Everyone keeps saying 2026 is the new 2016, and instead of romanticizing the past, I wanted to talk about how we can actually use the last decade to create the best era of our lives moving forward.In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest lesson I’ve learned since 2016: taking action beats overthinking every single time. We’re talking about confidence, discipline, people-pleasing, self-trust, gym anxiety, wellness, and why playing it safe is usually the thing holding you back the most.I also share mindset shifts from the book Relentless by Tim Grover, how successful people think differently, and why becoming your best self requires being willing to feel awkward, uncomfortable, and misunderstood...at least at first.If you’re feeling stuck, behind, or like you know you’re meant for more but keep hesitating, this episode is for you.✨ subscribe for weekly episodes about wellness, confidence, discipline, and becoming your best self✨ comment your biggest takeaway, i wanna hear it!!✨Get 10 free meals and free breakfast for life from HelloFresh with code HF-0449 https://www.filify.co/SHBn0 ✨ Get a free 10 travel of 850+ travel manuka honey sticks ($30) value with code STELLA https://manukora.com/STELLAEnjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – 2026 is the new 2016 & reflecting on the last decade01:10 – why action matters more than talent or timing02:15 – my biggest regret: waiting instead of trying03:20 – why playing it safe keeps you stuck04:20 – lessons from successful people & ceos05:35 – leadership & raising your standards06:45 – gym anxiety, feeling awkward & doing it anyway08:00 – confidence, self-respect & owning your energy09:10 – why caring less about others changes everything10:35 – knowing your values so opinions don’t derail you11:30 – “do the work” quote & discipline mindset12:45 – people-pleasing vs self-trust14:00 – choosing your best self daily (even when it’s uncomfortable)15:55 – real-life examples of choosing confidence17:05 – taking action vs staying invisible18:10 – reflecting on regrets & lessons learned19:05 – wellness habits, gym goals & fitness mindset22:50 – discipline, consistency & staying locked in24:00 – final thoughts on becoming your best self#StellaRaePodcast