We're getting into why dating triggers anxiety that shows up nowhere else in your life, and what your attachment system is actually doing when real feelings are involved.

If love is the one area where all your internal composure goes out the window, this one will help you understand why.

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You know you over-give. You know you find it hard to receive. You've probably known for a while.

So why hasn't anything changed?

In part 2, we get into what's actually keeping you stuck - and what it looks like to start softening without losing yourself.

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You handle everything. You've built a life that proves you don't need anyone.

So why does it still feel like nobody really sees you?

In this episode, we get into why the very thing that makes you so capable is the same thing keeping real intimacy out - and where it all started.

Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.

• Live workshop monthly
• Live Q&A July 14th
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An episode about Internal Family Systems. The psychology framework to identify the different parts of ourselves and how they interplay (or sabotage) us.

Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.

• Live workshop June 7th
• Live Q&A July 14th
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• 50+ somatic exercises

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No one is born with anxious attachment style. So the short answer is yes, you can change your attachment to secure!

In this epsiode you'll learn:

•⁠ ⁠Why no one is born with anxious attachment, and what actually created yours

•⁠ ⁠How your mother's nervous system shaped yours before you even had words for it

•⁠ ⁠Why books, therapy, and podcasts haven't been enough, and what's missing from most healing approaches

•⁠ ⁠The difference between knowing better in your mind and your body actually catching up

Join me live for coaching and somatic therapy workshops in Becoming Her 👉🏼 https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ep53-POD ✨

Working together 🌹:

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An episode to listen to when you're feeling anxious right now. Or, listen now and save the teaching for later 🫶🏼.

We also touch on how to regulate your emotions, come back to your own sense of safety, and create a more grounded, secure way of relating.

See in you in there!

GO DEEPER WITH JOHANNA 🦢

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We're diving into the dynamic between anxious women and non-committal men, and how over-availability and trying to hold everything together can unintentionally create the very outcome you don’t want.

We also touch on why anxious tendencies attract avoidant partners, and what truly creates the space for a man to step forward, invest, and choose you.

See in you in there!

GO DEEPER

Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡

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In a world that often glorifies constant closeness, this episode explores the power of space within relationships.

We dive into the concept of polarity - how attraction thrives when there’s a sense of individuality and magnetism between two people. Because when you’re always merged, something can start to fade.

We also touch on why space can feel especially important for avoidant partners and why many men, in particular, value freedom as a way to feel safe and open.

See in you in there!

Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamaria

GO DEEPER

Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡

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One week you feel empowered, hot, regulated, grounded, making progress. The next you're spiralling, your inner critic is screaming, and you're convinced you've undone everything you've worked for. It's not a a setback - it's your internal winter.

In this episode, we cover the four seasons of your cycle and how to eat, move, and schedule your life accordingly.

Plus the specific codes that helped me personally reduce luteal phase irritability.

You'll learn what cycle syncing looks like if you're on birth control, and an intro to seed cycling as an easy hormonal support tool.

See in you in there!

Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamaria

GO DEEPER

Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡

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What if your relationship with food isn’t just about food?

In this episode, I share my own struggles with disordered eating and anxious attachment, and the surprising parallels I’ve noticed between the two. From craving reassurance in relationships to seeking comfort or control through food, these patterns often stem from the same place - fear of abandonment, lack of safety, and a deep need for control.

This is a conversation about the emotional roots beneath these behaviours and what healing has looked like for me as I’ve started building more security within myself.

PS. On March 5th I'm hosting "The Language of the Body Workshop" which is a perfect intro to somatic therapy and will give you frameworks for understanding what it means to rewrite patterns on a subconscious level and free you of old stories, blocks, and even symptoms.

Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡

1. Over 30 guided somatic practices
2. 2 live calls a month
3. Next workshop March 5th! (Replay available)
4. Individualized coaching from Johanna

learn more here 💐

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