in this episode, I speak from the heart on my own struggles with finding and accepting my voice. I discuss the dual need to both be visible/seen and invisible/hidden. I am following the echo and calling of Audre Lorde's essay "On the transformation of silence into language and action" in which she asks, "what are the words you do not yet have? what do you need to say?". I weave in some of the voices that appeared in my consciousness as I speak these words, in recognition of our collective and shared consciousness. If you are struggling to use your voice in any way - in your private relationships or on your public profile - this episode is for you.

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Sources and clips included:

Selected Works of Audre Lorde, edited by Roxane Gay

On the transformation of silence into language and action by Audre Lorde

Highest self podcast Episode 482: How to Open Up Your Throat Chakra + Speak with Soul with Sahara Rose on Spotify and YouTube

Everyday Ubuntu: Living better the African Way by Mungi Ngomane

Why Do We Disconnect From Our True Selves | Dr. Gabor Mate by Way of Thinking

What is meant by "Authenticity"?: Gabor Mate by Science and Nonduality (SAND)

Freedom is a Constant Struggle by Angela Davis

Cornel West quote: "You must let suffering speak, if you want to hear the truth."

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