In this episode, we're unpacking a common—and harmful—myth in autism and AAC support: the idea that communication must be earned.

You'll hear why treating AAC as a reward makes regulation harder, not easier—and how unconditional access to communication supports regulation, trust, and participation, especially during autism meltdowns.

This episode reframes AAC as access, not a behavior strategy, and offers practical ways to support communication during real-life moments of distress.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why AAC should never be used as a reward

• How communication and regulation are deeply connected in autism

• What happens when AAC is removed during autism meltdowns

• Common autism meltdown causes related to communication breakdown

• Why withholding an AAC device can increase distress and shutdown

• How AAC supports self-advocacy and emotional safety

• What modeling AAC during dysregulation can look like (without pressure)

• How shifting adult mindset changes long-term outcomes

Key takeaways:

• Communication is a basic human right, not something children earn

• AAC supports regulation instead of waiting for it

• Withholding communication can increase meltdowns and reduce trust

• Modeling AAC without expectation builds safety and access

Try this today:

• Keep the AAC device available during moments of frustration or distress

• Model one regulation-related word (help, stop, or all done) without expecting a response

• Honor protests and communication attempts as meaningful

Want support using AAC with confidence?

If you're realizing AAC has been used conditionally—or you're unsure how to support communication during hard moments—you're not alone.

My AAC Bootcamp is designed to help educators and caregivers confidently model AAC across the entire day, including transitions, play, and moments of dysregulation.

AAC doesn't need to be perfect to be powerful. When communication is always available, regulation becomes more possible—for everyone.

Links & Related Podcast Episodes

• AAC Bootcamp Registration

• AAC Devices In The Classroom

• AAC - Getting Team Buy In