✨ Go to my sponsor https://trylco.com/stellarae and use code stellarae to get 20% off select tests - Get the insights you need to live a healthier life spring is the real new year, and this season is the perfect time to reset your mindset, your habits, and the direction of your life.in today’s episode of the stellaray podcast, i’m talking about how to actually step into alignment this spring and why mindset, action, and intuition all have to work together if you want to create real change.i also open up about one of the hardest periods of my life after moving to new york, how i got out of a toxic and abusive relationship, and the mindset shifts that helped me rebuild my confidence and move forward.if you’re trying to reset your life, level up this spring, or get out of a difficult situation, this episode is for you.subscribe to the podcast if you want more episodes about mindset, self-growth, wellness, relationships, and becoming your best self.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!✨Get up to 10 free meals and free breakfast for LIFE with HelloFresh! Use code HF-0449 https://www.filify.co/SHBn0 ✨Get 20% off LabCorp tests with code stellarae https://trylco.com/stellarae ✨Get a free 10 pack of manuka honey sticks from Manukora with code STELLA https://manukora.com/STELLAMY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtinstagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 why the real new year starts in spring01:05 using every experience as energy for growth02:10 the mindset shift that changes everything02:45 why people are so flaky today04:00 the real reason we avoid things we want05:30 pushing through discomfort and anxiety06:50 feminine energy vs discipline (you need both)08:20 how the universe aligns opportunities09:10 staying locked in with food10:30 how i ended up in a dark place after moving to new york11:20 being in an abusive relationship and losing myself12:20 the moment i knew i had to leave13:10 why toxic relationships can feel addictive14:00 how friends and family helped me get out15:10 rebuilding confidence and energy after leaving16:00 the biggest lesson i learned from that time17:00 trusting your intuition and aligning with your values18:00 recognizing opportunities and taking action19:10 how living in new york changed my mindset20:20 easy health testing21:10 encouragement if you’re going through a hard time21:45 spring lock-in habits and wellness routines22:40 love story on hulu recap + relationship dynamics24:00 the problem with people pleasing in relationships25:00 why the show feels like a cautionary tale#StellaRaePodcast

Get up to 10 free meals and free breakfast for life from HelloFresh with my code HF-0449 https://www.filify.co/SHBn0 If you’ve been feeling like January was just the warm-up… you’re not wrong.In this episode, I’m breaking down why spring is the real new year — astrologically, energetically, and spiritually — and how to use this season to finally get everything you want.We’re talking about:✨Manifestation vs. delusion✨Law of attraction + discipline (the real combo)✨Getting out of your comfort zone✨Trusting your intuition (even the “mystical” vibes)✨Speaking what you want into existence✨Feminine energy + masculine drive✨Why presence and mindfulness change everything✨And yes… my thoughts on Love Story on Hulu and what it reveals about relationships, ego, and standardsThis is your reminder that you are powerful. Spring is about blooming, stepping into your confidence, and raising your standards — in your goals, your habits, and your relationships.If you’re ready for a glow up that’s actually grounded and aligned, this one’s for you.Don’t forget to subscribe and share with a baddie who’s leveling up this season 🌸Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – spring is the real new year (and why january is just the prelude)01:35 – lunar new year, aries season & why march feels like a reset02:15 – hello fresh sponsor + easy lock-in meals03:10 – where do you want to be one year from now?04:20 – focusing on the feeling instead of rigid goals05:25 – the “lol mindset” and emotional resilience06:45 – everything is temporary (even bad moods & pms spirals)08:00 – presence, mindfulness & why most people are overstimulated10:15 – why constant distraction is blocking your growth12:00 – manifestation + gratitude + being careful with your words14:00 – the train story: intuition vs. mystical vibes16:20 – feminine energy + discipline = the real power combo18:30 – getting out of your comfort zone at the gym22:50 – spring glow up energy & refreshing your wardrobe23:00 – love story on hulu: jfk jr, ego & chaotic romance25:20 – actions over words in relationships27:00 – engagement culture, marriage stats & reality checks29:30 – protecting your freedom as a woman31:00 – social media double standards in relationships32:30 – final thoughts: choose yourself this spring#StellaRaePodcast

Get up to 10 free meals & free breakfast for lifeee from HelloFresh with my code HF-0449 https://www.filify.co/SHBn0 !!!The winter arc was cute… but it’s almosttt officially step our swag up spring.In this episode, I’m breaking down what “swag” actually means (hint: it’s confidence, clarity, and being solution-oriented) and why so many of us feel stuck, bored, or low-energy when we’re not actively working toward something meaningful.We talk about:✨why confidence comes from having a mission✨how your comfort zone is secretly holding you back✨what elite athletes understand about mindset and perseverance✨why most people live in a victim mindset (and how to shift out of it)✨being solution-oriented instead of reactive✨mindfulness, discipline, and leveling up your daily habits✨spring cleaning your space (and your energy)I share lessons from reading Eleven Rings by Phil Jackson, watching The Last Dance, and diving into that relentless, high-performance mindset, but applying it to real life, self-growth, and becoming your most confident self.This is your reminder that:every day mattersevery moment is an opportunityand swag is built through small daily decisions fr frLet’s step our swag up this spring yallEnjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Eleven Rings by Phil Jackson https://amzn.to/3MZRhPURelentless by Tim Grover https://amzn.to/4azkTg4W1nner by Tim Grover https://amzn.to/4azkTg4MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#StellaRaePodcast

