develop a taste for problems
• Why effort doesn't always equal value
• Why we need to stop protecting other people's feelings
• And the paradox of mattering immensely and not at all

Related Episodes:

• The Power of Negative Thinking
• Time Management for Mortals

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You don't get to choose what's thrown at you — only how you respond. Karma as a tool for agency, attention sovereignty as a political act, and what to do when you feel completely helpless.

The news is a lot right now. And for most of us, the usual options — doom scroll until midnight, or unplug entirely — don't actually help. Meditation teacher Pascal Auclair joins Dan for a live community conversation on how to stay engaged with what's happening in the world without letting it wreck your nervous system, your relationships, or your sleep.

In this conversation, Pascal Auclair and Dan Harris discuss:

• Why reading the news can be reframed as an act of love — and why that changes everything
• What Buddhism actually says about karma, and whether the bad guys get theirs
• How to balance staying informed with protecting your mental health
• The difference between passive equanimity and wise, engaged action
• How much news is too much — and why the answer is different for everyone
• Why attention itself has become a battleground, and how mindfulness is your best defense

Pascal Auclair has been immersed in Buddhist practice and study since 1997. He was mentored by Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield at IMS and Spirit Rock, where he now teaches retreats. He is a co-founder of True North Insight and one of its Guiding Teachers. Find more of his guided meditations in the 10% with Dan Harris app.

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Which conflict style are you? Plus: avoiding the "trance of nice," walking the high wire, and an uber-hack for getting over irritation.

devon + nico hase serve as guiding teachers of the online dharma community Refuge of Belonging. They teach at the Insight Meditation Society, Spirit Rock, and other centers, offer online and in-person retreats, and speak with students in one-on-one sessions. They are the co-authors of How Not to Be a Hot Mess and the new This Messy, Gorgeous Love: A Buddhist Guide to Lasting Partnership.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why friction in relationships is a feature, not a bug
• The three directions of listening
• Why joy isn't a nice-to-have
• How contemplating death can dissolve everyday irritation
• Whether you're a volcano, a diplomat, or a dodger
• How to rupture like a pro
• Why real patience has teeth
• What it means to walk the high wire in a conflict

Related Episodes:

• The Sex Episode

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Six archetypes: Which one are you? Plus, a simple question to help you distinguish real, current fears from old, outdated ones.

Dr. Galit Atlas is an internationally renowned psychoanalyst and leader in relational psychoanalysis. She teaches at NYU and Columbia University and lectures internationally on sexuality, desire, and emotional inheritance. Her latest book is Come Closer. You can also read her essays on Substack, Wild Analysis with Dr. Galit Atlas.

In this episode we talk about:

• The six childhood archetypes that quietly run your adult relationships
• Why the version of you that felt too big or too small never actually grew up
• A simple question to ask yourself the moment old fear takes over
• The surprising link between blame and a feeling you'd rather not name
• What separates jealousy from envy — and why it matters more than you think
• The phrases people use when they're secretly telling you the opposite
• Why setting boundaries feels like betrayal if you were raised a certain way
• The real reason acceptance has to come before change, not after

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What kids can teach you about how to handle anger, being uptight, and rejection, according to the creator of Recess Therapy.

Julian Shapiro-Barnum is a comedian, writer, and interviewer known for Recess Therapy, Celebrity Substitute, and Outside Tonight. He's won seven Webby Awards, was named to the Forbes 30 Under 30, and received a Family Entertainment Award from Variety. His first book is How to Grow Up Without Becoming a Grown-Up.

In this episode we talk about:

• The playground question kids ask that adults are too scared to say out loud
• Why Julian stopped calling it your "inner child" — and what he calls it instead
• The trick for making feelings pass in minutes instead of weeks
• How breaking a rule on purpose can loosen something bigger in you
• The childhood habit that makes rejection sting so much less
• What growing up with five parents taught Julian about talking to anyone
• A tiny physical habit that can snowball into real change
• Why the most viral moment of his career wasn't about wisdom at all

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The famed exoneree on making life worth living every day, flipping the narrative on the bad things, and the ancient Japanese practice of kintsugi.

Amanda Knox is an exoneree, journalist, comedian, and bestselling author of Waiting to Be Heard and FREE: My Search for Meaning. She hosts the podcast Hard Knox and advocates for criminal justice reform and media ethics.

In this episode we talk about:

• The one question Amanda Knox asks herself whenever something bad happens
• Why understanding someone who wronged you can matter more than forgiving them
• What a centuries-old Japanese art form taught Amanda about coming back from being broken
• The mindset shift that got her through years in prison, one day at a time
• Why accepting your life exactly as it is might be the first step to changing it
• The hidden trap inside feeling like a victim
• Why other people's version of you was never actually yours to carry

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Plus: why being your 'best self' isn't about being nice or passive, why regulation starts before things go wrong, and how 'polyregulation' can help you up your game.

Marc Brackett, Ph.D. is the author of Dealing with Feeling: Use Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want and the bestselling Permission to Feel. He is the founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and a professor in the Child Study Center at Yale University. You can watch Marc's podcast interviews here.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why your "true self" might be the worst version of you
• The five-step process for catching yourself before you explode
• What to tell yourself in the doorway before you walk into a hard moment
• Why breathwork alone won't fix everything you're feeling
• The simple fix for total disengagement in your next Zoom meeting
• Why your best self should never be a doormat
• How to repair after you say the nastiest thing you've ever said
• How to build a go-to strategy before you even need it

Related Episodes:

• The Science of Emotion Regulation: Strategies for When You're Anxious, Angry, or Comparing Yourself To Others | Marc Brackett

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Plus: Why acceptance isn't the same as resignation, a trick for gaining perspective, and the role faith plays in his life.

Josh Johnson is an Emmy-nominated writer, stand-up comedian, actor, and NAACP award-winner from Louisiana by way of Chicago. He was just named as the newest correspondent on Comedy Central's Emmy & Peabody Award-winning program The Daily Show, where he was previously a writer for the past six years. Johnson is also a former writer and performer on NBC's The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon, where he made his late-night debut in 2017. In addition, he is Comedy Central's 'most watched comedian ever' with 40M+ views to date across their platforms.

In this episode we talk about:

• The difference between accepting a problem and simply giving up
• Why some anxiety is a rational response, not overthinking
• How he manages anxiety while covering the news every day on The Daily Show
• A simple trick for judging whether something is actually worth your worry
• What it's like growing up in church (and questioning parts of it as an adult)
• Why he thinks comedy helps people face hard realities instead of avoiding them
• The habit behind posting a new hour of comedy every single week for three years
• Why he believes AI's promised breakthroughs haven't actually shown up
• Why he thinks the public still has power to reject where AI is headed
• The advice about finishing your work that changed how he creates

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