Blended Family Breakthrough

141. Can my kids be emotionally harmed by blended family dynamics?


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Every parent wants their kids to be safe, healthy, and supported as they grow up.

But as they head toward blending a family, many parents worry that stepfamily dynamics might actually cause harm — robbing their kids of a sense of stability and security.

The truth is there are some "easy wrong turns" that couples sometimes make that can increase the risks for emotional safety and relational stability for kids.

But the good news is that you can avoid the most common "easy wrong turns" with just a little understanding.  That's what we're talking about in this episode…

…we'll reveal some of the most common dynamics that can create challenges for kids so that you can make a course correction for your family — or avoid the "easy wrong turns" altogether!

If you're worried that blending could be negatively impacting your kids, listen in to discover what you can do to make a difference!

You'll Discover:

  • 3 of the most common "easy wrong turns" that can create emotional challenges for kids
  • Practical steps to avoid "easy wrong turns" and safeguard your kids as you blend
  • The impact of conflict on kids
  • Insights and strategies to keep you on track

Resources from this Episode:

  • Episodes on Understanding Kids' Perspectives
  • Episodes on Parenting and Discipline
  • Episode 132:  How Does Loss and Grief Impact Blended Family Integration?
  • Episode 99:  3 Tips to Help You Move Beyond Painful Guilt and Regret 
  • Book:  Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal
  • Episode 102:  4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1)
  • Episode 49:  Should Your Highest Priority be Your Marriage or Your Kids?
  • Episode 11:  3 Hidden Strengths for Imperfect Blended Families

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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