Hey yall, and welcome back!! It’s 2026, and we are officially doneee treating our “weaknesses” like flaws. In this episode, I’m breaking down how your insecurities, fears, and obstacles are actually the gateway to your next level...if you know how to work with them instead of against them.I share practical ways to reframe challenges, take action when things feel uncomfortable, and turn everyday moments into opportunities for real self-growth.We talk about:why avoiding discomfort keeps you stuckhow to rewire your brain to act instead of overthinkthe connection between daily habits and long-term successovercoming people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and self-doubtusing obstacles as fuel for confidence, discipline, and alignmentIf you’re trying to level up in 2026, build mental resilience, improve confidence, or step into a stronger version of yourself — this episode is your reminder that the way forward is through.Lock in, challenge yourself this week, and let’s grow.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – why your “weaknesses” are actually your greatest strength00:48 – the mindset shift that changes everything in 202601:35 – why the obstacle is the way hit me so hard02:45 – why big goals feel overwhelming (and how to start anyway)03:30 – mastering the level you’re currently at04:15 – what elite athletes understand about growth and discipline05:20 – why avoiding discomfort keeps you stuck06:25 – being honest with yourself about fear, anxiety & avoidance07:30 – the power of facing what makes you uncomfortable08:35 – small daily moments that build confidence fast09:40 – taking action instead of overthinking10:55 – how discomfort rewires your brain for success12:05 – shifting out of victim mindset into growth mindset13:15 – why the path of least resistance holds you back14:20 – taking pride in your space, habits, and daily life15:30 – pushing past embarrassment and fear of judgment16:35 – social discomfort, alcohol, and confidence without crutches17:40 – viewing problems as opportunities to level up18:15 – final reminder: lock in and use obstacles to your advantage#StellaRaePodcast

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Hey yall! In today’s episode, I’m diving into dopamine, addiction, and the overstimulation we’re all living in, from endless scrolling and shopping to food, alcohol, and constant consumption. After reading dopamine nation, I break down why these habits are so hard to quit, how dopamine crashes actually work, and why “dopamine detoxes” have become so trendy lately.

We also talk about consumerism, shopping addiction, screen time, and the small systems I use to reduce overstimulation and feel more present in my daily life.

in the second half, I get into a bigger cultural conversation: is wellness being “trendy” actually a bad thing? I unpack the idea that health, fitness, Pilates, and not drinking are part of a conservative pipeline, look at real data around declining alcohol consumption, and share my honest take on whether prioritizing your health is something we should ever feel weird about.This episode is for anyone who feels overstimulated, bored, addicted to their phone, overwhelmed by modern life, or confused about wellness trends, and wants to be more intentional, grounded, and aligned moving forward.

Book mentioned, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence by Dr Anna Lembke https://amzn.to/3MlEBT5

Why Gen Z Is Drinking Less https://time.com/7203140/gen-z-drinking-less-alcohol/

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Hey yall! In this episode of the Stella Rae Podcast, I’m sitting down with Scarlett Leung, the co-founder of Pretty Tasty Tea, the viral collagen iced tea brand now in CVS, Target, Sprouts, and thousands of stores nationwide.Scarlett shares her real story of going from Deloitte and corporate fashion to launching startups in fertility, wellness, and now functional beverages. We talk about burnout, career pivots, Eastern medicine, food as medicine, and how she learned to build a business without sacrificing her health or happiness.If you’re feeling stuck in your career, burned out, or craving a more aligned version of success, this episode will change the way you think about work, wellness, and what it actually means to “make it.”We also get into how Scarlett plans her year based on how she wants to feel, why she believes in leaving space for rest, and how she built a life and business that actually supports her nervous system.This is for the girlies who want to grow, glow up, and still protect their peace.Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Connect with Scarlett & Pretty Tasty Tea:https://www.prettytasty.com/https://www.instagram.com/drinkprettytasty/https://www.linkedin.com/in/scarlett-leung/I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtFollow me!instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – scarlett introduces pretty tasty tea01:05 – how collagen and chinese medicine inspired her brand02:45 – from deloitte to fashion to startups03:30 – being recruited to start an egg freezing company05:10 – why being a generalist made her a better founder06:30 – growing up with eastern medicine and food as medicine08:20 – winter wellness tips and immune support10:15 – dealing with self doubt as a ceo11:40 – setting goals based on how you want to feel13:10 – her yearly reflection and planning system14:40 – manifestation, alignment, and intuition16:30 – building a career that includes fun and creativity17:50 – how to find work that fits your values19:10 – why it’s never too late to change careers20:10 – networking and building a diverse friend group22:20 – trying new paths without quitting everything23:30 – chef school, burnout, and funny career detours25:20 – creating a healthier work culture as a ceo27:00 – how she schedules rest and avoids burnout29:10 – planning workouts and protecting personal time30:40 – overstimulation, introversion, and needing alone time31:30 – astrology, scorpio energy, and 2026 vibes33:00 – her advice for burnout and career pivots35:00 – taking leaps of faith36:10 – where to find pretty tasty tea and scarlett#StellaRaePodcast

