Have you ever caught yourself thinking:
“He’s just not man enough.”

This episode is for you.

Because underneath that thought is rarely a question of masculinity, it’s usually exhaustion, loneliness, resentment, and deeply unmet needs.

In this episode of Embracing Her, we unpack why so many women end up feeling like they’re carrying the emotional, practical, and relational weight of the relationship and why that dynamic can leave you feeling powerless, even when you’re doing everything.

We’ll explore:

• Why “he’s not man enough” is often code for I feel unsupported

• How over-functioning, controlling, and micro-managing slowly erode trust and attraction

• Why shaming a man never inspires him to step up (and often does the opposite)

• The difference between asking for change and abandoning yourself

• What it actually looks like to communicate your needs without blame or shame

• Why boundaries — especially your NO — are essential for safety, clarity, and self-trust

This is a conversation about agency, about moving from resentment and self-abandonment into clarity, self-responsibility, and empowered choice.

Because sometimes the work is learning how to invite someone to grow.
And sometimes the work is choosing yourself and walking away.

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In this episode, I’m exploring one of the most important ( & most misunderstood dynamics in relationships): the balance between compassion and boundaries.

So many of us tend to live on one end of the spectrum. We either overextend compassion, understanding everyone else while abandoning ourselves… or we lean heavily on boundaries, protecting ourselves so fiercely that closeness starts to feel impossible.

If you’ve ever wondered:“Am I being too understanding?”or“Am I protecting myself or just shutting down?”

This episode is for you.

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In this episode, we talk about why letting go doesn’t happen naturally for many of us, and why waiting to “feel ready” often keeps us stuck.

This episode is for you if:

• You’re trying to move on but still feel deeply attached

• You keep questioning whether letting go means giving up on love

• You struggle with anxiety, rumination, or emotional loops after endings

• You want a more grounded, compassionate way to release without bypassing your feelings

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In this episode we will dive into what people with an avoidant attachment style need to thrive in a relationship and develop a more secure attachment pattern over time.

Whether you are avoidant yourself or you are in a relationship with someone that is, this episode will help you understand this often misunderstood attachment style and create the circumstances that allow for connection to deepen.

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In this episode we explore what anxiously attached people really need in relationships to thrive & develop a more secure attachment pattern over time.

Whether you are currently dating or are in a relationship, this episode will help create clarity around what to look for in potential partners or what to create more of in the dynamic you are in.

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In this episode, I explore a question I get asked often and one that doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all answer. We’ll unpack how to discern whether a relationship is supporting your healing or quietly re-creating the very environment that wounded you in the first place.

I talk about:

• The difference between new relational experiences and familiar childhood dynamics repeating themselves

• How often and how intensely you’re being triggered and why frequency matters just as much as depth

• What your nervous system state looks like inside the relationship

• Whether both partners are actually willing and able to do the work

• And why “staying and pushing through” isn’t always the most healing choice

I also share personally about a relationship I had to step away from early on because it was too much for my nervous system at the time to heal within.

This episode is an invitation to move beyond rigid ideas of “you should be able to heal in relationship” and instead develop discernment, self-trust, and nervous-system-informed choice.

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In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most common patterns in dating and relationships: settling for someone’s potential instead of their reality.

If you’ve ever found yourself staying for the glimpses, the maybes, the what they could become, or the fantasy version of someone, this episode is for you.

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As we step into 2026, this episode is an invitation to stop chasing relationship “fixes” and start focusing on the foundations that actually create lasting change.

In this episode, I walk you through the core inner shifts that transform the way you show up in relationships, not by trying harder, but by relating to yourself differently.

We’ll explore:

• Why self-compassion is non-negotiable for real relational growth

• How “looking in the mirror” (instead of blaming or fixing others) creates true agency

• Building the capacity to stay with discomfort rather than escaping it

• Why knowing yourself deeply changes who and what you tolerate

• The power of slowing down and nourishing your nervous system in a culture that rushes intimacy

This episode is for you if you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start creating relationships that feel safer, steadier, and more aligned from the inside out.

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most underrated but most powerful pieces of your dating experience: your mindset.
Because how you feel and how you show up matters far more than the apps, the matches, or the strategy.

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In this episode, I explore how perfectionism is not just a personality quirk but actually a protective mechanism.

We’ll look at why anxious partners often try to perfect themselves to earn love and avoid rejection, while avoidant partners unconsciously demand perfection from others to avoid vulnerability or disappointment.

I talk about where these patterns come from, how they protect us from feeling unworthy or unsafe, and what it looks like to move toward.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re either “too much” or that no one is ever quite “enough,” this conversation will help you see the perfectionism underneath - and how healing it can bring you closer to love.

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