Healing For Love

134. My Top 5 Dark Red Flags in Dating (Part 2)


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In Part 2 of this series, I continue unpacking the darker red flags that often show up early in dating – the ones that are easy to dismiss but costly to ignore.

These are not minor quirks. They are patterns that predict future control, manipulation, blame-shifting, entitlement and emotional instability.

In this episode, I explore:

  • What I call “future mirroring” – a subtle form of love bombing designed to accelerate closeness
  • The chronic victim stance and how trauma dumping can be used as manipulation
  • Why repeated stories of being “wrongly accused” deserve careful attention
  • Exaggerated reactions to frustration, shame or not getting their way
  • How to recognise blame shifting early
  • Why high chemistry without character is not compatibility
  • How to strengthen your intuitive muscle and trust your internal data

If you’ve ever felt confused, slightly uneasy or pressured in early dating but talked yourself out of it – this episode is for you.

I also share details about the upcoming round of Love Wisely, beginning April 16, and how you can join the priority list.

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