Everyone keeps saying 2026 is the new 2016, and instead of romanticizing the past, I wanted to talk about how we can actually use the last decade to create the best era of our lives moving forward.In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest lesson I’ve learned since 2016: taking action beats overthinking every single time. We’re talking about confidence, discipline, people-pleasing, self-trust, gym anxiety, wellness, and why playing it safe is usually the thing holding you back the most.I also share mindset shifts from the book Relentless by Tim Grover, how successful people think differently, and why becoming your best self requires being willing to feel awkward, uncomfortable, and misunderstood...at least at first.If you’re feeling stuck, behind, or like you know you’re meant for more but keep hesitating, this episode is for you.✨ subscribe for weekly episodes about wellness, confidence, discipline, and becoming your best self✨ comment your biggest takeaway, i wanna hear it!!✨Get 10 free meals and free breakfast for life from HelloFresh with code HF-0449 https://www.filify.co/SHBn0 ✨ Get a free 10 travel of 850+ travel manuka honey sticks ($30) value with code STELLA https://manukora.com/STELLAEnjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – 2026 is the new 2016 & reflecting on the last decade01:10 – why action matters more than talent or timing02:15 – my biggest regret: waiting instead of trying03:20 – why playing it safe keeps you stuck04:20 – lessons from successful people & ceos05:35 – leadership & raising your standards06:45 – gym anxiety, feeling awkward & doing it anyway08:00 – confidence, self-respect & owning your energy09:10 – why caring less about others changes everything10:35 – knowing your values so opinions don’t derail you11:30 – “do the work” quote & discipline mindset12:45 – people-pleasing vs self-trust14:00 – choosing your best self daily (even when it’s uncomfortable)15:55 – real-life examples of choosing confidence17:05 – taking action vs staying invisible18:10 – reflecting on regrets & lessons learned19:05 – wellness habits, gym goals & fitness mindset22:50 – discipline, consistency & staying locked in24:00 – final thoughts on becoming your best self#StellaRaePodcast

Hey yall, welcome back!! In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with Amy Vaughan, CEO of Together Digital, a powerful community of women in marketing, tech, and leadership who believe in real connection over surface-level networking. Amy has built her career through bold pivots, resilience, and community, and in this conversation she breaks down what it actually takes to rebuild confidence, navigate career changes, and stop feeling behind in life.We talk about everything from imposter syndrome and leadership, to why networking is the missing link for so many women, to how to trust yourself when you’re in the middle of a big identity shift. Amy shares her journey from working in advertising and creative leadership to becoming the CEO of a women-led digital collective, and how motherhood, burnout, and career pressure reshaped how she defines success.If you’re feeling stuck, unsure about your career, or craving deeper friendships and support, this episode will give you a whole new perspective. Amy is truly the kind of big-sister CEO who tells you the truth, gives you the tools, and reminds you that you’re not behind.This episode covers:career pivots, building confidence, imposter syndrome, networking for women, community, leadership, taking up space, and creating a life and career that actually feels aligned.Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes on confidence, wellness, personal growth, and becoming your best self in 2026 💫Connect with Amy!!https://www.linkedin.com/in/amypvaughan/ https://www.instagram.com/_amypvaughan/?hl=enhttps://www.togetherindigital.com/Get $1000 off the health coach certification program I did with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtFollow me!!instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 – new year mindset + feeling behind vs starting fresh01:32 – amy’s journey from pre-med to creative + marketing03:38 – how a small opportunity changed her entire career path05:43 – moving to england and taking career risks07:08 – climbing the ladder and realizing success didn’t equal happiness08:25 – motherhood, being underestimated, and finding together digital10:15 – becoming ceo and leading a women-led community12:52 – how community and networking change everything15:10 – building confidence through action and being “delusional”17:04 – why connections matter more than resumes18:53 – how to build community in a new city or season of life22:32 – networking without feeling awkward or desperate24:56 – breaking big goals into small steps25:46 – trusting your intuition and making aligned decisions29:10 – confidence vs knowing yourself31:07 – how failure builds real self-belief34:26 – risk-taking, leadership, and imposter syndrome37:04 – mentors, asking for advice, and trusting yourself41:39 – how to use mentorship without losing your own voice43:12 – what amy would tell her younger self44:30 – why everything is happening for you46:20 – building a powerful, diverse support system47:00 – where to find amy + together digital#StellaRaePodcast

