In this conversation, Stella Rae reflects on her journey as a content creator, discussing the evolution of social media platforms and the impact of short-form content on creativity and mental health. She shares her thoughts on body image trends influenced by social media, the pressures of being a content creator, and the importance of maintaining mental health in the face of societal expectations. Additionally, she explores the challenges and rewards of adult responsibilities and the desire for autonomy in life.TakeawaysStella reflects on the changes in content creation over the years.The pressure of short-form content can lead to burnout.Children aspire to be YouTubers, reflecting societal values.Algorithms significantly influence content visibility and creativity.Social media trends can negatively impact body image perceptions.Mental health is affected by the content we consume.It's essential to protect one's mental health from harmful trends.Adult responsibilities can provide a sense of autonomy and freedom.Self-awareness and personal growth are crucial in adulthood.The desire for knowledge and understanding is a common theme in personal development.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 The Evolution of Content Creation05:05 The Impact of Short-Form Content10:13 Body Image and Social Media Trends15:08 Mental Health and Self-Perception19:15 Navigating Adult Responsibilities and Autonomy#StellaRaePodcast

In this episode, Stella Rae discusses the transformative power of manifestation and practical steps to change one's life within 90 days. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing feelings of dissatisfaction, self-reflection, and the need for vulnerability in the process of personal growth. Stella shares her journey of content creation, the significance of setting small, achievable goals, and the impact of lifestyle choices on overall well-being. The conversation also touches on social dynamics, self-identity, and cultural commentary, providing listeners with a holistic view of personal development. She also talks about season 3 of The White Lotus, overcoming negative self talk, and making the podcast longer!! Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! Start a free trial https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjChange begins with recognizing feelings of dissatisfaction.Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth.Vulnerability is necessary for making meaningful changes.Setting small, achievable goals can lead to success.Work smarter, not harder to achieve your goals.Visualizing your ideal self can motivate change.The pros of change must outweigh the cons for success.Lifestyle choices significantly impact mental health.Social dynamics can influence personal decisions.Cultural perceptions can affect self-identity.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Life Change and Manifestation02:49 Recognizing the Need for Change06:04 Practical Steps for Transformation09:10 Visualizing Your Ideal Self12:00 Creating Small Wins for Success14:51 The Impact of Lifestyle Choices18:01 Navigating Social Dynamics and Self-Reflection21:13 Cultural Commentary and Personal Insightsjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#StellaRaePodcast

In this episode of the Stellar Rae podcast, Dr. Laura Gallagher discusses the importance of self-acceptance and its relationship with self-growth. Drawing from her experiences at NASA and her journey in organizational psychology, she emphasizes that self-acceptance is not the opposite of self-improvement but rather a crucial component that enhances personal development. The conversation explores the psychological safety in workplaces, the journey of self-discovery, and the paradox of self-acceptance and self-improvement, particularly for high achievers. In this conversation, Dr. Laura Gallaher and Stella Rae explore the complexities of stress, self-acceptance, and personal growth. Dr. Gallaher emphasizes that stress is a subjective experience influenced by the meanings we assign to situations. She discusses the importance of self-acceptance and offers practical strategies for overcoming self-judgment, including the practice of 'taking credit' for personal achievements. The dialogue also delves into the relationship between the inner critic and the inner champion, advocating for a compassionate approach to self-talk. Dr. Gallaher shares daily habits that foster self-acceptance, including forgiveness and self-reflection, ultimately encouraging listeners to cultivate resilience and emotional well-being.Connect with Dr Gallaher on LinkedIn! https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-gallaher-phd/ Take the self acceptance quiz: https://selfacceptancequiz.com/ Chapters00:00 Introduction to Self-Acceptance02:00 The NASA Experience and Psychological Safety04:56 The Journey to Self-Acceptance09:53 Defining Self-Acceptance vs. Self-Esteem15:04 The Paradox of Self-Acceptance and Self-Improvement20:02 The Importance of Self-Acceptance in High Achievers23:47 Understanding Stress: A Personal Perspective28:01 The Journey to Self-Acceptance32:47 Practical Steps to Self-Improvement39:01 Navigating the Inner Critic and Champion44:05 Daily Habits for Self-AcceptanceEnjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#StellaRaePodcast

In this episode of the Stella Rae Podcast, Stella discusses the importance of living authentically and not succumbing to societal pressures regarding marriage and motherhood. She explores the rise of trad-wife content, the implications of choosing a child-free lifestyle, and the significance of self-love in relationships. Stella emphasizes the need for women to prioritize their happiness and make decisions based on their values rather than external expectations.Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!

