Are you ready for a very sexy smorgasbord of different perspectives & POVs? We’re breaking down the difference between kinks & fetishes.. whether it’s healthy to save sex for marriage.. and Throuples! Yep, you read that right -- we’re also diving deep into the world of polyamory (and how it’s totally different from being a sister-wife). 

Zuri talks to Sex Expert Gigi Engle about the G spot (and other sexy spots); why so many people are saying NO to hook-up culture and embracing celibacy; and how to have great phone sex (minus the awkward vibes...bc, yeah. it can get awk.). 

Next in our 'Real Woman, Real Story' segment: Zuri chats with Kay Kay, a 28-year-old virgin who is saving herself for marriage. Kay Kay opens up to Z on the reason she chose this lifestyle; if 'The Wait' ever gets difficult for her; and why she refuses to let purity culture define her decision.

Finally, Z chats with The Trifecta Love -- Kassandra, Carly, and Paoulo -- a committed polyamorous throuple (with 3MIL+ Tik Tok followers!) who live their love out loud by sharing their group love story with the world. They also open up about the difficulty of coming out to their families; confess if they ever struggle with jealousy; and how they let love lead the way in all of their relationships!

Let us know your favorite part of the convo: @ZuriHall + @HotHappyMess.

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Recent episodes: if ya feel like bingeing:

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 12: The Best Sex Ever Episode (What You’ve Been to Shy to Ask!!)

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 9: ...How to Be Single & (Not Just Pretend to) Love It 

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 7: It's 2021! Here’s The KEY to a Happier You!

Go back to the beginning --- ICYMI: Listen to Episode 1: How to Be Happy

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