Welcome to the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy, hosted by Drs. James Hawkins, Ph.D., LPC, and Ryan Rana, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC—Renowned ICEEFT Therapists, Supervisors, and Trainers. We're thrilled to have you with us. We believe this podcast, a valuable resource, will empower you to push the boundaries in your work, helping individuals and couples connect more deeply with themselves and each other.

Summary: In this episode of the Leading Edge EFT Podcast, Dr. James Hawkins and his wife Nicola explore two critical questions from EFT therapists about navigating complex couple therapy moments. The discussion focuses on validation techniques, managing partner reactions during therapeutic interventions, and the nuanced art of creating emotional safety in couples therapy. Key Topics: Validation in EFT:

Validating attachment functions, not harmful behaviors

Balancing validation between partners

Recognizing the underlying emotional needs behind challenging behaviors

Therapeutic Enactments:

Navigating client resistance to sharing emotions

Helping clients express vulnerable feelings in new ways

Understanding the emotional landscape behind repeated communication patterns

Action Items:

Explore validation techniques that honor both partners' emotional experiences

Practice creating safety when challenging client interaction patterns

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Memorable Quote: "You can earn the right to challenge after first meeting your client with validation."

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