Check out MarleySpoon meal boxes, the only meal box approved by Martha Stewart!! Get up to $250 off the first 5 boxes for new customers and free shipping on the first box. https://www.filify.co/SH4DtMY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjTakeawaysAre you truly living your life for yourself or for others?There's a huge rise in trad-wife content reflecting societal pressures.Living for oneself is crucial in today's societal climate.Desperation to settle down can lead to unfortunate marriages.Self-love is essential before entering a relationship.Women over 45 who are child-free often lead fulfilling lives.You deserve happiness regardless of societal expectations.Prioritize your own happiness and values in life decisions.Align your expectations with your personal goals.It's important to make decisions that reflect how you want to feel.join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 Living for Yourself vs. Societal Expectations03:03 The Rise of TradWife Content and Its Impact05:50 Navigating Relationships and Societal Pressures08:27 The Realities of Parenthood and Personal Freedom11:00 Prioritizing Self and Creating Your Dream Life#StellaRaePodcast

In this episode of the Stella Rae Podcast, Stella Rae discusses the significance of spring as the true New Year, emphasizing the importance of setting goals and redirecting energy for personal growth. She highlights the value of building sustainable habits, especially during periods of reflection such as retrogrades, and encourages listeners to cultivate hope and optimism in their lives.The real New Year starts in the spring.Winter is a time to hibernate and reflect.Spring symbolizes blooming and new beginnings.Setting goals during Aries season is crucial.Taking things away can help find clarity.Redirecting energy is essential for growth.Little habits lead to significant change over time.Building a solid foundation prevents burnout.Retrogrades are opportunities for reflection and decluttering.Hope and optimism are powerful tools for personal growth.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 Embracing the New Year in Spring03:08 Setting Goals and Finding Purpose05:54 Redirecting Energy for Growth09:12 Building Sustainable Habits11:58 Navigating Retrogrades and Reflection14:45 Cultivating Hope and Optimism#StellaRaePodcast

Get 50% off & free shipping on Factor meal kits! https://www.filify.co/SH48D with code STELLA50 In this episode of the Stella Rae Podcast, Stella discusses the concept of the male gaze and its pervasive influence on women's self-image and societal beauty standards. She explores how social media and content creators perpetuate these standards, often prioritizing male attention over authentic self-expression. Stella emphasizes the importance of personal branding, understanding one's audience, and the need to decenter men in relationships. She advocates for prioritizing self-worth, personal growth, and cultivating a fulfilling life beyond societal expectations.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!TakeawaysThe male gaze influences how women perceive themselves.Social media amplifies societal beauty standards and pressures.Content creators often cater to the male gaze for engagement.Understanding your audience is crucial for creators.Decentering men can lead to personal freedom and growth.Women often feel pressured to conform to traditional relationship roles.Self-worth should not be tied to external validation.Prioritizing personal goals enhances self-fulfillment.Building a supportive community is essential for mental health.Recognizing societal expectations can liberate personal choices.MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Keywordsmale gaze, body image, social media, content creators, personal branding, self-worth, relationships, women's empowerment, mental health, self-careChapters00:00 Introduction to the Male Gaze02:26 Impact of Social Media on Self-Image09:41 The Dangers of Hypersexualization in Content Creation12:46 Decentering Men in Relationships16:49 Prioritizing Self and Personal Growth#StellaRaePodcast

Get 50% off & free shipping on Factor meal boxes with my code STELLA50 https://www.filify.co/SH48DIn this episode, I discuss the importance of taking control of one's life and the dangers of operating from a place of desperation. I emphasize the need for self-love and confidence, explaining how these qualities can lead to healthier relationships and better life choices. The conversation also touches on the balance of feminine and masculine energy in society and the significance of prioritizing independence and self-care.TakeawaysNo one is coming to save you; take control of your life.Desperation can attract the wrong people into your life.You need to create a life that you love and are proud of.Self-confidence is key to avoiding harmful situations.It's important to have your own back and follow through on promises to yourself.Desperation repels the things you actually want.Decenter men in your life and focus on your own goals.True luxury is independence and self-sufficiency.Recognize red flags in relationships early on.This is your permission slip to start living for yourself. Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 Taking Control of Your Life02:59 The Dangers of Desperation05:58 Building Self-Confidence08:47 Navigating Relationships and Self-Worth11:55 The Balance of Feminine and Masculine Energy14:39 Prioritizing Independence and Self-CareKeywordsself-improvement, empowerment, relationships, self-confidence, feminine energy, independence, personal growth, self-worth, dating advice, mental health#StellaRaePodcast

