Healing Anxious Attachment

By Johanna AdriaansenSociety & Culture Religion & Spirituality Education Self-Improvement Spirituality Relationships

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Healing Anxious Attachment episodes

June 03The Independence Whiplash
You handle everything. You've built a life that proves you don't need anyone.
So why does it still feel like nobody really sees you?
In this episode, we get into why the very thing that makes you so capable is the same thing keeping real intimacy out - and where it all started.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop monthly
Live Q&A July 14th
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

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THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
16 min
May 21Anxious attachment is actually your body protecting you (and how to get it to stop)
An episode about Internal Family Systems. The psychology framework to identify the different parts of ourselves and how they interplay (or sabotage) us.
Join me inside Becoming Her - the group where self-aware women who are ready to go deeper than therapy come to liberate themselves from their wounds and patterns and into magnetism and mature love.
Live workshop June 7th
Live Q&A July 14th
Access the 21 day Foundations Path
50+ somatic exercises

-and more! First 7 Days Free >> Join Us
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
14 min
May 08 Can You Actually Heal Anxious Attachment?
No one is born with anxious attachment style. So the short answer is yes, you can change your attachment to secure!
In this epsiode you'll learn:
•⁠ ⁠Why no one is born with anxious attachment, and what actually created yours
•⁠ ⁠How your mother's nervous system shaped yours before you even had words for it
•⁠ ⁠Why books, therapy, and podcasts haven't been enough, and what's missing from most healing approaches
•⁠ ⁠The difference between knowing better in your mind and your body actually catching up
Join me live for coaching and somatic therapy workshops in Becoming Her 👉🏼 https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ep53-POD ✨
Working together 🌹:
1:1 Somatic healing - info + application
Becoming Her - group space, live workshops and coaching calls
Somatic Workshops - instant access to healing workshops
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Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
16 min
April 30 How to Calm Relationship Anxiety Right Now
An episode to listen to when you're feeling anxious right now. Or, listen now and save the teaching for later 🫶🏼.
We also touch on how to regulate your emotions, come back to your own sense of safety, and create a more grounded, secure way of relating.
See in you in there!
GO DEEPER WITH JOHANNA 🦢
Join me inside Becoming HER - the place you come when therapy and books haven't been enough. For the woman competent in other areas of life, but anxious in relationships.
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
15 min
April 13 Why Men Don't Commit to Anxious Women
We're diving into the dynamic between anxious women and non-committal men, and how over-availability and trying to hold everything together can unintentionally create the very outcome you don’t want.
We also touch on why anxious tendencies attract avoidant partners, and what truly creates the space for a man to step forward, invest, and choose you.
See in you in there!
GO DEEPER
Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
17 min
March 30 Why You Should Spend Time Away From Your Partner
In a world that often glorifies constant closeness, this episode explores the power of space within relationships.
We dive into the concept of polarity - how attraction thrives when there’s a sense of individuality and magnetism between two people. Because when you’re always merged, something can start to fade.
We also touch on why space can feel especially important for avoidant partners and why many men, in particular, value freedom as a way to feel safe and open.
See in you in there!
Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamaria
GO DEEPER
Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
14 min
March 16 Cycle Syncing for the Anxious Nervous System
One week you feel empowered, hot, regulated, grounded, making progress. The next you're spiralling, your inner critic is screaming, and you're convinced you've undone everything you've worked for. It's not a a setback - it's your internal winter.
In this episode, we cover the four seasons of your cycle and how to eat, move, and schedule your life accordingly.
Plus the specific codes that helped me personally reduce luteal phase irritability.
You'll learn what cycle syncing looks like if you're on birth control, and an intro to seed cycling as an easy hormonal support tool.
See in you in there!
Say Hi on Instagram - I love hearing from you @johhhannamaria
GO DEEPER
Join me inside Becoming Secure - a 3 Phase Method for changing your attachment from anxious to secure at the nervous system level 🧡
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
30 min
February 25What Disordered Eating & Anxious Attachment Have In Common
What if your relationship with food isn’t just about food?
In this episode, I share my own struggles with disordered eating and anxious attachment, and the surprising parallels I’ve noticed between the two. From craving reassurance in relationships to seeking comfort or control through food, these patterns often stem from the same place - fear of abandonment, lack of safety, and a deep need for control.
This is a conversation about the emotional roots beneath these behaviours and what healing has looked like for me as I’ve started building more security within myself.
PS. On March 5th I'm hosting "The Language of the Body Workshop" which is a perfect intro to somatic therapy and will give you frameworks for understanding what it means to rewrite patterns on a subconscious level and free you of old stories, blocks, and even symptoms.
Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡
Over 30 guided somatic practices
2 live calls a month
Next workshop March 5th! (Replay available)
Individualized coaching from Johanna

learn more here 💐
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
30 min
February 10ChatGPT Interviews Me! (and didn't hold back)
I asked chatgpt to play interviewer and focus on what would bring you the most value. Some of the questions we covered are:
"What's one moment in your healing anxious attachment journey that really changed the game for you?"
"When we hear that the other person isn't ready to deepen a relationship what's one practice we can do to deepen our self trust in those moments?"
"What's one daily ritual or mindset shift you'd recommend that can help women stay on track, especially on the tough days?"
"Many women feel their still repeating the same pattern of situationships, if you were sitting across from them right now, what's one first step you'd have them take, to break that cycle for good?"
"What's one gentle piece of guidance you'd offer, to help women step into that new chapter?"
"What's one word you'd love for your listeners to hold on to, as they step into their journey?"
Join the Becoming Secure women's membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡
Over 30 guided somatic practices
2 live calls a month
Individualized from Johanna

learn more here 💐
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
31 min
January 07 Why Effort, Patience, and People Pleasing Stops Working
In this episode, we explore what it means to move from forced to self-sourced. When external crutches like validation, and good-girl syndrome aren't enough and you’re called to become your own anchor.
This conversation unpacks the emotional shifts, inner resilience, and self-trust that are built when you stop outsourcing safety, validation, and direction.
If you’ve found yourself gripping and forcing to hold yourself through uncertainty, this episode is an invitation to step into deep self-reliance, inner security, and embodied confidence.
👑 ✨ SELF-SOURCED 8 Week Group Program Waitlisted 👑 ✨ Learn more.
An 8 week initiation into your own power, through and beyond healing anxious attachment into regulation, inner security, and amazing relationships.
https://link.becomingsecurecommunity.com/ss-ep45-btm
Mentioned in this episode:
THE LAUNCH PORTAL 🪞
A 12 week live container where I doula you through prepping and running your next launch in real time.
→ Structured guidance on where to spend your energy
→ Direct + mastermind feedback week-by-week
→ Somatic and energetic tools that keep you feeling confident, aligned, and relaxed the whole way through.
https://johannaschannel.short.gy/THE-LAUNCH-PORTAL
For the launch that's been simmering in your bones but you can't quite make yourself start.
34 min

About Healing Anxious Attachment

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Let's talk about the realll experience as a woman who is craving to be in that book-worthy loving relationship but knows her old patterns are getting in the way.