Those “soft life” influencer videos? The stay-at-home girlfriends making lattes, baking bread, and living in perpetual golden hour? Yeah… it’s not the whole story.

In this episode, I break down why the soft girl dream is often a trap — built on economic dependence and social media illusion — and what it actually takes to create a truly soft, sustainable life.

You’ll learn:

• Why the influencer version of “soft life” is a luxury built on privilege
• The real risks of financial dependence
• How to design your own “soft-ish” life through freedom, flexibility & financial control
• The practical path to becoming work-optional — no man or corporate job required

If you’re craving less hustle and more ease, this episode shows you how to build softness on your own terms.

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Links & Resources:
→ Follow my Spain life on Instagram
→ Follow Move Abroad Coach on Facebook
→ Follow Tori Dunlap (Her First 100K) on Instagram
→ Follow Delyanne the Money Coach on Instagram
→ Financial Feminist Book

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