In this conversation, Stella Rae and entrepreneur Bradley Rausch explore the intricate relationship between anxiety and success. Bradley shares his personal journey of overcoming anxiety, emphasizing the importance of understanding the fight or flight response and the need to surrender to feelings rather than fight or flee from them. They discuss practical strategies for reframing past experiences and managing future anxiety, highlighting the significance of self-awareness and emotional regulation in personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the necessity of managing emotions and anxiety through grounding techniques and self-advocacy, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings and seek knowledge for personal development.Follow Bradley!IG: https://www.instagram.com/bradleyyrausch/His podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6gYrLgsW0xoXNeKzqzae1J?si=c6a5018f54b34603&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabmn-WSG-qBJH_PgthCVOGLaMuSuKMzT0daJsbo1YNIKhHQGgR84iEBvfw_aem_HAIB0kj-DmAr0PcadvcQ2Q&nd=1&dlsi=7b0bce6aa1d54187LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradley-rausch/Takeaways:Anxiety can be transformed into a tool for success.Understanding fight or flight responses is crucial for managing anxiety.Surrendering to feelings allows for better emotional regulation.Past experiences do not define future outcomes.Self-awareness is key to personal growth and development.Punishing oneself for past mistakes hinders progress.It's important to create a life that accommodates feelings, not avoids them.Feelings are fleetingConfidence can be rebuilt through self-preservation and grace.Life continues despite feelings of anxiety or panic. People can learn to deal with difficult situations better.Finding balance between discomfort and rest is crucial.Curiosity can help overcome fears and self-doubt.Input-based goals are more empowering than outcome-based goals.We fear how we feel when doing hard things, not the tasks themselves.Building an upward spiral of small wins boosts motivation.Managing anxiety involves understanding and processing feelings.Grounding techniques can help regulate emotions effectively.Self-advocacy is essential for personal growth and development.Knowledge is a powerful tool for navigating life's challenges.Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselfgoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 Introduction to Anxiety and Success04:46 Understanding Fight or Flight Responses15:10 Surrendering to Feelings19:27 Reframing Past Experiences and Future Anxiety26:41 Embracing Hardship and Growth27:51 Finding Balance: Comfort Zone vs. Rest28:38 Curiosity as a Tool for Overcoming Fear30:48 Input vs. Output Goals: A New Perspective34:13 The Nature of Hard Things and Our Reactions36:24 Building an Upward Spiral of Progress37:50 Managing Anxiety and Regulating Emotions39:17 Grounding Techniques for Daily Calm45:24 Connecting and Sharing Resources#StellaRaePodcast

Get up to $150 off through 5 orders for new Dinnerly customers; plus free shipping on the first box, using my code STELLA https://www.filify.co/SH5k6In this episode, I discuss the detrimental effects of people pleasing on relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing red flags in friendships. I share personal anecdotes and practical tips for overcoming the fear of disappointing others, advocating for mindfulness and self-respect in social interactions. The conversation highlights the significance of genuine connections over superficial ones and encourages listeners to practice assertiveness in their relationships.Takeaways:Saying yes to everyone can ruin your relationships.People pleasing often leads to resentment and burnout.It's important to recognize red flags in friendships.Setting boundaries early on is crucial for healthy relationships.Actions speak louder than words in friendships.Over-explaining when declining invitations is unnecessary.Mindfulness can help in navigating social situations.Building self-respect starts with saying no.Friendships should be based on mutual respect and support.Practicing assertiveness can reduce anxiety in social interactions.Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 The Dangers of People Pleasing05:06 Recognizing Red Flags in Friendships09:48 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships14:56 Mindfulness and Overcoming Anxiety in Social Situations#stellaraepodcast Keywordspeople pleasing, relationships, boundaries, friendship red flags, self-care, anxiety, communication, personal growth, self-respect, emotional health

In this conversation, I discuss the detrimental effects of self-criticism and perfectionism on mental health and productivity. By fostering healthy habits and recognizing toxic habits, individuals can build confidence and redefine their understanding of success. Ultimately, self-love and acceptance are presented as foundational elements for personal growth and fulfillment.Takeaways:Bullying yourself does not lead to success.Chronic self-criticism triggers cortisol overload, harming mental health.Self-compassion enhances productivity and resilience.Perfectionism can hinder personal growth and achievement.External validation is not a sustainable source of self-worth.Healthy habits contribute to building self-confidence.Recognizing toxic relationships is essential for self-growth.Self-love involves deep alignment and acceptance of oneself.Redefining success is necessary for true fulfillment.Mindfulness and self-acceptance are crucial for personal well-being.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#stellaraepodcast Chapters00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism02:49 The Power of Mindfulness and Self-Compassion05:48 Building Confidence Through Healthy Habits08:59 Recognizing Toxic Relationships12:06 Redefining Success and Self-Love