Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse

116. Healing from Betrayal Trauma: Insights with Mr. Jay


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In this episode, we are joined by Mr. Jay, a renowned betrayal trauma practitioner, as he delves into the complexities of healing from emotional abuse and relational trauma. Mr. Jay explains what betrayal trauma is, how it differs from other traumas, and discusses its profound impact on personal identity. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing past wounds alongside current pain to facilitate true healing. The conversation also explores the role of faith in the recovery process and provides practical strategies for managing triggers and rebuilding trust. Mr. Jay’s unique combination of professional expertise and a faith-based approach offers invaluable insights for those on their journey to recovery.

00:00 Introduction to Mr. Jay and Betrayal Trauma

01:10 Defining Betrayal Trauma

02:39 Personalization and Secrecy of Betrayal Trauma

04:06 Impact of Betrayal Trauma on Past, Present, and Future

04:58 Betrayal Trauma from Suicide and Personal Health

06:09 Identity Loss and Co-Creation in Relationships

08:35 Rebuilding Trust and Individualized Healing Plans

11:13 Role of Faith and Spirituality in Healing

12:00 Forgiveness and Self-Love

15:04 Challenges in Forgiving the Impact

18:47 Willingness to Repair and Rebuild

23:48 Patterns of Behavior and Trust

25:02 Creating Your Soulmate After Betrayal

25:40 Personal Story of Trauma and Healing

27:09 Discovering Betrayal Trauma

28:56 Challenges in Betrayal Trauma Therapy

36:53 Signs of Genuine Effort in Healing

37:55 Coping Mechanisms for Triggers

44:47 Final Messages of Hope and Encouragement

To learn more about today’s guest, Mr. Jay, visit:

MRJAYRelationshipCoach.com

To learn more about the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, visit:

InnerSourceTherapy.com


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