Healing Anxious Attachment

By Johanna AdriaansenSociety & Culture Religion & Spirituality Education Self-Improvement Spirituality Relationships

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Healing Anxious Attachment episodes

October 09Can Avoidant Men Commit? OUR WEDDING STORY
We take you inside our wedding in Canada: a ceremony that opened with a meditation, a secondhand gift circle instead of presents, and witnesses we chose for who they are to us, not for the role they'd traditionally play.
If you're in an anxious-avoidant relationship, this one is for you.
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24 min
October 02Can an Avoidant Man Commit? OUR ENGAGEMENT STORY
Can an avoidant man commit? Our engagement was not picture-perfect. We were aligned on a future together but had never talked about getting engaged, so when it happened spontaneously, it brought up uncertainty, stress and contraction as well as joy.
We get honest about how an avoidant and anxious pairing shows up in a moment of big commitment. We also share the personal work that helped us stay steady, including journaling, coaching and learning to move through fear loops rather than pushing emotions away or putting them on each other.
If you're in a relationship with an avoidant partner, or you're working on your own attachment patterns, this episode will make you feel a lot less alone.
📚 Book mentioned: The Game by Neil Strauss
A real look at what it takes - from both sides - to build a secure relationship.
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Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
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Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
42 min
September 21An Avoidant Man's Perspective: MEET MY HUSBAND
My husband joins me for an honest conversation about his path out of avoidant attachment - the pattern of intense connection followed by pulling away, and how he finally recognized it as his own to heal, not something caused by his partners.
We talk about the difference between "me" problems and "you" problems in relationships, the somatic work Björn did to shift beyond just intellectual understanding, and why healing is more like peeling an onion than crossing a finish line.
📚 Book mentioned: The Child in You by Stefanie Stahl
A real look at what it takes - from both sides - to build a secure relationship.
Go Deeper:
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us 🧡
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
42 min
September 14Why You're Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men
Why do so many of us find ourselves drawn to emotionally unavailable men - again and again?
In this episode, we unpack how low self-worth, harsh self-talk, and struggles like body dysmorphia and disordered eating quietly shape our relationship patterns.
We get into why breaking this cycle isn't about mindset or strategy. it's about the body and the nervous system, and why the real work starts before the relationship even begins.
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Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us 🧡
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
19 min
September 07How to Stay Cool When He Starts Pulling Away
He cancels plans, his tone shifts, he says he's busy, or needs space..and suddenly you're spiraling, convinced this is the moment he leaves.
In this episode, we talk about that panic and how to tell the difference between when it's time to self-soothe and give him room, and when it's actually time to have a conversation.
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Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
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Access the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Here 💗
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
19 min
August 16How to Date Like You Don't Need Him to Choose You
Getting a man who's willing to commit isn't about being more available, liking what he likes, or being "perfect." It's the opposite.
In this episode: slowing down instead of rushing in, asking yourself how does this make me feel, paying attention to his communication and choices, and keeping your options open. Because staying in your power starts with staying with yourself first.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Nervous System Reset Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
16 min
August 04When You Feel Crazy for being Triggered by 'Small' Things
I'm sharing why those "small" triggers feel big. Why you might feel activated from a text left on read, or 'that tone' from someone you love.
It's rarely actually about the small thing.
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Join me inside Becoming Her - the program where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
23 min
July 025 Reasons I Knew He (My Fiancé) Was Secure
I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own relationship and sharing the 5 things I noticed about my now-fiancé that told me - this one is different.
After years of dating avoidant men and convincing myself the anxiety was just chemistry, experiencing security for the first time was genuinely disorienting. I almost didn't trust it.
In this episode I cover the five signs that changed everything for me - from the way he showed up on day one, to the moment he was willing to walk away rather than pressure me, to what it finally felt like to be truly held in my emotions.
If you're not sure what you're looking for, or you keep finding yourself in the same cycles - this one is for you.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
14 min
June 28Why You're Confident Everywhere... Except With Him
We're getting into why dating triggers anxiety that shows up nowhere else in your life, and what your attachment system is actually doing when real feelings are involved.
If love is the one area where all your internal composure goes out the window, this one will help you understand why.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
15 min
June 10How to Receive as a Strong and Capable Woman
You know you over-give. You know you find it hard to receive. You've probably known for a while.
So why hasn't anything changed?
In part 2, we get into what's actually keeping you stuck - and what it looks like to start softening without losing yourself.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A monthly
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
16 min

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Let's talk about the realll experience as a woman who is craving to be in that book-worthy loving relationship but knows her old patterns are getting in the way.