Embracing HER

Embracing HER

By Nathalie NimahEducationSelf-Improvement
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Embracing HER episodes

  • #97: "I stopped trying to bring things up because it never leads anywhere!"

    If you've stopped bringing things up in your relationship because it never seems to go well, this episode is for you.

    The tiptoeing. The rehearsing. The deciding it's just not worth the conflict. It feels like the safe option, but silence is actually the thing that will slowly poison the love between you.

    We dive into how waiting for them to change keeps us stuck and how reclaiming our agency and realising that doing your own work is the most powerful thing you can do.


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    42 min
  • #96: Why you always lose yourself in relationships & how to stop!

    In this episode we talk about the most common pattern for women in relationships: Losing ourselves.

    We do it all the time: The over-giving, the pretending we are fine, the walking on eggshells, the settling for less.

    We discuss the WHY behind this tendency in women and how to finally step out of it.

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    43 min
  • #95: Over-Functioning - When Doing More Gets Us Less

    If you're the one holding everything together in your relationship, you're planning, remembering, doing, this episode is for you.

    Over-functioning isn't a personality flaw. It's a pattern that made complete sense once upon a time. But in your relationships today, it's quietly creating the very distance you're trying to prevent.

    In this episode, I break down what over-functioning really looks like, the deeper anxiety driving it, how it affects intimacy and attraction and how to work with this pattern.

    Because the most loving thing you can do for your relationship might be to finally stop doing so much.


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    48 min
  • #94: "How the f&ck are we supposed to trust men?!"

    In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, we open up an honest and nuanced conversation about what it means to be a woman who desires love, intimacy, and partnership with men… while also feeling fear, distrust, and grief.


    We explore:

    • Why your rage, disgust, and hopelessness are valid responses, not something to suppress
    • The deeper cultural conditioning that shapes how men relate to women, and how women relate to themselves
    • Why “not all men” misses the point entirely
    • How to navigate dating and relationships without abandoning yourself


    Please listen with care 💛


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    39 min
  • #93: Healthy Conflict Culture in Relationships

    Most relationships don’t fail because of conflict.They fail because of how conflict is handled.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to create a healthy conflict culture, one where you can disagree, get triggered, and still stay on the same team.

    We’ll unpack:

    • Key ingredients for dysfunctional conflict culture
    • Key ingredients for HEALTHY conflict culture
    • How to get there as a couple

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    1 hr
  • #92: Why You Feel Secure When You're Single But All Your Patterns Return When You Start Dating

    You feel confident, grounded, and secure when you’re single…
    and then the moment you start dating, everything shifts.

    Suddenly you’re overthinking, second-guessing, craving reassurance, or pulling away and it feels like all your “old patterns” are back.

    In this episode, I break down why this happens (spoiler alert: it’s not because you’ve done something wrong), and how relationships activate the very parts of you that were never triggered when you were on your own.

    We’ll talk about nervous system activation, attachment patterns, and why true security isn’t built in isolation but in connection.


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    28 min
  • #91: Standards - How to define them & stick to them

    What does it actually mean to have standards in dating and relationships and why is it so hard to stick to them?

    In this episode, we move beyond surface-level advice and explore what standards really are: not a checklist of traits, but the conditions that allow you to feel safe, respected and fulfilled in a relationship.

    We talk about why so many women know their standards but still find themselves over-explaining, over-accommodating, and settling for less than they want.

    This episode will help you define your standards in a way that’s actually usable, and more importantly, build the capacity to hold them even when it’s uncomfortable.


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    56 min
  • #90: Why Closure is a Choice, not another Conversation

    Endlessly replaying conversations, waiting for a message that never comes, or holding out for the moment the other person finally explains why it ended. We tell ourselves that once we get that explanation, we'll be able to move on.

    But what if the pursuit of closure is actually what's keeping us stuck?

    In this episode, we're unpacking a hard truth: the closure we seek from someone else is often less about healing and more about keeping a door open, a quiet way of avoiding the grief that comes with truly letting go. As long as we're waiting on them, we don't have to fully face the reality that it's over.

    Real closure isn't something anyone can hand you. It's a choice. One you make before you feel ready, and often precisely because you don't. It's the decision to stop outsourcing your healing to someone who has already left the story, and to start facing the loss on your own terms.

    Because the door doesn't close when they explain themselves. It closes when you decide to stop waiting.


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    35 min
  • #89: Fear of Rejection - Why it Ruins Relationships & Makes Dating so Exhausting

    Fear of rejection is one of the most powerful (and often invisible) forces shaping how we show up in love.

    It’s the reason you don’t ask for what you really want.
    Why you settle for less than you deserve.
    Why you overthink, overgive, or stay silent when something doesn’t feel right.


    In this episode, we unpack how fear of rejection is formed, how it shows up in your relationships, and why trying to avoid rejection often leads to self-abandonment.

    I’ll walk you through the deeper nervous system dynamics behind this fear, and most importantly what actually helps you move through it.

    So you can start expressing your needs, setting boundaries, and letting yourself be seen… without feeling like everything is on the line.


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    44 min
  • #88: Should You Take a Break? How to use Relationship Breaks for Clarity, not Avoidance!

    In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, I answer a question that many couples find themselves facing at some point in a long-term relationship: Should we take a break? And if yes, how?

    Breaks can feel incredibly destabilizing, especially if you fear that space means the relationship is slowly ending. But when approached consciously, taking space can actually be a powerful tool for clarity, reflection, and resetting unhealthy dynamics.

    In this episode, I talk about how to approach breaks intentionally instead of using them as a vague “soft breakup.” We dive into why structure matters, how to create clarity around the purpose and length of a break, and what both partners need to agree on so the time apart actually serves the relationship rather than creating more confusion.


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    40 min

About Embracing HER

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Most of us learned that love has to be earned, so we over-function, keep the peace and swallow what we need. Embracing Her is about changing that, starting with your relationship to yourself.

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