Hey yall, HAPPY NEW YEAR!! In this first episode of 2026, I’m talking all about how to actually reset for the new year without feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or behind. New Year’s resolutions can bring motivation, but they can also bring stress, pressure, and perfectionism, especially if you feel like you “should’ve done more” last year.In this episode, I share my approach to setting goals in 2026 by starting with an ideal vision, focusing on one habit at a time, and building momentum instead of trying to change everything at once. I break down why New Year’s resolutions fail, how to make goals feel sustainable, and how to enjoy the process instead of rushing to the outcome.I also give a full update on what’s been working for me in the gym — from training to failure, simplifying my workouts, improving my cardio, and overcoming gym anxiety, plus realistic wellness habits that support both physical and mental health during winter.We also talk about:✨How to stay motivated in January without burning out✨Why winter is for building habits, not perfection✨My current gym split, training style, and mindset shifts✨Cardio, steps, supplements, and grocery habits that support consistency✨How to handle crushes without losing your focus or energyIf you’re looking for a realistic New Year reset, fitness motivation, or a grounded mindset shift to start 2026 strong, this episode is for you.✨ Let me know what habit you’re focusing on this January and what you want more of this year.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Preworkout I currently take: https://amzn.to/4jwPjT1Creatine I currently take: https://amzn.to/4jvbYPtGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=103026300:00 welcome to 2026 + the pressure of new year energy01:12 why new year motivation feels overwhelming02:13 imagining your ideal life + how you actually want to feel03:45 why everything in your life affects everything else04:36 why most new year’s resolutions fail05:38 how to choose one focus instead of doing too much06:53 realistic january goals that actually stick07:58 why movement (even imperfect) matters more than motivation09:10 why january is about foundation, not instant results10:22 my gym journey + why consistency didn’t always look perfect11:30 how i structure my workouts now12:58 training to failure + doing less but better workouts13:51 why slowing down movements changed my results15:10 creatine, pre-workout, and what actually helped16:32 cardio, steps, and why it won’t ruin your gains18:14 how to get over gym anxiety as a woman19:45 grocery resets, freezer staples, and winter wellness21:15 supplements, vitamin d, and seasonal mental health22:49 how to handle a crush without losing your focus24:30 why crushes should fuel you, not distract you26:15 dating boundaries + not giving men the upper hand27:24 final thoughts on discipline, confidence, and locking in28:10 what i want you to focus on this january28:55 closing thoughts + what’s coming next on the podcast#StellaRaePodcast

Hey yall!! This is the final podcast episode of 2025, and I wanted to end the year on a real, grounded, locked-in note...not toxic positivity, not victim mentality, just honesty.In this episode, I talk about what it actually means to end the year strong, how I’m shifting into a locked-in baddie mindset for 2026, and why feeling stuck, unmotivated, or off-track isn’t random, it’s usually a sign you’re out of alignment with your why.We get into:✨Why life is supposed to feel uncomfortable when you’re not aligned✨How connecting to your ideal self changes everything✨The difference between “I should” habits vs. habits that actually stick✨Taking accountability without shaming yourself✨Dating, discernment, red flags, and choosing better for yourself✨Why staying in a victim mindset keeps you stuck✨How your algorithms, media, and habits shape your mindset✨A reflection exercise that completely shifted how I view the last 10 years✨Why memories, risks, and saying yes matter more than routines aloneThis episode is for anyone who wants to go into 2026 clear, empowered, and intentional, not repeating the same year again. If you’re ready to lock in, reflect, and take responsibility for the life you’re building, this one’s for you.✨ Follow the podcast, subscribe, and get ready. I’m already booking guests for 2026!!Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Get $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#StellaRaePodcast

00:00 – Final episode of 2025 + ending the year strong
01:20 – What “locked-in baddie mindset” actually means
02:16 – Overwhelm, “I should” energy & why it drains you
03:10 – Start with your why (not motivation)
04:35 – Making habits part of the plan, not a mood
05:00 – Dating rant: standards, discernment & confusion online
06:58 – Red flags we ignore (and why bad dates keep happening)
08:53 – Accountability vs. victim mindset (important distinction)
10:56 – Why avoiding responsibility keeps you stuck
13:14 – The 2016 nostalgia exercise that changed my perspective
15:34 – Memories, risks & why routine alone isn’t enough
17:00 – Gratitude, podcast reflections & heading into 2026